You’re not a bad sub if:
• Edging isn’t for you.
• Denial isn’t for you.
• Pain isn’t for you.
• Anal isn’t for you.
• Oral isn’t for you.
• You’re also not a bad sub if you need to safeword, if your limits are different today, if you have chronic conditions or mental health struggles that limit you more than you’d like.
• There’s so many posts that talk about the “ways to be a good sub” and honestly, there is no one way, and it’s okay to do what’s right for you. You’re not a bad sub at all.
~Unknown Author
"I liked it best when he took control of how he possessed me completely the way I belonged to him and he to me. and this kind of power makes you beautifully venerable in ways that show your true self. he was my safe place. I loved him because I could be me in every way others never see."
Do you find that being a Dominant causes you to view all women differently and/or question whether they could possibly be in the lifestyle?
Great question. As I have been coming into this aspect of my life, I would say I have found a greater appreciation and understanding to the fact that everyone, and in the case to your question, women, all have very individual and specific desires and fantasies. It is my desire that I can create a safe space for people to state and express their fantasies because so many people may not feel comfortable expressing this to others or let alone themselves. I don't know if I would say I would question or think of them differently that they could possibly be into the dom/sub and bdsm lifestyle.
However, I still do have my limits and thinks on principle I feel cross a line in all aspects. That is violence of any sort to children, and abuse towards a parter, spouse, sub, or dom. As a Dom, the Sub still has the power. It is not to cross a line of consent or into abuse. Communication is key. Dom/Sub is so much more meaningful and impactuful and enjoyable when you truly trust one another.
A subs muffled screams fill the room as their legs are tied open, their holes all filled with dildos and toys. The dom pressing harsh kisses and bites along the legs of their sub watching their legs tremble with exhaustion from being pushed to orgasms repeatedly. The sub whimpering and begging for mercy only for the dom to look into their eyes.
“You wanted to be overstimulated, you wanted to orgasm so many times you physically couldn’t anymore. I’m just giving you what you want.” As the gag in their subs mouth holds back more moans and screams the dom turns off all of the toys to give the sub a second. The shaking sub pants behind the gag as their head falls to the bed. The dom grabs the final toy resting just out of the subs line of sight, they pull out the dildo plugging their subs pussy as their enjoy the sight of their toy being stretched and ruined in every way imaginable.
A forceful thrust pushes the toy back in before turning the vibrator in their hand onto max as their subs screams fill the room once again. Every muscle in their subs body tenses as they tug and pull on every restraint only for the rope to keep them still for more torture. The dom rests the vibrator on the subs swollen clit as they watch their baby convulse and tremble through another orgasm enjoying every moment of watching their toy being used.
Eyes are telling. Love all encompassing.
Truth.
A True Dom Will Earn Your Submission...
#Teach Me #Guide Me #Empower Me
#Yours
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