Sirredthedom - Communicate Your Fantasy

There is truth in this.

Let this be your reminder, and do not forget this. When she submits like this (or in any other way), honor that. Help her lose her thoughts, her stress, her anxiety, everything. Help her just feel lost in pleasure that pushes boundaries, but at the same time, makes her feel safe in your care. It is a very special and intimate experience to lose count of the times she orgasms. Even more, it is so special to get her so lost in the moment that she does not even realize the music in the room stopped long ago. Be her guide as she has allowed you to limit her vision. It is amazing to help her see stars even while blindfolded. Make her so limp in pleasure, and provide the aftercare needed to where she feels like the queen she is. Her trust means the world. Cherish that from the sweet to the rough love. @missysi, it's my pleasure.

The beauty of a Dominant is that they only want the best for you.

They will want to be involved in every facet of your life.

Your submission is what they will patiently wait for.

They will love and encourage you to be the absolute best you can be.

They will only build you up, never tear you down.

Their protectiveness of you, will know no limit.

You are the joy in their life. 

The ray of sunshine which lights up their heart.

A Dominant will look at you with pride.

They will love every perfect inch of you. Mind, body and soul.

A Dominant will watch as you navigate life’s challenges. He will be there when you need that hand. And observe with pride, as you grow and handle those challenges yourself.

You will become something so amazingly incredible when you are held with love.

This is the blossoming which is spoken about for a submissive.

Did you notice that I haven’t used the word sex in any part of the above?

People mistakenly misinterpret what true Dominance is.

Dominance is protection, loyalty, respect, selflessness and deep love.

When a Dominant takes you under his wing, it is the most beautiful spot on the face of the earth to be for a submissive.

And should you come across a soul like this…

kneel.

~ © beautflstranger

“Your passion intertwined

With my madness

It was inebriating”

~Dark Stranger ©

I love getting lost in her eyes in this position.

Yeah she has pretty eyes, but imagine those eyes looking up at you while she’s on her knees.

∞

Do you find that being a Dominant causes you to view all women differently and/or question whether they could possibly be in the lifestyle?

Great question. As I have been coming into this aspect of my life, I would say I have found a greater appreciation and understanding to the fact that everyone, and in the case to your question, women, all have very individual and specific desires and fantasies. It is my desire that I can create a safe space for people to state and express their fantasies because so many people may not feel comfortable expressing this to others or let alone themselves. I don't know if I would say I would question or think of them differently that they could possibly be into the dom/sub and bdsm lifestyle.

However, I still do have my limits and thinks on principle I feel cross a line in all aspects. That is violence of any sort to children, and abuse towards a parter, spouse, sub, or dom. As a Dom, the Sub still has the power. It is not to cross a line of consent or into abuse. Communication is key. Dom/Sub is so much more meaningful and impactuful and enjoyable when you truly trust one another.