Transfems Can Put Whatever They Want In My Holes Whenever They Want ♡ If A T-girl Bent Me Over And

DOMS NEED AFTERCARE TOO!!!

Tell them they did good

Remind them they didn’t hurt you and that you are mentally ok

If they did hurt you tell them how much you enjoyed it

Tell them you felt safe in your scene

Make sure they hydrate and refuel with a little snack if they need it

Thank them for fulfilling your desires

Cuddle them, pet them, hold them

If either of you safeworded discuss why you did so and how to prevent it from progressing that far in the future

Relax! Watch a movie play some video games together! Don’t just leave or ask them to leave afterwards…doms are not just sentient sex toys

I fucking love when people call me pathetic when I’m horny. Like yes remind me how pathetic I am that I use strangers on the internet to cum. Tell me how pathetic I am for relying on their attention

Tell me how pathetic I am for getting horny from making people cum like fuck I love hearing it. I’m such a pathetic puppy slut and I want to be called it all the time

I have said it SO MANY TIMES and I will SAY IT AGAIN.

AS A DOM. YOU DESERVE CARE TOO.

aftercare is often times sub-focused, and while that’s always great, it’s often seen as “only subs need aftercare because they’re the ones that took the brunt of the acts.” and as a disabled dom, that’s absolutely not true.

dom drop is very real. I often experience it as guilt for hurting someone, or being “too aggressive,” as trans women are often seen. especially for doms that take care of subs, pretty please take the time to take care of yourself too!!

and for all the subs out there, if you’re able, please please please go get your dom some water or a snack. even if neither of you can walk, it’s imperative that you *talk to each other.* in my past, even the smallest things made me feel so much better. I’m going to list off some great things to say to your dropped dom here (feel free to add in reblogs!!)

“I’m okay. You didn’t hurt me too much.”

“Thank you for doing (self care act) for me, do you need anything?”

“I liked everything you did.”

“everything was within my boundaries.”

“you did great, (name/nickname).”

“do you need anything?”

“would you like (self care act)?”

“can I help (task: clean up, get water, etc.)”

just doing something like talking, showing physical affection, kisses, comfort, etc, is so so so important, and everyone deserves it!

and to all my fellow doms out there, don’t feel guilty for asking for help! if you need it, ask for it! your partner is there to show you love and care too!

honey, it's okay. shh shhh, my love had such a hard tiring day, didn't you. oh you poor baby. just open your mouth for me. there we go. you're so good for me. now just let go baby, just focus on my fingers. forget about everything else except this feeling. now isn't this so much better my love?

oh, good little thing, aren't you? already on your knees, so ready to be touched and used however I see fit. fucking adorable, really. whine for me a little bit? come on, darling, make me smile.

sometimes, i wish a stranger would come up behind me in a crowd and start groping my breasts from behind. i want to feel their hands knead and massage and hear them moan in my ear as they enjoy the feel of my tits in their hands. then one of their hands wanders down and slips in between my legs, rubbing my cunt over my shorts. due to how tightly packed the crowd is, i'm unable to move or get away and my voice is lost in the noise around me. all i can do is feel myself get wetter and wetter as the stranger continues to molest me.

Baby boys with a praise kink are so adorable! You can literally see the sparkle in their eyes when you tell them that they are a good boy.

They get so squirmy and excited, covering their faces with their hands and getting all flustered while whispering thank you mommy.

Oh, and by the way, if you call them such good boy, they might start grinding on your thighs, so be aware of that.

And if they are super shy and in a super good mood and you call them my good baby boy and get a little possessive over them and shower them with attention, you might end up with a moaning mess underneath you.

I want to inspect a growing tdick. Make a cute guy spread his legs nice and wide for me. Take out my measuring tape and see how much longer its gotten. Brush my fingers against it, act like the involuntary whimper uttered was an accident on my part, whoops sorry! (I'm not!) Giving in to the urge to spread his folds and stroke his tdick, drinking in his moans, pinning his legs down with my own, not stopping until he's oversensitive, sobbing, squirt and cum splattering his thighs and my hands.

Thinking about being on a table at a bar on all fours with my shirt pushed down so all the older man in that bar can see my tits.

They would have their drinks in one had while jerking off with the other.

Someone pushes my panties down and my skirt up. So that I'm on full display for them and the one who pays the most can use my little pussy to get off, while my tits are swinging back and forth and everyone is watching.

so obsessed with the idea of having a pretty boy who’s just so docile and only wants to be a toy for me :c want him to be willing to spread his legs open for me anytime, even and especially just when i’m bored and want something to have fun with :c he’d be so willing to be my little toy and let me tease him and edge him over and over and over again, and even thank me after i finally let him come despite the tears streaming down his pretty face :c