My photos of bumblebees on my lemon tree just weren’t coming out today so I just drew what they were doing instead
Peak cinema!
if you search “porn” right now, you will go to porn hub, and you will see, on that very first page, videos that are sexist, racist, incestuous, fetishising lesbians, paedophilic, etc. this is the mainstream porn. this is the surface. that is what most of 96% of men saw and decided to keep looking. I don’t say things I haven’t checked and so I looked and literally the first video on pornhub offered to me was a role play of a guy fucking his stepdaughter. In my country 99% of men have watched porn. just near every man you ever meet will have watched women degraded and humiliated and fetishised. and they enjoyed it.
Chatting with friends and one joked about not wanting IRL friends to know what she posts on TikTok.
I pointed out that she's linked to her A03.
(also her TikTok)
Stay safe out there
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I think the really insidious part of the whole "I don't need to forgive the people who hurt me" attitude that's so prominant nowadays, is that it perpetuates the cycle of abuse.
Not every person who does bad things has a tragedy fueling their behavior. But a lot of them do. You can be a victim and also an abuser. Those are not mutually exclusive things. In fact, one of the best ways to become an abuser is to take the pain of the injustice you've experienced and to let it fester inside you. And that is what happens if you don't forgive.
And before anyone tries to tell me that you can't forgive someone because that means letting them to continue hurting you. That's not what forgiveness is. Resuming a relationship with someone who hurt you is Reconciling. Forgiveness is when you choose to let go of the anger and the hate and the bitterness and heal. I know this is an honest misunderstanding, but it's a dangerous one.
You don't have to remain a victim in order to forgive. But if you do not forgive you will become the same as your abuser. That's not a risk, but a fact. The cycle of abuse can be broken but you have to choose to do it.
You have to choose to heal. You owe it others and to yourself.
Now THIS is a countdown I can get behind :D
'El Mayarah'. It means 'Stronger Together'.
One Week Until 6x08 airs
When the Apostle Paul said “Where, O Death, is your victory? Where, O Death, is your sting?” and John Donne said “Death, be not proud,” and the Arcadian Wild said “May you know Death lost already,” and
Independence Day wasn’t the day we became free as a nation.
July 4th, 1776 was the day we declared our intention to be free, whatever the cost.
This day is not about the freedom we possess, it’s about our resolution to obtain and defend our freedom even against insurmountable odds.
That’s the spirit of America: the little guy who won’t back down.
🇺🇸 Happy Independence Day, America. 🇺🇸
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