You really are your worst enemy if you don’t have discipline
إِنَّ مِنْ أَحَبِّكُمْ إِلَيَّ وَأَقْرَبِكُمْ مِنِّي مَجْلِسًا يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ أَحَاسِنَكُمْ أَخْلَاقًا وَإِنَّ أَبْغَضَكُمْ إِلَيَّ وَأَبْعَدَكُمْ مِنِّي مَجْلِسًا يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ الثَّرْثَارُونَ وَالْمُتَشَدِّقُونَ وَالْمُتَفَيْهِقُونَ
Verily, the most beloved and nearest to my gathering on the Day of Resurrection are those of you with the best character. Verily, the most reprehensible of you to me and the furthest from my gathering on the Day of Resurrection will be the pompous, the extravagant, and the pretentious.
The Sehzade Mosque in Laleli, Istanbul (detail), c. 1915. Ludwig Hans Fischer
If you have sinned in private, make sure you do even lot more good deeds in private...
So that when the scales will be set on the day of judgement the latter will outweigh the former.
The Prophet ﷺ said,
“When death was approaching the Prophet Nuh عليه السلام, he said to his son,
‘I will narrate to you my bequest; I command you with two things and prohibit you from two things.
I command you with La ilaha illAllah (‘There is none worthy of worship in truth except Allaah),
if the seven heavens and the seven earths were placed upon a scale and La ilaha illAllah was placed on the other, then La ilaha illAllah would be heavier.
If the seven heavens and the seven earths were a closed off circle then La ilaha illAllah would be able to break it.
The second thing I command you with is Subhana Allaahi wa bihamdihi because it is a supplication for everything, and by it the creation is given its provision, and I prohibit you from shirk and pride.’”
[Al Silsila As Sahiha, 3130]
For @orangesara
اللَّهُمَّ أَحْسَنْتَ خَلْقِي فَأَحْسِنْ خُلُقِي
O Allah, as you have made my form excellent, make my character excellent.
Source: Musnad Aḥmad 23871, Grade: Sahih
Wallahi, everything in Islam, which is made haram, has been made haram for a reason. Don’t think your heart can handle the effects of such a sin. It honestly can’t.
Ye jo mohabbatein hoti hai na, insaan ko barbaad kr deti hai
Ibn Rajab Al-Hanbali رحمه الله said:
“How can a believer not shed tears at the departure of Ramadan, when he doesn’t even know whether he’ll be alive for its return or not?”
[لطائف المعارف ص ٢١٧]
May Allah allow us to witness plenty more Ramadan’s.