Your wife was always amused by how excited you became when she gave into your cuckold wish. It aroused her how you wanted to watch her seduce other men in bars. You would secretly watch her sitting alone in a bar as she confidently sipped her drink alone patient and confident a man would come along. And they always did. And when she went with him to a hotel room that hot smirk had you masturbating in the car waiting for her to pleasure that man. He didn't have to masturbate.
"What? Will I have sex with him? Well -- I really think he does expect that since we'll be sharing one hotel room the whole time -- and it's probably something he really needs now, but I promise I'll ask him to use protection. So like I said -- there's no reason for you to be so jealous about it."
Even though your wife seems to think that all she's doing is being a good friend to him, you still can't help feeling jealous and hurt, but there really isn't anything you can do without seeming to be a real jerk about it. It's just that you had always thought that you would be the one who would take her to Hawaii some day, and that it would be a really romantic place for the two of you to visit together. And now you have the pain of thinking about it being a romantic vacation for her -- but without you.
"My husband left us alone on purpose. "
I told her to wear something to distract the other guys.