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Every good girl who wants to try being a slut should have at least one sexual relationship with a man substantially older than her. This list is funny but it’s 100% accurate, and it could be much longer. Older men know how to communicate. They know how to listen and create a sexual experience that is what the little slut wants and needs. They understand mental foreplay.

Try an older man.

Advice from an 80 year old man

1. Have a firm handshake. 2. Look people in the eye. 3. Sing in the shower. 4. Own a great stereo system. 5. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard. 6. Keep secrets. 7. Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday. 8. Always accept an outstretched hand. 9. Be brave. Even if you’re not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference. 10. Whistle. 11. Avoid sarcastic remarks. 12. Choose your life’s mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery. 13. Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out. 14. Lend only those books you never care to see again. 15. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have. 16. When playing games with children, let them win. 17. Give people a second chance, but not a third. 18. Be romantic. 19. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know. 20. Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems. 21. Don’t allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It’s there for our convenience, not the caller’s. 22. Be a good loser. 23. Be a good winner. 24. Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret. 25. When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go. 26. Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born. 27. Keep it simple. 28. Beware of the person who has nothing to lose. 29. Don’t burn bridges. You’ll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river. 30. Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets 31. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did. 32. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them. 33. Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you. 34. Take charge of your attitude. Don’t let someone else choose it for you. 35. Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need only stay a few minutes. 36. Begin each day with some of your favourite music. 37. Once in a while, take the scenic route. 38. Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, ‘Someone who thinks you’re terrific.’ 39. Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice. 40. Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m. 41. Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job. 42. Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later. 43. Make someone’s day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you. 44. Become someone’s hero. 45. Marry only for love. 46. Count your blessings. 47. Compliment the meal when you’re a guest in someone’s home. 48. Wave at the children on a school bus. 49. Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people. 50. Don’t expect life to be fair

Love The Frustration

“Are You Ready To Serve?" 

“Worship Your Goddess!”

One of the qualities of being a sissy. Sissies are attracted to real girls because they find in them the same femininity they feel on the inside.

I miss to make you satisfied. 🙏😔

The psychology of ‘forced feminization’

No matter how liberal an age we live in, it’s always going to be embarrassing for a person to tell people that he or she identifies as another gender. If dealing with that isn’t enough, a large percentage of cross-dreamers also have to deal with a deep shame about their fantasies of forced feminisation. In such fantasies the male is forced by either a dominant male or female to dress as a woman and perform various submissive tasks and sex acts, and is verbally humiliated while doing so.

There is nothing that a cross-dreamer does in his forced feminisation fantasy that he would not want to do anyway. In reality it should be called ‘delegated feminisation’ because the dominatrix is giving him what he wants. Therefore, if the advent of a dominatrix allows him to act out his deepest fantasies, why is he being forced? Your answer maybe ‘yes, but that’s all they would be – fantasies – the advent of the dominatrix forces him to actually fulfil them.’ And I would answer, ‘yes… exactly.’

What we need to note is that there is no big psychological mystery here. A part of forced feminisation fantasies, and all forced fantasies, is really logistical: if it’s forced then it’s more likely to happen, which makes the fantasy more realistic, which makes it more arousing. Almost all fantasies that carry social shame and/or are difficult to execute, will inevitable throw up a forced version. It is an intrinsic property of so called ‘dirty’ fantasies.

Forced feminization is hot, but it needn’t be abusive or negative. The domina ‘captures’ the errant cross-dreamer and takes him into her own femininity. The female gender is unique and is the source. Males are tropes of females. The journey back into femininity is both physical and mystical.

-  Adapted from: The Transcend Movement - ‘The psychology of forced feminization’

Survey - Getting to Know the Cuckold

In April of 2011 I created a survey (using Surveymonkey.com tools) intended to gather data on men who self-identified as cuckolds. This survey ran for 8 weeks and was advertised on my website, on Facebook, via Twitter and on specific Cuckolding websites such as Jinxypie.com and Hotwifelife.com. The response rate was excellent, with 486 men participating from all over the world. And while a multitude of countries were represented, just over half of majority of those who participated live in the United States. The intention of doing this work was to contribute to the body of knowledge on the practice of Cuckolding and to determine if there are any common characteristics shared by men who are attracted to this lifestyle. To ensure the questions accurately targeted the real-life experiences of cuckolds, I constructed this survey in consultation with Steve, an American who has been previously been a cuckold himself. While he does not live as a cuckold in his current relationship, it remains an ongoing source of arousal for him and his advice on the type of questions that are relevant to an erotic interest in Cuckolding were of great value. In a Cuckolding relationship the wife has sex outside of her marriage with her husband’s knowledge, while he remains faithful to her. The husband is known as a cuckold or cuck for short and he does not take lovers himself, instead his sexual pleasure and gratification is derived from the existence of his partner’s relationships. There are all sorts of variations in how these relationships operate and what involvement the husband may have, ranging from simply hearing about it from his wife, to input in the selection of her lovers, helping her prepare for a date, watching during sex, participating as directed, or by providing some type of sexual service to the wife and her lover. According to the results of this survey, the so-called ‘typical’ cuckold is a very well-educated, white man in his thirties or forties who lives in the United States. He earns well above the average wage and is most likely to be in a long term relationship or first marriage. He does not have self esteem issues and considers himself an alpha male with an average sized penis. Despite that, he enjoys being sexual humiliated and in particular may enjoy penis humiliation. He is most commonly sexually submissive to his wife and he enjoys the loss of control and responsibility being in this space offers. His enjoyment in loss of agency and control is fulfilled by having little or no choice in how his wife expresses herself sexually. He is likely to have been initially drawn to Cuckolding by arousal experienced at the idea of his wife having sex with another man, and his lust and passion for his wife is increased after she has been with another man, a response say researchers into the male brain caused by the stimulation of mating hormones. He is also most likely to be bisexual or at least bi-curious, whether he articulates that to his partner or not. Cuckolds report having sex with their wives in roughly the same number as the population surveyed in the Kinsey Reports, which is at odds with a general perception that they are denied marital sex. However they consider themselves to need more mental, visual and aural stimulation than other men and say they enjoy masturbation and fantasy more than actual sex. 17th June, 2011 Angela Lewis, PhD Steve, anonymous cuckold AGE Cuckolds who responded to this survey were fairly widely and evenly spread across all age groups. The largest number were found in the 30-49 year bracket and either side of this, men 50-60 years old and men 21-29 years old, were to be found in roughly equal numbers.

ETHNICITY AND NATIONALITY Cuckolds were most commonly Caucasian (at 91.1%) and at 55%, the most represented nationality was American.

There was a large gap numbers-wise to the second highest nationality represented, with Britain and Canada tying at 6%, followed by the Germans in third place at 4%. The table below goes down to a 0.4% representation, and a diverse range of nationalities were present under this figure, but the numbers were too low to register any significant value. Some of those countries included in small numbers were Estonia, Poland, Turkey, Portugal, Norway and Scotland.

EDUCATION Men who identified as cuckolds in this survey were well educated. For example, a total of 83% of respondents had some form of college/university education and 19.5% of those had completed post graduate studies such as an MBA or PhD.

INCOME Reported income levels tended to be fairly high (Given the average American wage is said to be around $35,000), with 48.8% of the men earning over US$50,000 per annum and just over one third, at 30.6%, earning over US$100,000.

INDUSTRY SECTOR 47.3% of the men were employed in the white collar (private or government) sector, which explains the high income levels. The other sectors were all represented, but in much low numbers and the number of men who were retired, students or unemployed were extremely low.

RELATIONSHIPS Unsurprisingly, given that a Cuckolding relationship is based on the existence of a primary traditional husband/wife dynamic, 87.3% of the men were living with their significant others and a majority of 77% were married.

How Long in Current Relationship Cuckolding relationships appeared to be durable and long term, as most of the men were in them for 11 plus years. The second highest number of cuckolds were in the group married 0-5 years, so we might assume that there is space and time for the couples to partake in cuckolding early in the relationship—say before c***dren come along—and then again later after have and are raising young c***dren, perhaps explaining why the lowest number of cuckolds were in relationships of a 6-10 year duration.

Most of the cuckolds were in their first marriage and close to a third were in their second marriage.

We were interested to know if cuckolding was present in the men’s previous relationships, however for the majority, their current Cuckolding relationship is their first. If you take into account that many are in long term relationships with their partners, this would confirm 9.3.3% agreeing with the statement: Happy and successful Cuckolding couples are able to separate love from sexual desire. Nearly one third (25%) of practicing cuckolds have been in a previous Cuckold relationship, so for these men it is likely an openness to the possibility of Cuckolding was a factor when seeking a prospective new long-term partner.

THE PRIVATE CUCKOLD SELF Asked to choose a response to this statement: “I’m an alpha male and I enjoy the loss of control that Cuckolding gives me,” 64% gave a positive response, making comments about how Cuckolding offered a way to take a step out of how they usually lived their lives and how it temporarily released them from a position of control:

Being temporarily absolved from responsibility, for my performance, for her pleasure, in fact having no control even if I wanted it, is incredibly freeing. I like the idea of having no choice, from being the guy always in charge to being the guy who is told to lick the other guy’s jizz, it freaks me out and excites me. Allowing others to make decisions for a while is relaxing. I love giving the gift of male sexual dominance to my wife. Not having a choice in their partner’s behaviour was rated as exciting by 65.7% of respondents. As cuckold Steve explains, this is also tied in with the humiliation factor that many cuckolds crave.

76.2% of the men described themselves as sexually submissive with their wives and a further 15%, while not submissive, found the idea attractive. Only 8.8% had no interest in being sexually submissive. Some comments made included: It gives me a freedom I don’t have when I’m expected to be sexually dominant. We both enjoy being submissive, so we try to take turns with each other. I like the loss of choice. Are you sexually submissive with your wife?

65% said their partners tended to be dominant in all aspects of the relationship, and when asked the question: “Do feel inferior to your wife?” exactly half said they did not feel inferior on any level to their female partners, while the other 50% considered themselves inferior to their wives in some fashion. Given the submissive nature of Cuckolding, it would be a fair guess that the men who do not consider themselves inferior consciously chose a role of inferiority/submission as part of their sexual persona, and are not victims of circumstance. Taking into account the high percentage of men who consider themselves alpha males, it is probably not surprising that only 8% nominated themselves as intellectually inferior. My fellow researcher, cuckold Steve suggests that the 20% who nominated being physically inferior would be alluding to their genitals and not to their physical stature. If you take into account that 36% of the men said they were attracted to Cuckolding because they perceived themselves as having a small penis, coupled with the fact that sexual humiliation was nominated as attractive to 55% of respondents, this would seem like a fair assumption.

The Cuckold’s Sex Life Based on the responses I recorded, cuckolds have regular sex with their partners in proportion to population averages as rated by the Kinsey Institute. While figures do vary widely according to which reports are consulted, I have chosen to compare my data to that collected by the respected research body, The Kinsey Institute (www.kinseyinstitute.org.) Using the Kinsey data for comparative purposes, I averaged the number of married men aged between 25—69 who were tabled as not having had sex in the past year and arrived at a figure of 20.7%. There is a perception that cuckolds do not have sex with their wives, however when you compare this to the figure of 19.8% reported by the cuckolds in this survey, there is not a big differentiation between the general population and cuckold men. Similarly, 38.8% of married men between the ages of 24—69 in the Kinsey data had sex a few times per month to weekly and this correlates fairly closely to the 45.1% who said they had sex 1-3 times per month in this survey group.

Over half the men supported the statement that a Cuckoldress should practice sexual denial with her husband and this supports a theory that loss of control and agency make the idea of Cuckolding attractive to many cuckolds. As well, anecdotally another reason men who are drawn to Cuckolding support sexual denial is because they believe or want to believe that that they are not able to sexually satisfy their women (primarily because they believe their penis is adequate) and/or because they have a preference for living vicariously through the experiences of the wife’s lovers or through the fantasy of the wife’s sexual affairs. To me, the hottest thing about Cuckolding is when my wife talks me off [re-tells her sexual exploits] It is understood that my pay-off for being what she calls ‘a good little cuck’ is in hearing about it. Hearing her moaning in the other room while I wait outside the door until she finishes with her Bull is totally hot for me. Nothing hornier than receiving a text during the night to say: I have just been fucked. This probably also explains why 82.3% of the men said they believed cuckolds need more aural and mental stimulation than the average man and that 66.9% of the men surveyed said they enjoyed masturbation and fantasy more than actual sex, using the a primary fantasy of the Cuckoldress wife having sex with other men. A Cuckold wife should practice sexual denial with her husband:

WHY CUCKOLDING The men were asked to select all the factors which led them to Cuckolding. With the highest response rate at 82.8%, the major drawcard for the men was arousal caused by the thought of seeing their wives with other men; and the ‘my private porn star’ response—while not a politically correct one—was alluded to by a number of men. However to be fair, it would have to be said that anecdotally the fantasy of a wife with other men is not limited to men interested in Cuckolding.

The second most popular factor was an enjoyment of sexual submissiveness, at 61.9%. This one is interesting, as culturally men are expected to be the aggressors and being permitted a submissive role in a so-called vanilla relationship is not that common, instead it is most often labelled a BDSM practice. For men (and couples) who do not see themselves as belonging to the BDSM community, it may be difficult to frame ways for the man to be submissive; however Cuckolding does provide that opportunity. The majority of cuckolds are self-assertive and describe themselves as an alpha male, holding a socially dominant position, whether in the workplace by wealth or earning power or through being highly educated. They generally know their place in the world and it is not a submissive one. However when it comes to sex they enjoy the taboo, novelty and ‘letting go’ that being the submissive partner promises: There is no question I’m a powerful guy in real life, therefore sitting in women’s underwear outside the door waiting while some guy pleasures her is so quirky, so different to who I usually am, that I get off on the idea of that ‘other me’ being so pussy whipped. At 55%, just over half of the men rated the opportunity for sexual humiliation as a factor which attracted them to Cuckolding. Sexual humiliation falls under the definition of masochism, as it is seeking pain in some form and taking sexual pleasure from it. Interestingly, according to Baumeister (1988) rather than pathologising it, masochism should be seen simply an unusual way to take a ‘time out’ from the pressures of life, and in his words is ‘an escape from self and self awareness’, in the same way that others might take up mediation or exercise. The majority of men who took this survey described themselves as alpha males (see Self Image), as well as being well educated and earning good salaries in white collar occupations; therefore fit Baumeister’s description of individuals who use sexual masochism as a way to temporarily give up the control and responsibility that they carry in their day to day lives. In relation to humiliation, comments were made that creampies (specifically the ejaculate of the wife’s lovers on her genitals which the husband is permitted to see, touch or consume but can also be on the face, mouth or breasts), were a powerful attraction, and on reflection it would have been beneficial to have included a line of questioning on this interest. However as nearly one third of respondents said that a desire to explore bisexuality was what attracted them to Cuckolding to begin with; the desire to interact with other men’s sexual fluids in this manner could be a way for some men to express homo-erotic desires, plus for some who may be wrestling with the idea of bisexuality, enjoying this on the wife’s body may legitimise it and remove the practice from being framed as homosexual—a type of bisexuality by proxy as it were. I believe we were also remiss in not including an option for ‘pleasing my wife’, as a factor for being attracted to Cuckolding. We made the assumption that the men were only motivated by their own sexual desires, however there were a number of voluntary comments made by the men which related to a desire to please their partners: I just love seeing her live her true sexual passion. Sexual freedom for my wife boosts her confidence. My wife loves being dominant and I’m man enough to let her express it. I enjoy seeing her enjoy getting pleasured. Penis/Small Penis Humiliation The men were also asked if they enjoyed small penis humiliation, taken to mean having derogatory remarks made about their size, length, girth and their ability to satisfy a woman sexually or being compared to men who were more endowed. While 29% had no interest in it, the remaining 71% were attracted to having this experience to some degree. Cuckolds do appear to have a strong interest in the penises of other men, particularly big penises, so this could mean that even those men with average size penises fantasize about their wives being with larger men than they are. Given the interest that cuckolds have in interracial cuckolding, both anecdotally and evidenced by the large number of websites offering material that focuses specifically on wives with black lovers, this is may not be an unreasonable conclusion. For this survey we used the generally accepted penis size for Caucasian men: Small (under 5 inches long) Average (5-7 inches long) Large (over 7 inches long)

The common assumption around cuckolds is that they must have a small penis and that is is a deciding factor in them being attracted to Cuckolding. However in this survey the majority of cuckolds described themselves to be of average physical endowment. Obviously there is no way of knowing if the responses are true as men do anecodotally overestimate their penis size; however in this case 36% of men said they were drawn to Cuckolding because they perceived themselves as having as small penis, which is higher than the number who actually identified themsleves in the small penis (5 inches and under) category according to the measurement table. Taking this into account and given the percentage of cuckolds who also nominated an attraction to small penis humiliation (SPH) which again is also far higher than the self-reported figure having a small penis, we would have to consider the men assessed their penis size truthfully. Feedback from cuckolds on what makes penis humiliation (or SPT for short), attractive is interesting in itself. For some cuckolds the fact that they will never have a larger penis means they actually erotize their negative feelings about their perceived inadequacies and appear to turn this around to a plus rather than a negative. For others the taboo act of a woman actually making derogatory remarks about his penis is thrilling precisely because it is not a socially accepted thing to do. Explains one cuckold: I often suggest we watch porno movies with supremely endowed men. This makes my dick look even smaller in comparision and then I fantasise about my little dick next to his and how my wife is probably comparing me to him.

Bisexuality In response to the question, ‘do you consider yourself bisexual?’ 29.2% described themselves as bisexual, 18.4% as bi-curious and 18.1% would like to be f***ed into bisexual behaviour. In total this means that 69.9% of the men have some interest in, or identification with, bisexuality. The high number who would do it if ‘f***ed’ probably speaks a little to the fact that in society generally it is much more acceptable for a woman to be bisexual or lesbian than for a man to be bisexual or homosexual

Some comments made were: I think cucks are lying if they say they are not interested in the other guy’s dicks. We think about how big, how heavy or how long they are, these are all questions swirling around in the mind of the curious cuck. I wish to take my wife’s place. Every now and then she makes me come in and wipe her lover down. What can I say, it is just heaven. Occasionally I am allowed a creampie. Understandably it is only with guys she knows well so we are aware of their sexual history. While an interest in consuming another man’s semen through the act of the creampie is tied to the masochistic experience of humiliation, for many it is openly a way to express their bisexuality. For others it is also entirely possible that wishing to give a wife post-sex oral sex or licking ejaculate from her breasts or body, is a way for some men of framing erotic homosexual desires so that they remain within a heterosexual framework, i.e. between the man and woman.

LIFESTYLE MECHANICS We asked how open couples were with regard to their Cuckold arrangement and perhaps unsurprisingly, couples were very selective about who they told. Given how taboo extra marital sex remains round the world and how few people are familiar with what Cuckolding actually is; this would explain why f****y and close friends were the least likely to be chosen as confidants. However what we consider a fairly high number (at 40.7%), confided in others, who they described as not necessarily f****y or friends, and from that we would infer these are other couples in leading a similar lifestyle. Other people are of course involved by virtue of the fact that the couples need to locate, screen, meet and play with the male lovers, most often referred to as Bulls.

Bulls are located by the tried and true methods of meeting through work, at social venues like pubs and clubs and by advertising on websites that cater to the Cuckolding community. In our survey group a very tiny 9% of the men choose the Bulls, while close to half of the time the wife locates her own sexual partners. As the cuckold generally defers to her when it comes to matters of sex and the Cuckoldress generally holds the sexually dominant role in the relationship, this would be expected; however relationships appear flexible enough to leave room for it being a co-decision when required, given the result that 20% said they looked together and 25% said it was situation dependant.

Where does cuckolding take place? The question of where the actual act takes place unearthed a mixed bag of responses. While the figure of 17.8% (just over one in five men) said their wives had sex with their lovers in the marital bed, that figure is probably higher, given that 54.6% of the men stated it could be any of those venue: the marital bed, in the home or outside of the home.

As Steve explains it, anecdotally there is a strong element of submissive symbolism related to the use of the marital bed, which can be powerfully erotic and stimulating to both cucks and Cuckoldresses. In fact one of the best known amateur pay for view cuckolding sites uses the marital bed to film their exploits for precisely this reason. Given the number of cuckolds who display some interest in bisexuality it also allows a way of expressing their sexual interest in other men by smelling/tasting/feeling the other man without having any direct contact: After they have had sex in our bed I can fall asl**p and imagine I was her. I find it highly erotic to smell their sex on our sheets. It is the ultimate humiliation. What can I say, a stranger, my bed, my wife, I guess it just makes it very real to me. What Sort of Cuckold? We created arbitrary categories of Cuckold and asked the men which they identified with the most. The responses mirrored the reasons for being attracted to Cuckolding in the first place and which are discussed earlier under ‘Why Cuckolding’. We did not create a category of Submissive Cuckold, as we believed that a position of submission is taken in all the categories. There was very only a 1% difference in identifying as a Humiliation or Voyeur cuckold. Given the popularity of Voyeur Cuckold category, this also tends to support why there was such high number (66.9%), of self-reported cuckolds who said they prized masturbation and fantasy above actual sex.

What the Cuckold is Allowed We also asked what role the cuckolds took when the wife was with another man. For the majority of couples it was a case of the wife’s wishes in a given situation. However from the categories we presented of watching, watching/participating and not being present, it is most likely that the wife has sex with other men alone. In terms of what the cuckold enjoys, most cuckolds nominate being humiliated, so it would depend on how humiliating the allowable roles are to him. However most cuckolds report enjoying watching almost equally, so it would seem that if only 15.2% are permitted to watch, their needs are not met in this respect, and perhaps as Steve suggests, this in itself further adds to the cuckolds feelings of humiliation and loss of control.

98.2% of the cuckolds agreed with the statement: ‘The desire and passion for my Cuckoldress is heightened after she has been with another man’. Brizendine (The Male Brain 2010, p.64) refers to this concept as ‘mate guarding’, in which a man’s mating hormones are stimulated by fear of loss and rejection, and this in turn intensifies his feelings of love and passion for his mate.

What Kind of Woman Becomes a Cuckoldress?

I wrote a post about what kind of a man wants to be a cuckold. Just like there are certain characteristics or demographics that are common across most cuckolds, there are similarities in cuckoldresses.

The same sociologist who conducted the cuckold survey, Dr. Angela Lewis, conducted a survey of 200 women who self-identified as cuckoldresses.

The highlights of her survey results showed the typical woman who becomes a cuckoldress:

Demographic • is white (caucasian) • is college-educated • has a white-collar job • is several years into her first marriage • has a husband who is an alpha male

Keep in mind, the men who wanted be a cuckold had the same demographics. She lives a rather comfortable lifestyle and has a good job, just as her husband does. Few are stay at home wives. The can support themselves financially if needed.

Non-cuckoldress sexual characteristics • has a husband with an average-sized cock

Reasons for becoming a cuckoldress • because her husband initiated it (however a close number initiated or mutually agreed to it) • wasn’t sexually satisfied by her husband • wanted to have sex with a man with a larger cock than her husband • wanted to have sex with multiple men

Cuckoldress sexual characteristics • chooses other men to have sex with by herself, without her husband’s input • chooses men of the same race • prefers to be submissive in bed with other men • chooses men who have a large cock • has no rules about whether the husband can be present or not during sex with other men • encourages her husband to clean her creampie after sex with another man, when condoms are not used • has sex with other men in the marital bed, when choosing to have sex at her home • has not told anyone or only told a few select people about her activities

Long-term effects from continuing to be a cuckoldress • is able to separate love from sexual desire • becomes dominant in her relationship with her husband • enjoys seeing her husband lose control of her sexually • enjoys denying her husband sex • enjoys the fact that having sex with other men tortures her husband emotionally

Here are a few quotes from the survey:

• “I have a high sex drive.” • “I love to fuck.” • “I love having sex with new, fresh partners, it makes me feel sexy and on my game.” • “My husband is completely hot for me when he knows someone else wants me.”

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Workout Wednesdays

Hey there girly boys!  This post marks the beginning of what I hope to be an additional weekly series to help us realize our inner girliness with some external flare.  We shall see how the two series go: Monday Musings and Workout Wednesdays.

Many of you girlies, sissies, crossdressers, and beautiful ladies (you know who you are), have asked me repeatedly about exercises, workouts, and such that can help you attain a more feminine figure.  I hope that WW’s can help answer those requests to an extent.

Now dear friends, understand, I’m not a physical trainer.  I’m an exercise hobbyist.  My suggestions are not from a professional viewpoint.  So, just accept them as suggestions from a fellow girly boy who loves to be girly-fit.

Before we begin with the exercise of the day, I would like to say something that you may not like: No exercise or workout is going to give you a womanly physique.  Sorry.  I fantasize a LOT though my posts, but I need to be honest in these WW’s blogs.  If you fail, I don’t want it to be because I offered unreal expectations.  Think about it like this.  If a man attended a ladies’ only exercise studio and followed all of their advice, with workouts and diet (even dressing and acting feminine), he would improve his physique and health; but he’d be a healthier man in girly yoga pants, not a healthy woman.  It’s just not in the male chemistry, no matter how much we might wish it.

Now, with that said, outside of supplementation intended to that end, you can improve your health in such a way so as to aid in a girlier appearance.

Hip Raises

Hip raises, though simple and overlooked, is a good step in the direction of girly fitness–and its not because it looks girly; they are special like you. 

I have found that active flexibility under tension positively aids the body to accept many of the exercises I will be sharing on these WW’s posts.  Hip raises are basic, foundational, and preparatory.

So here’s what you do, girly boy.  Get your sissy-ish mind in the right place.  Put on something girly, like some cute capri leggings, bra, and tank.  Don’t even think about working out in anything less than feminine clothes.  Yep, all the way to cute sneakers, panties, and bra.

Lie back on the floor with your legs bent and feet firmly planted on the ground, a little less than shoulder width apart (you know the position lol).  Your shoulders should be squared and your upper back solidly fixed to the floor.  Place your manicured hands across your waist just below your pierced naval.   Now, squeeze your glutes and abs as you press your hips upward (note the picture in this article).  Inhale as you do this.  It might be helpful to imagine that you are tightening a string tied between your naval and rosebud.  If you do this right, you should also be able to feel your inner thighs squeezing in on your little tucked guy (you should always be tucked, right?).  Keep your cheeks squeezed at the highest position, hold, and then exhale slowly as you return your butt to the floor.  That’s one rep.

This is not a race!  This is slow and meticulous with steady breathing and tension.  Make every rep count and do NOT over-extend yourself.  This is an easy and novice exercise, but there is still the potential of hurting your pretty self.

I’d recommend beginning with three sets of low reps and working up to a single set of 50 reps a few times a week.  Once you accomplish 50, you can progress to elevated feet or begin the process of working on your bridging.

This is an exercise that you can do as part of your girly workout or as a part of stretching or as a part of a warmup.  It’s something you can do at night while watching TV.  That’s up to you.  This should help train you to “clinch the cheeks” (your S.O. will thank me) and help you to open the hips, stretch the abductors, and build some strength in the lower back.

Basically, it’s just a good little exercise that has its place in your gym bunny sessions.  It may not seem like much, but it pays off in the end.

Have fun, bunnies!  Love ya much!

Candie Hart 

My Sissy Tips~

So I have had a lot of request, “How can I become more of a sissy?” etc. I decided to put together a post of some of the things I do, and things that will help you, in your sissification.  This post is “bloggy” more than anything, so you’ll just have to wait for more of my own sissy pics~  ;)  Anyone can become more feminine, old, big, small, whatever…. trust me, I am older than most might think…. nothing is impossible, just a matter of how much you are willing to do! Let’s get started~

HRT (Hormone replacement therapy):

is NOT something you do to become a sissy. HRT is a serious decision, and should be made after consulting professionals (Doctor, and Therapist). I know it’s fun to read the captions about taking HRT etc… but it WILL cause permanent long term effects on your body, and can also lead to other permanent, dangerous, side-effects if not taken properly.  From my own experience, when I was young and stupid, I do not condone HRT unless you are SERIOUSLY considering transitioning.

The Workout: Getting in shape is very important! The more feminine your figure, the easier it will be to pull of a feminine sissy appearance! This is make basic routine for my legs and butt (I am pretty thin otherwise, luckily). I do this 3 times a week.  On the off days, I jump rope! It’s a great, easy way to burn fat/calories, and you can do it almost anywhere. It is important here to mention, you want tone, slender muscles, not bulk; more reps, less weight. Also I don’t really work my arms out at all, that way I don’t have big shoulders etc… However, if you have extra weight in those areas, you might want to work on toning them down as well.

Body Hair:

Shave those legs sissy! Getting rid of body hair, is one of the most feminizing things you can do, that achieve almost instant results!  I always see sissies posting pictures, asking how they look, and they are brandishing unshaven legs etc. This will break the illusion instantly (obviously the reason for this can very depending on what you define as being a sissy, and how feminine a sissy should be). You don’t even have to shave all the time! For example, I use a beard/hair buzzer on the closest setting to shave my legs (if I am just doing photos), because the slight stubble will not really be noticeable, and I can avoid any razor-burn/ingrown hair etc… That being said, my hair is already quite fine/thin and not very dark. Some of you might have to shave completely. I suggest you look at many youtube videos on how to shave, to lessen the effects of burn etc.  “But I have hair EVERYWHERE!” Yes, some of us are not as fortunate when it comes to hair. This is one of those times where I mentioned in the beginning; “how much are you willing to do?” Laser hair removal is cheap, and can effectively reduce/thin/remove body hair. Look into whats available near you! 

Stockings:

STOCKINGS ARE SEXY!!!! Seriously, on those nice smooth legs, stockings will make your legs 10x sexier, and feminine, just how a sissy sluts legs should look. (Also, you can cheat here. If you have fine hair like me, just be lazy; shave your legs real close with the hair buzzer, then put on some black/nude sheer stockings, and your legs will look sexy smooth for photos!). Stockings can also help manage the appearance of your legs. They make them look longer and more tone. They also create a nice consistent color! Nothing is sexier than rubbing your smooth nylon legs together. It drives most crazy. (I love it when I guy rubs his hands over my stocking legs, and tears at the rump to get to my, lady parts hehe)

Makeup:

Is not as hard as you think, so don’t be intimidated. It takes me about 20-30min to achieve a decent makeup look that I am satisfied with! There are literally thousands of girls on youtube doing howto makeup tutorials. Fine a girl with your same skin complexion and watch her videos. See what product she uses, how she uses it, and there is probably going to be a style of makeup that you like. Watch, practice, learn. You can buy the same makeup in the vids online. Also, there are makup apps on the phone you can use too (if you’re lazy). Get a nice clean shave, take a selfie, and makeup away! When I am feeling lazy, I use a combination of “Airbrush” “YouCam Makeup” and “Perfect365″. 

Hair/Wig:

A quality hairpiece is essential. A cheap party wig, is going to give you a cheap party look…. a quality piece, not only will look 10x better, but will last 10x longer with proper care. It will also look waaaay more convincing when you meet your guy in person! So don’t be cheap here.

Clothes:

Don’t just buy clothes that you think look great on the model, they might not fit you the same way. Buy clothes that work for you, and that show off your most prominent feature. For example: I don’t buy hot-pants, because don’t have a bubble-butt yet, and they just wouldn’t fill out…. However, I my legs, or probably my best asset, so miniskirt/dress all the way!  You’re a sissy, the sluttier, the better in my opinion (within the tips above). Online shopping makes this a breeze, just measure yourself, and look at size charts.

High Heels:

Nothing screams sissy more than having to prance around on a pair of slutty heels! 

(Other Things To Consider)

Your surroundings. Don’t take pictures in your bathroom, and clean your room. I nice clean room/bedroom background is really going to make your feminine sissy self stand out.

Photo filters can add a better sense of lighting if you have poor conditions or a not so great camera.

Be confident.

When meeting a guy, make sure they know what they are in for. Make it clear your a CD or just a Sissy etc.

Have fun! Explore your femininity.

Suck lots of cock, and submit. 

Be an Obedient Cuckold

“Lick my pussy,” she says through lusty moans. She pulls hard on the belt around your neck and draws you close to her cunt.

The smell is sex fills your nose. You can hear their flesh slapping together as your wife ride’s her bull’s big cock. You can see his big balls bouncing as he fills her. You can see her pussy lips stretched over his large cock, opening wider than they ever have for you.

“Lick it, cuckold,” she demands, and you extend your tongue. You lick her pussy as she rides him, but you can’t help but lick his cock too. She knew this would happen. That’s why she put that belt around your neck before sitting on his cock. She wants you to taste his dick. She wants to push your boundaries.

She stops riding and slides all the way down onto her bull’s big cock. “How does it taste, cucky?” she asks with a smile on her face.

“Good,” you say. It does taste good. It’s pure sex on your tongue. It’s her pussy juices, just a little bit of sweat, and his shaft mixed into one. It’s perfect. Your cock throbs between your legs.

“Good boy,” she says, and resumes riding her man. She wants more though. She wants you to fully embrace your place as a cuckold.

She slides off his cock and you watch it throb as a drop of pre-cum appears on the head. Your wife’s fingers wrap around the base of her bull’s big dick and she points it towards you.

“Suck his cock, cuckold,” she demands.

You hesitate and she pulls on the belt around your neck. You look up and see genuine ectasy in her eyes.

“You’ll do what you’re told, cuckold,” she says. Her voice is venomous. This isn’t a sensual request. This is an order from the woman you married. She’s determined to put you in your place. She’s determined to see you wrap your lips around that big cock, to cross a boundary most men never even approach. She wants you to become a cocksucker for her.

She grabs the belt and pulls up, forcibly turning your head upwards until your eyes meet hers. “You’re going to suck his cock, cuckold. You’ve long since proven you’re worthless as a lover, that your cock is far too small and cums far too quickly to satisfy me. It’s time for you to prove that you have some use in the bedroom. It’s time for you to become a cocksucker for me.”

Her words break your will to resist. You know she’s right. You know your cock doesn’t satisfy her. You know your place is to be a cocksucker for your wife’s bull. Your small cock feels tighter in your chastity cage as you move closer.

You open your mouth and lean forward. The spongy head of his cock presses against your tongue. You close your lips around it. You’re sucking cock now.

“Good boy,” she says. “That’s it, suck his cock. Suck his superior cock, cuckold.”

Her words soothe you. They make all your worries about being a sissy cocksucker wash away. You focus your energy on pleasuring the man that’s been fucking your wife better than you ever have….you will be next.