(if you're struggling with manifesting different things - an sp, a career, because you think they should match: this is for you.)
Before anything else: you need to have a heart-to-heart with yourself.
Now, ever since I was a teenager I do it in the bathroom. That's right. I sit on the toilet and have endless conversations with myself. I play two characters: myself and myself as a therapist (what would I say to this person if they came to me for advice?). When I'm "portraying" the therapist, I do it with an open heart; "those are not my problems, I'm just listening to someone else, so I can be fully honest with them" (if that makes sense). Like REALLY find that counselor inside your mind; they are there, they just need to be called. It's like doing self-parenting work to heal from mother/father wounds.
I had a heart-to-heart with myself last night. I was experiencing a lot of anxiety regarding what I actually wanted, specially career-wise and "how that related to my sp". Here are some "highlights" of what my inner therapist told me.
WHY exactly do you want this career? What is your TRUE motivation for wanting this?
Me: "I am extremely focused on an sp right now, an sp who doesn't know me. A celebrity. So I keep trying to find the jobs that will give me the biggest chance to run into him. I want to become someone he admires."
Well, you say you believe in this law (of Assumption), right? Then why aren't you practicing it? The law says it is done. Doesn't matter how, or where, or why, you already have it. If you manifest that your sp is crazy for you no matter what you do for a living, if you manifest you two are together, if you have it in your 4D, if you REALLY have it on your 4D (if you can feel it, if you can live it in your mind, if thinking about it makes you happy, if you KNOW you have it because 4D IS THE REALITY), the Universe will make it reflect on your 3D, not you! Stop trying to generate situations, it's a lot simpler than you think: assume and continue assuming. It's done. It already happened. It'll reflect on your 3D one way or the other; it is not your job to choose/plan how or where or why it'll happen, it just will! In fact, if you keep doubting it will happen because you don't know EXACTLY the circumstances in which it will, this means you are doubting! And if you persist on your doubt, you are not persisting on your assumption. The doubt is taking control of your mind, not allowing you to persist on your assumption. If you don't ASSUME IT'S DONE, THEN I'M SORRY, BUT IT REALLY ISN'T! Trying to DIY the law (picking careers, fixing ways to get near your sp) is NOT TRUSTING THE LAW WORKS.
Now that you've realized you don't need to follow a specific path to have your sp, what exactly do YOU wanna do? What is that career that makes your heart beat faster, that makes you shiver; what is your dream job? Don't consider any other factors; forget about your sp, don't reminisce about it being "hard to get", don't think about money. And SPECIALLY don't think "what will I do if it doesn't work?" - that doubt is exactly what is going to keep you from living it. Think about that. What do you truly want to do? What do you want to do the most? If you take a minute to eliminate every obstacle society has invented for you, you'll find that answer inside of you.
Stay true to your heart and trust the process.
That's really all it takes. No masterplan, no connecting the dots. That is the Universe's job, not yours.
Suddenly those wallpaper quotes that go "what would Blair Waldorf do?" Seem to have more meaning!
The "Character Switch" Game: How to Shift Out of a Victim/Negative Mindset Instantly
Dearest Gentle Readers...
Tired of spiraling, overthinking and getting triggered by the 3d or your negative thoughts? Try this game and watch how fast your mindset shifts. There's a reason why you're stuck in the same loop. Time to break out of it. Whenever you catch yourself doubting, reacting to the 3D or overthinking, simply switch to a character who would never stress about this. There's already a version of you who has everything you want. Time to step in that reality and start thinking like that version.
I have been through a negative mind cycle where I just worry, overthink and let the old story faze me but this has been helping me change my mindset and make affirming a.k.a thinking in my favor more casual, natural and more fun. I used to flip my thoughts and it's fine if you do but I don't like to give it energy nor agree with it. I have a different way of doing it now. I like to dismiss it and correct it instead of reacting or getting triggered. Think how that version of you who has everything you want would react to the old story or the 3d.
Let's start!
Let's do it in steps so it's easy to understand. This is perfect if you wanna affirm without making it feel like a chore. You should just be the version of you who has your desires. So how do we play this game? Here it is.
1. Catch yourself whenever you're thinking negative, doubting, reacting or thinking of the old story
Be aware when you're doing all of this and catch yourself just when you start to doubt, hear a murmur of the old story, react, spiral or have negative thoughts. Notice that you're running an old script. Always pause and catch yourself. You don't want that to be your story anymore? Okay, don't fight it, don't judge it, don't pay too much attention to it and then you just dismiss it and correct it.
It's literally an old story, last month's magazine, last season's clothing or imagine it's just a hater trying to get to you. But we don't have to give it an emotional reaction or give it energy or have to fight it. How do we do it then, Rian? Then pay attention to the next step which is when this switch game really starts.
2. PICK YOUR FAVORITE CHARACTER TO EMBODY who has the energy and mindset you need for this
Yes, I always talk about embodying and it is one of my favorite ways to respond or affirm because it gives me the mindset I need to be the version of myself who has what she wants. And it's fun so why not have fun while manifesting? It's gonna help you in the end to have this new habit. It's like training your mind to be like the version of you who has your desires and why pick characters? First, not just any characters. We need high-value characters whose mindset and energy will boost our own. Especially ones who are strong minded, powerful, fierce, confident, detached, unbothered, unfazed by anything and those who have high self concept. Those who think they are worthy of their desires. They will help us train our mindsets to be like theirs.
This is the fun part of it but the next step is even more fun!
Now pick your favorite character, a character who makes you feel confident, one you admire and a character who you think would be the best in manifesting.
Personally, I like to switch it up sometimes based on my mood but my three main ones are Chanel Oberlin, Wednesday and Blair Waldorf. Sometimes Hermione.
Examples: Elle Woods, Chanel Oberlin, Blair Waldorf, Wednesday Addams, Hermione Granger, Veronica Lodge, Cheryl Blossom, Maddy Perez, Regina George, Katherine Pierce and so on
So pick your character or even your favorite celebrity if you want and let's move on to the next step!
3. Respond as that Character
Think like this: "Would Chanel Oberlin worry about this thought/doubt/old story? What would Chanel do? What would Blair Waldorf do?" No. They'd dismiss it and move on like it's an irrelevant thing. Like it's Chanel #5 showing Chanel Oberlin an outdated magazine but she runs the trend. Like Chanel #5 is showing Chanel that her haters are saying that she's not rich. Like it's last season's trend or clothing for her.
She would literally scoff and say:
"Oh please, as if I don't already have everything I want."
"Oh, you think I'm not rich? That's adorable. Do you need me to buy you some glasses? Or maybe a clue?"
"Ugh. Irrelevant. I always win. Next thought!"
"The old story? Outdated. A total flop. The only story that matters is this one. The new story, the one where I'm on top, everything is effortless and where I already have it all."
"Oh please, this is so last season. I already have everything I want."
Every time you catch yourself entertaining the old story or the 3d or the doubts, switch. As if you're a player who can switch characters easily. Respond like how they would in your mind, don't be shy, be dramatic and theatrical if you want. Act and think like those characters. Put their shoes on.
I literally switch to whichever character I want and then I think like them and dismiss it like them. You could even do this as the version of you who has your desires. Enjoy and make it fun. You can do this for affirming naturally as well. Affirm it as a fact. You're that version already, for you, these thoughts, doubts and the old story are just like haters. How would Wonyoung or Jennie shut them down? No they won't waste their breath, they will just dismiss them and they stay unbothered.
Remember if you're that version of you who's rich or you are Chanel Oberlin or Blair Waldorf, how would they react if a hater says they're not rich? They would think that they are crazy and just laugh at them.
When you're slipping out of the wish fulfilled, ask yourself:
What would Chanel do?
She'd scoff at the 3D and say, "Ugh, this is old news. I already have what I want. Next!"
She'd flip her hair and say, "I'm Chanel Oberlin. Of course, I have everything I want. That's just how life works for me."
She'd laugh and say, "Doubts? Please. I don't entertain nonsense. I win, always."
What would Wednesday do?
She'd glare at doubt and say, "Pathetic. Reality bends to my will. It has no choice."
She'd tilt her head and say, "Fear? Doubt? I don't have such weaknesses. Reality is my obedient servant."
She'd give a bored look and say, "Reality is predictable. I decide what happens, and it happens. No suspense, no surprises."
What would Blair do?
She'd roll her eyes and say, "I always get what I want. It's not luck, it's just how the world works when you're me."
She'd glance at her reflection and say, "Of course it's already mine. A Waldorf never settles for anything less."
She'd smirk and say, "The old story? Please, as if that was ever my reality. I've always been the main character and the main character always gets what she wants."
What would Hermione do?
She'd raise an eyebrow and say, "Oh, you think I can't have what I want? Ten points from doubt. I already have it."
She'd give an exasperated sigh, "Honestly, have you learned nothing? If you keep acting like you don't have it, of course reality will reflect that. I have it. That's final."
She'd cross her arms and huff, "Oh, for heaven's sake, are you seriously still entertaining that nonsense? The old story is irrelevant. I already have what I want, end of discussion."
Some extra examples:
What would Elle Woods do?
She'd wink and say, "Manifesting isn't that hard. Like, have you met me? I always get what I want."
What would Veronica Lodge do?
She'd cross her arms and say, "I don't dwell on problems, I solve them. And I always get what I want."
What would Cheryl Blossom do?
She'd glare and say, "The old story? Burn it. I'm the author, and this is my fairytale."
What would Regina George do?
She'd flip her hair, roll her eyes, and say, "That's the ugliest thought I've ever heard. Stop trying to make doubt happen! It's not going to happen. I already have what I want."
What would Maddy Perez do?
She'd give you that look and say, "Oh, you think reality gets a say? That's cute. I already have everything. Period."
What would Jang Wonyoung do?
She'd smile sweetly, tilt her head, and say, "Oh? You’re doubting? That's not my problem. Not my reality anymore. I already have everything, and I always will."
Anyway, the point is to pick your character, watch their best scenes on YouTube or their content then whenever you get a doubt, a negative thought or think of the old story, SWITCH TO THAT CHARACTER (switch like how you pick characters in a game or pass the baton to them), EMBODY AND THINK LIKE THEM.
Make sure to also do it when you affirm, switch to that character and affirm confidently, affirm as a fact and with certainty.
4. STAY IN CHARACTER
Keep playing the role to train your mind to always think in your favor. Literally walk, talk and act like this character if you want to be more confident like them. That's it.
Remember to ask yourself: What would my favorite character do?
Would Blair stalk the 3D for evidence? No. Would Chanel care what people think? Never. Would Wednesday ever be fazed by the old story? Absolutely not. Have fun, play the game, make it a habit and soon it won't be a game, it'll be your natural mindset.
Yours Truly,
Lady Rian Whistledown 💋
Hey alluring souls!
Let’s say you’re walking down the street, and an eager-eyed child runs up to you saying,
"That’s a pretty green shirt!"
That's adorable. Right?
But here’s the thing—your shirt is red.
Do you suddenly spiral? Start questioning yourself, asking random strangers, running to the nearest mirror like, "Wait… is it green???"
No.
You know your shirt is red. That knowing is steady, unshaken.
You smile at the child, thank them for the compliment, or gently say, “It’s actually red!,” but if they’re adamant—if they keep saying "No it's Green! Green!!"—you don’t argue.
You just nod, thank them, and move on.
Because you know.
That knowing? That’s your 4D.
The little kid? That’s the 3D.
No matter what the 3D says, shows, or screams—it doesn’t matter.
Because your assumptions persist.
And eventually… that child will look up and go,
"Oh… it really is red."
Until then? Keep walking. In your knowing, that your shirt is indeed red.
Hello! I just have a few questions about manifestation. I promise it won't be long.
So, for some reason any time I think something is going to go one way- the opposite occurs(IMPORTANT NOTE: usually, it goes the opposite or something gets in the way of it happening)
Like for example:
1. Before class my teacher told us that we were going present on Foods, but I felt as if I wasn't mentally prepared enough and in my head it's as if I accepted that things goes the opposite. So, physically I was still preparing and revising for the presentation but mentally, I was telling myself that I just have to woman up and get it done but I was also telling myself that I really don't want to do it but I don't have a choice.
2. I think a boy doesn't like me and turns out he does.
3. This one time I wanted a position in the graduation committee, and I was going up against another girl. In my head because I thought that things go the opposite of what I think, I told myself that maybe she's going to win
but at the same time it was like my mind was torn in two because scenarios were replaying in my head of me winning but I told myself the opposite(To make it simple: I was doubting my self).
4. Last example(Only added this because i really like even numbers). When I was supposed to receive something that somebody told me they had or when I make plans, something gets in the way. I can tell somebody that I want a chocolate bar and they buy it (when I'm supposed to get it after creating scenarios in my head about receiving it and day dreaming about eating it ofc), they end up losing it or something else happens happens it.
I gave all of those examples to say: I think my subconscious has accepted that the opposite of what I want is what will show. If you agree, could you please just give me some advice? I have asked numerous people and subreddits but I haven't gotten anything solid.
Your subconscious is more loyal to your dominant assumption than your occasional desire.
Let me explain through your own examples:
In your presentation example, you mentally accepted you weren't ready. You prepared, but you told yourself, "I don't want this." That inner conflict—between action and assumption, creates confusion in your energetic field. The 3D reflects the more emotionally dominant state: "I'm not ready. I don't want to do this".
In your "boy doesn't like me" example, you assumed he didn’t.But underneath that, you may have secretly wanted him to. That "opposite" showing up? It's not magic—it's your desire leaking through the negative story. Your true core assumption may have been "I'm used to being wrong about people. I think they don't like me, but sometimes I guess they do."
In your Graduation committee example, you were torn. That split between "what I want" and "what I assume will happen" created resistance. When you're in a mental tug-of-war, it delays or distorts the manifestation.
Your Chocolate bar example is powerful. You’re rehearsing the desire, visualizing it… but also telling yourself: "Things always go wrong. It won't come through." And guess what? That belief—that "things get ruined" is what your subconscious is truly loyal to.
So in short, yes, you believing that your subconscious accepting that you will get the opposite of what you want is tampering with your desired reality.
So what should you do?
Start identifying as the person who gets what they want.
Not by force, but by familiarity. Instead of, "Maybe if I expect the opposite, I'll get it," say, "Of course things go my way now. They always do. My past doesn't define my pattern."
Because past is a memory, a collective memory of the reality you perceive as your truth. Something that helped me is rampages, go on an affirmation rampage on how you're a master manifestor who gets their desire instantly, manifestitfinesseit youtube channel has the best affirmation rampages. Or do a method you feel comfortable in, switch your mindset slowly, If you catch yourself spiralling into your old mindset that's okay, gently bring it back , say "From now on, I get what I desire" and focus on embodying the version of you who already has your desires.
Take care!
Well said!
ꨄ STOP ALIGNING WITH NEGATIVE SHIT
I recently spoke about how a lot of you need to stop treating your new lives as desires. But we need to get into why you do that, it’s because you keep on aligning with negative shit expecting the world around you to change
like seriously?
STOP interacting with depressive shit. stop consuming negative media.
stop interacting with posts about how you’re ugly
about how you’re broke
about how you hate yourself and your life
about how you have no friends
about how you’re so alone
about how you hate yourself shitty family and you wish you had another
about how you hate your body
about how your failing your classes
about how you hate where you live and wish you could move
don’t look at that shit and go “real”, because it isn’t, get the fuck up out of the slums and be serious for a sec. that shit isn’t “relatable” because youve scripted otherwise. you’re hot, rich, have amazing family and friends, school/work life is great and you love your life. get with the program, get with the new story.
you act so confused when you can’t find it in yourself to shift or even manifest basic things when you go against the script more times than you can count. the 3d is nothing, you need to understand that, the second you align yourself with your new reality and let go of the old story, all those things stop being true.
if you are in the country that you desire whether it’s an existing country or a country you made from scratch: you don’t actually hate where you live
if you have the face you scripted: you aren’t actually ugly
if you have the body you scripted: you don’t actually hate your body
if you have the family and friends you scripted about: you aren’t actually lonely, you are so so so loved.
so let me ask you, do you actually have those things? or where you just making your script for no reason? what is the point of the script or the affirmations or anything if you don’t even believe it?
I know it feels validating to join the club of misery. you’ve dealt with so much and what better way to feel good than to find other people who have gone through the same things. I know it feels comforting to hear that you aren’t alone in the things that you have been through. But you need to leave that in the past, let go of the person with the shitty life who relates to vent-posts about how they hate everything and everyone. Let that person who despises their life go. That isn’t you anymore because you have scripted, decided, affirmed, visualised against that.
start correcting yourself, stopping yourself before you reblog/repost that depressing tiktok/tweet, before you save that shit into your “relatable” folder, before you like that post and think “that’s so real”. because guess what? congratulations, the second you thought about your desires it happened, whether that be a whole new life or maybe just a new face or even good grades, when you thought about it, that’s what came to life. because you’re a god.
so no, you can’t relate to any of this negative shit on social media. because you live a better life than that. YOU are better than that.
you aren’t that person anymore so negative media shouldn’t align with you.
LEAVE ALL THAT SHIT IN THE PAST, YOU ARE PERFECT AND YOURE LIVING THE GOOD LIFE BABY🗽💋
All about the ultimate law of assumption!
“I Look Forward To Never Seeing You Again.”
XOXO | GOSSIP GIRL | XOXO | GOSSIP GIRL | XOXO | GOSSIP GRL
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P.S. Most important post ever! Lots of content, has to be read thoroughly and carefully to ensure full understanding!!! No skimming allowed here!!
ィ⠀TABLE OF CONTENTS⠀࿐
1. UNDERSTANDING THE LAW
2. IDENTIFYING ALL STRUGGLES/FEARS
3. GETTING RID OF ALL STRUGGLES/FEARS
4. HAVING A CLEAR DESIRE
5. ASSUMING & FEELING
6. PERSISTENCE
Hey Upper East Siders.
Now that halloween is over, it’s not long till the spooky chill of October turns into the icy chill of November. Hot cup of chocolate in one hand, and your dream life in the other.
Once upon a December ago, the only thing you held in both hands was incompetence and procrastination. Notice how I didn’t mention failure? Well that’s because, you can’t fail with a correct procedure. And the only thing that should be falling next season, is snow, not you.
And to the old state? Oh how we never look forward to seeing her again. Because after reading this post, you will break free from all your limitations and fulfill your every desire.
Are you ready to say goodbye to the old state? For good this time, that is. Because you’re not going another year without your dream life, not on my watch. And not on your watch either.
ィ⠀UNDERSTANDING THE LAW⠀࿐
As we all know, understanding the law of assumption is the most important thing ever. There are two very, and I mean VERY important concepts of the law that you need to understand. Here they are -> CREATION IS FINISHED!!!
-> Read this post by Edward Art and read it thoroughly!
-> CLICK HERE TO READ
-> KEY QUOTES: “Creation is finished.”
“In order for us to desire, there must be fulfilment of that desire.” -> This means you cannot have a desire, without a version of you that already has it existing. So whatever you are desiring right now, there is a version of you that has it. What I mean by “there’s a version of you that already has it”, means that there is a version of you that has it in the 4D. Your inner self has it. You just have to become aware of that version ( BECOME that version in imagination and fully identify with that version).
“These are versions of YOURSELF. THEY ARE YOURS.” -> Without this understanding, people think that they cannot achieve their desires because it’s “too far away” and out of reach. How can something be out of reach when you already have it when creation is finished? There is nothing external when it comes to the law of assumption. Everything is within you. Your dream life comes from you. There is no magical force outside of you that gives you what you want. Is your awareness far away from you? Is your awareness out of reach? No, and neither are your desires, because they are you. Change what you are aware of.
Now onto the MOST important understanding!
-> INNER SELF IS YOUR REAL SELF!!!
-> Read this post by Edward Art and read it thoroughly!!!
-> CLICK HERE TO READ
KEY QUOTES: “IDENTIFY yourself FULLY with the INNER MAN.” -> When you do not fully identify yourself with the inner self, you start to identify with the outer self. And the outer self holds nothing but doubt, fear and struggle. But when you fully identify with your inner self, I promise you, those doubts, fears and struggles no longer exist.
“The outer man sees nothing but limitations.” -> You know that when you start to feel fear & doubt, that you are identifying with the outer man. Limitations don’t exist within your inner self. You need to understand that your inner self = consciousness. When you are changing what you are aware of, you are changing what you are conscious of. Your consciousness has NO limitations, because you are God/Creator of your reality. All your limitations come from the outer self, and when you no longer identify with your outer self, all those limitations no longer exist, and you will no longer feel them. And that is a promise.
NOTE: Your inner self is truly your real self. Because the outer self reflects the inner self. The one within is who creates! The 4D reality is the real reality because the 3D cannot exist without it!!! The 3D is FULLY dependent on the 4D! Not the other way around. To understand this concept further, CLICK HERE
ィ⠀IDENTIFYING ALL STRUGGLES/FEARS⠀࿐
✩ Being and Having becomes difficult when you have underlying doubts, fears and struggles. You may be stopping yourself from fully identifying with the Inner self without even realising.
✩ Right now, and yes I mean right now, open up your notes app, or get a paper and pen, and ask yourself :
“What do I struggle with when manifesting?”
“What are my fears and doubts when manifesting?”
✩ Really take the time to think about what you struggle with and write down your answers. Be completely honest with yourself, no sugarcoating.
ィ⠀GETTING RID OF ALL STRUGGLES/FEARS⠀࿐
-> Now that you’ve identified all your struggles & fears, I want you to think about where those doubts, fears etc are coming from.
-> I promise you one thing, there is only one simple answer to this question. The answer is “Identification with the OUTER self.”
-> ALL and I mean it, ALL of your doubts & fears come from the outer self. The one who is currently experiencing the 3D. No matter what your doubts and fears are, they come from the outer self. Remember the previous quote, “The outer man sees nothing but limitations.”
-> ALL your struggles will disappear when you identify with the Inner self. Your inner self is limitless and it’s all you need to manifest your dream life.
-> You do not need to do subconscious training and meditations etc to get rid of your struggles and fears and doubts, all you need is yourself. Nothing external will help you. You NEED to understand that the ONLY way to get rid of your struggles is to STOP identifying with the 3D (your outer world & self), and to FULLY identify with the 4D (your inner world & self).
-> NOTE: Unidentifying with the 3D doesn’t mean to ignore the 3D. You are still experiencing the 3D in your day to day life, you simply cannot ignore it. All you can do is just not identify with it. How do you do this? When you experience the 3D, you do not assume that your 3D self is the real you, because your inner self is the real you! You view the 3D as nothing but an illusion based on past assumptions.
-> Now you may be thinking, “So how do I identify with the inner self.” We will come to that later in this post. I will take you through creating and maintaining assumptions and fully identifying with your Inner self and completely un-identifying with the outer self.
ィ⠀HAVING A CLEAR DESIRE⠀࿐
✩ It’s important to know what you want to manifest. That’s what we call desire. It all starts with desire. Make sure you know what you want to give to your inner self. Know who you want to become.
✩ You also need to know how you are going to go about giving your inner self this desire and fully identifying with it.
✩ Right now, make a list of what you are going to manifest (give to your inner self). Know what you truly, deeply want and promise to stick to it.
ィ⠀ASSUMING & FEELING⠀࿐
✩ Now this is the part where people get confused. If you don’t know already, FEELING is the secret. FEELING is what manifests. Your 3D conforms when the feeling (having your desires) is natural to you.
-> CLICK HERE to read my post about feeling and what the “feeling” is. This is a slightly simplified version of Edward Art’s post. If you want further understanding (which you need), to read Edward’s post CLICK HERE
-> Now that you know what the feeling is, you need to know how to practise it. How to use your senses to imagine and accept. Luckily for you, here is the perfect explanation of how you should be imagining. -> CLICK HERE
-> SUMMARY of what your imagining “process” should look like :
-> STEP 1: Remembering that your only goal is to become who you want to be in IMAGINATION only!!
-> STEP 2: Give yourself whatever you want in imagination through the use of any methods that you prefer. Experience having it in imagination with the knowledge that the inner self in the real self. You cannot deny being when you experienced it.
✩ NOTE: -> Make sure that you know which methods fulfill you. If affirming does not feel natural to you, then choose another method of imagining etc visualising may feel more natural to you. Keep in mind that if you are someone who visualises but has to look at a picture to visualise properly, do not rely on anything external like a picture. Because you do not always have access to a picture of what you want to experience in imagination. Yes, you can visualise when looking at pictures, videos etc, but when you do not have access to those pics and vids, make sure that you use other senses rather than trying to visualise something you want and failing then feeling unfulfilled because the vision didn’t turn out how you wanted it to sue to intrusive thoughts etc. In other words, do what truly fulfills you! It doesn’t matter what method you use as long as you allow the feeling of the wish fulfilled and focus completely on that feeling.
✩ NOTE 2: When visualising, start by feeling fulfilled through deciding etc or any other method, then start to visualise with the feeling because that feeling generates scenes, vaunts, affs FOR you and it is SO much more natural.
-> STEP 3: Allowing the feeling of the wish fulfilled when you are experiencing having your desires in imagination. Fully focusing on the FEELING having your desires as your inner self in imagination gives you! You know for a fact that you aren’t waiting for anything and that you have your desires without a doubt in imagination.
-> STEP 4: FULLY identifying with your INNER self and completely disregarding your 3D self. This is what true persistence is. Continuing to identify with your inner self regardless of what feelings and thoughts the outer self tries to impose on you.
ィ⠀PERSISTENCE⠀࿐
✩ Now for the final part. Persistence. Without persistence, you aren’t being who you want to be.
PERSISTING = Completely identifying with the inner self regardless of what feelings and thoughts the outer self tries to impose on you.
-> When you are persisting you have to fully become and maintain your identification with the inner self and the inner self only.
-> Read this post by Edward Art on identifying with the inner self -> CLICK HERE
-> You have to completely immerse yourself in the inner self because that is the real you! This is what true persistence is because identifying with the inner self means to no longer doubt, fear or struggle.
-> Now for the last part of persisting, you have to stay CONSISTENT!!!
ィ⠀COMMIT TO CHANGING SELF⠀࿐
You have to completely commit to your new story. No half arsing it. The inner you (4D) is your new dwelling state. NO more dwelling in the 3D.
STEP ONE: Decide what you want
STEP TWO: Imagine & Feel -> When dwelling in the feeling of the wish fulfilled, when you are done imagining, tell yourself “I know for a fact that I have my desires right now in imagination and that the inner me is the real me.” -> If you do not believe this with 100% certainty, you cannot move on with whatever you are doing. GO BACK TO IMAGINATION AND CORRECT THAT FEELING SO THAT YOU FEEL WITH 100% CERTAINTY THAT YOU HAVE WHATEVER YOU WANT IN IMAGINATION BECAUSE THE INNER YOU HAS IT!!! YOU DO NOT VIEW IT AS A DESIRE BECAUSE YOU ARE 100% FULFILLED!!!
-> Read my post on how to imagine correctly (CLICK HERE)
-> Read Edward Art’s post on imagining for an example (CLICK HERE!)
STEP THREE: Persist! If you do not imagine and feel with 100% certainty that you have your “desires” in imagination, then you cannot consider yourself to be persisting. You can’t just half be in the state. You have to fully be in the state of the wish fulfilled. And the only way to do that is by fully identifying with your inner self.
-> You are not focusing on the confirmation of the 3D. That worry comes from the outer self. KEEP GOING BACK TO IMAGINATION NO MATTER WHAT!!!
-> You are going to do this EVERY.SINGLE.TIME your “desires” come to mind. No excuses. There is nothing to change but self. Imagine whatever you want and identify with it.
Wondering what to “do” when experiencing 3D circumstances?
-> You are NOT supposed to be “ignoring” the 3D. How can you ignore something that is right in-front of you. You have to view the 3D as nothing but an illusion based on past assumptions!!! This is how you unidentify with the 3D! It has nothing to do with you because it is nothing but an ILLUSION based on PAST assumptions!!!
-> If you “fall” out of the state, it’s okay don’t curse at yourself. Just go back to imagination and feeling. Also if you find yourself naturally thinking from your old assumptions, just go back to imagination and feeling. Nothing can “ruin” or “stop” your manifestations because you already have it!!!
-> No matter what, keep going back to imagination and feeling! No matter what you feel, go back to imagination and feeling! No matter how difficult the 3D is, go back to imagination and feeling! The 3D has nothing to do with you once you stop identifying with it!
-> If 3D circumstances get too much for you, go back to imagination. The answer to everything is, just simply go back to imagination. Seek proof in imagination. It is your safe place. Make it your safe place by evicting the outer world from your inner world. Create a beautiful world for yourself in there. You always have access to imagination. You always have access to the feeling.
-> There are no excuses to not persist, especially after reading this post!
P.S. Make sure you’ve read every post i’ve linked throughout this post! They are extremely important!!
-> People with the success stories are the ones who have fully identified with the inner self. -> @loasuccessarchive
-> Read my favourite success story quotes (CLICK HERE)
You have no excuses. Go give yourself your dream life. December’s coming. And Santa’s not going to drop your dream life down your chimney. Give yourself a holly jolly Christmas, and a dream life to feel thankful for on thanksgiving. You know you love me. XOXO
- gossip girl
This document is by Solar which was a subliminal maker but sadly her page got terminated:( She really helped me change the mindset and become the master manifestor I am so ALL CREDITS GOES TO HER! ( I did not make this at all Solar did! ) { I HIGHLY RECOMMEND READING THIS, AND APPLY ALL THE INFORMATION STATED. LIKE FR. 💝 }
Hey its 🚽🌺, you can delete this question if it seems repetitive (or u can give me links to posts that might help rn) C: ALSO TW ❗️
Questions:
1)What advice do I give to my friend rn? I feel she has really bad circumstances
2) can I manifest for others? I mean idk I saw some people saying we can't cuz we have our own reality and stuff idk 🤷♀️🤷♀️ I really want to make my precious happy
So the thing is, the reason I've been real quiet lately (I mean I have a LOT of success stories in the past week so tysm) Well my best friend got 🍇d.. and also she has a really bad school and home life + she's in year 11 and her exams are coming up and on top of that she also has strict indian parents who force her to go to school. She actually can't anymore, she also follows your page. I told her I found your page and manifested a cute dress for the Friday party and yeah she's familiar about manifest, shifting, I am state whatever you wanna call it for a while now but she's really desperate rn. I told her to manifest Monday off and she said she was pretty confident and she even slept in late because she knew she wasn't going to be coming to school but her parents forced her anyway. I told her to stop being desperate but she says she really cant stop being desperate rn and she might get kicked out if her parents find out about the SA that happened to her. She feels guilty whenever she sees the "you are god" thing because she's religious (Christian) and idrk what to do rn cuz she's su1c1d@l and I'm rlly worried so yeah sorry if this is a bit sensitive or something 😭 I don't know if I should manifest she's happy, would that be not free will?? Sorry I'm jus really worried rnn
Babe you can manifest anything. Whatever you want to "happen", know that it's already done and speak from that perspective. That's all you have to do. Change your mind and your world changes. You keep coming to me as if I'm gonna give you different answers for different circumstances but everything is the same. Saying that she has really bad circumstances keeps her there. You don't even have to talk to her about this anymore. Just decide/tell yourself. she's doing better in every area. It's the same way you got your dress. You just decided.
If she doesn't want to say that she's God, that's fine bc she'll still manifest what she wants anyways. There is no free will. I affirm that I get new questions and success stories everyday and y'all think that you come to my inbox by your own choice. No. Yet it didn't change the way you interact with me or morally change you at a certain level. I'm sorry that happened to your friend. Tell me you're worried one more time or that you are desperate about something and I'm not gonna answer your questions again.
Anon asks are open! If your question is, "can I manifest this?", "is this possible?", the answer is yes, always yes. How to manifest? Decide you have it already. What to do when the 3d is not reflecting? If you know you won the competition already, why would you be bothered when the host is drawing out the winning declaration and keeping the audience in suspense?
Why circumstances don't matter..
Super grateful for hitting 200 followers! Thank you guys💕
I was reading @etherealkissed88's post about why circumstances are neutral, and something really clicked. I’m going to explain it using Lola and Athena as examples—because as a Tam Kaur fan, I absolutely adore those two!
It's snowing today!
Lola: "Ugh, now I can't drive, I'm gonna freeze, what a horrible day! Everything is going to shambles!"
Athena: " OMG It’s snowing!! Like Lorelai Gilmore said—I smell snow! Magic is here! The whole city is so beautiful 😍"
No text from SP?
Lola: "I knew it! I scared him off. I shouldn't have texted. He thinks I'm desperate."
Athena: "Eh, it's just network issue. I know he adores me and thinks the world of me. We’re good."
Job Interview Result is Delayed!
Lola: "It's been three days, no email. I probably bombed it. Why did I even hope? They hated me."
Athena: "Three days? That means they're seriously considering me! They're probably checking references and getting approvals!"
Friends Didn’t Invite Them?
Lola: "They went out without me? They must hate me. I’m always excluded."
Athena: "Ah, maybe it was a quick plan. I’m still loved and valued—they’ll include me next time."
Same snow. Same silence. Same delay. Same circumstances. But totally different reactions. Same event. Completely different stories.
That’s because circumstances are neutral. They’re not good or bad. They just... are.
They gain their meaning only based on the lens you use to look at them. And what’s that lens made of?
Your assumptions. Your state. Your inner story.
So next time your 3D feels "off", ask: am I reacting to the past? Or choosing my now? Because taking current circumstances as permanent truth is like saying:
"I read today’s news in yesterday’s newspaper."
You can’t. You literally can't. Because It’s outdated.
Your perception creates your reality. Your mind is the scriptwriter. Circumstances? Just the props. So rewrite your circumstances. Shift the meaning.
And always remember: You’re the only operant power in your reality.
Reminder!
Feel like overconsuming?
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(Remind yourself of these facts whenever you feel doubtful, frustrated, stressed or like over consuming)
💕Do NOT focus on the 3D. Just focus on the 4D
💖The 3D is just the old state/assumptions manifested
💗I KNOW that I have everything I want no matter what the 3D shows
💞I Fulfil myself every time I think of my desire (surrender to the 4D)
💓I NEVER identify with the 3D unless it’s desired
🌸I KNOW that i’m not waiting for the 3D to conform. I am only making my desire natural to me. I am getting used to always having it.
🌺I am only REMINDING myself that I have what I want.
🌷Logic doesn’t exist
🎀I am NOT lying to myself!!!
💄NOTHING can “ruin” my manifestation
💐I Only see/hear what l want to see/hear
🩰I Only focus on the FEELING of having what I want, I return back to that feeling every time I think of my desire. I satisfy myself until i no longer need the feeling of satisfaction.
💗I don’t need to affirm or visualise etc all day.
🍬I only look for confirmation in the 4D. NEVER the 3D.
💘Creation is finished. It’s done.
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💗 “I've manifested so much physical changes when i stopped thinking about how the 3d needs to change. i focused on how i feel (state of already having your desires) and sustained that feeling.”
💓 “I did absolutely nothing but focus on my desires/the 4D. I was delusional, I was detached from whatever bullshit was happening in my 3D and I was basically in love with my 4D.”
💞 “the only reason why you fail, is because you haven’t accepted that imagination is the only reality, everything stems from imagination. the longer you focus on getting it in the physical world, the more stress you’ll have. you only want the feeling such desire brings you, so give it to your inner man.”
💕”All i did was fulfill myself in my imagination, and stopped looking for confirmation in the outer world, whenever i felt the urge to “look for it in the 3D” i would close my eyes and see it in my imagination. That’s all i did, the first days i felt a little anxious but then everything was okay, and i was EXTREMELY calm.”
💖 “I started focusing on the feeling of having everything I wanted, without being specific because my subconscious/ god knows what it is, it’s when things started happening, and let me tell you it’s was so quick.”
“I didn’t work on my self concept, I didn’t do methods (however I tried SATs and it did work for me once but I stopped since I got lazy) I didn’t focus on time or logic, I didn’t do anything but focus on what was happening in my imagination.”
🎀 💋 “your only job in here is to think from the perspective that you already have it baby. don't stress yourself, everything will change because if it is in your imagination and you accept that it will reflect in the 3d, thats literally everything everything and everything . you don't need to change your thoughts, only your state, you want to get into the void this night? imagine however you want that you are waking up with everything you wanted, it is not a desire, it is the reality. you want proof? go to your imagination. everything is there.”
💋”the wish fulfilled isn’t something over exciting (although it may be at first) its just a natural and normal.” —> https://www.tumblr.com/etherealkissed88/737821647378284544/the-state-of-the-wish-fulfilled
P.S Ily 💗 XoXo - Gossip Girl