those puppies that act all shy and innocent but have the wildest fucking thoughts. they'll squirm and whimper at the slightest teasing they're so adorably sensitive, but then they'll confess they have a fantasy of being fucked on the floor, wrists tied and a gun on their tongue. I'll gladly indulge.
I’m not an exhibitionist but the thought of pushing a pretty puppy up against a window and pounding him from the back is very appealing. His gorgeous body is on display for anyone to see when they walk by, his dick is leaky and pressed up against the window and leaving a mess on the glass, his cheeks are flushed and his mouth is agape and drooling. What a pretty sight for everyone to enjoy. ‘Sir what if someone actually sees me ?’ he asks through whimpers as I abuse his hole. I grab his throat and whisper in his ear to make sure it’s getting into his dumb little puppybrain, ‘I can display my property however and whenever I like, am I making myself clear mutt ?’. All I get is a pathetic little nod as I continue ruining his body
Other people should be allowed to demand to see my tits whenever they want. It should just be totally normal that when I'm walking down the street someone says "Tits" and I have to stop what I'm doing and pull up my shirt and stand there for however long they want. Tits are for everyone.
“sweet boy” okay can i grind on your lap while you grope me however you’d like
The amount of you saying "fuck you" and "how dare you" in the tags of my praise kink callout posts is just adorable.
It's okay to like being praised and adored, sweetie. You can just enjoy it. No need to fuss or whine, but I know you secretly enjoy that too~ It's cute how desperately embarrassed you get over something as simple as a few words.
You're doing such a good job, and I'm so proud of you just for being you :)
You know its ok to want to be looked after no matter who or what you are. Nothing against any of the identities im about to use as examples i promise
But you dont have to be a little for me to hand feed you. You dont have to be a doll for me to dress you. You dont have to be a pet for me to wash and brush your hair. You dont have to be submissive for me to bathe you. Or a bottom for me to brush your teeth. You can be dominant and i can still hold you tight and whisper in your ear that everything is going to be ok. You can be a top and i can still run my fingernails up and down your back as you relax into my arms.
There are no restrictions on wanting to be loved and treasured and cared for in any way that makes you feel good
1) Communicate- The importance of this can never be stressed enough. If you are a Dom, make sure your requirements and demands are clearly expressed. If you are sub, make sure you talk about what you need and want out of the relationship. Talk about issues that arise, joys and pleasure that you both experience, things that are going really well, and areas that need to be adjusted.
2) Go Slow- When you are starting a new relationship, or trying a new aspect of a BDSM relationship, take things slow. Nothing good comes from rushing into anything.
3) “A” sub, not “Your” sub- Just because someone is a sub, doesn’t mean they want to be YOUR sub. Calling yourself a Dom doesn’t give you the right to call subs names, or act dominate towards someone who has never given you their submission. Treat people with respect at all times.
4) The BDSM Buffet- It’s ok to take different aspects of different BDSM dynamics and create something that is unique and works for you. Every relationship is different. If you want to be in a DD/lg relationship with pieces of pet play and a bit of Master/slave dynamic, then go ahead! Find what works for you. Experiment.
5) Don’t EVER kink shame- It’s ok to not like every kink. It’s ok to be confused as to why someone would enjoy a certain activity or dynamic. But it is NEVER ok to shame someone for what they like to do (so long as what they like to do is legal, consensual, and safe).
6) No two relationships are the same- You don’t have to try to be like every other relationship. If your rules are super strict, or really relaxed, that’s fine. If you live a 24/7 relationship, or only play once a month, that’s ok! If it works for you, and makes everyone involved happy, then that’s all that matters. Don’t compare your relationship to others, and don’t make other people feel bad for not doing things the same way that you do.
7) Aftercare is ESSENTIAL- After any scene it is vital for the Dom to look after the sub. Encourage them, tell them they are beautiful, hug, cuddle, massage, kiss, sing a lullaby…whatever the sub needs (as everyone is different). If the sub is crying, make sure they are consoled. If part of the scene requires humiliation or intense physical/mental exertion, then make sure you re-assure them and give them a chance to rest. Most importantly, make sure they know that you love them, care for them, and want only whats best for them!
8) Keep going over/adjusting the rules- This goes along with the earlier communication point. Don’t be afraid to adjust the rules to meet current needs. As people grow, things change. A rule that once made sense, may no longer be required, or perhaps something that was once strict needs to become more lenient (or vice versa). This should be something that both Dom AND sub talk about, and all rule changes should be mutually agreed upon.
9) Try to switch- This isn’t a requirement, but it is a suggestion. It’s hard for a Dom to fully appreciate how beautiful and difficult submission is if they have never experienced it. Likewise, a sub who has never been dominant may not understand how hard it can be to constantly be in control. Try switching (even if it is just for a half hour play session). It gives both parties experience, and everyone will learn something!
10) Stay Safe- This seems obvious, but it should always be said. If you don’t feel comfortable in a relationship/situation….LEAVE. If you need something to stop, use the safe word! It’s the subs responsibility to make sure they are communicating with the Dom (especially if things are starting to get uncomfortable), and it is the Dom’s HUGE responsibility to make sure they are respecting all limits, and respond to safewords.
11) Explain punishments- Never punish for the sake of punishing. Don’t just create arbitrary rules just so you can punish the sub. If you are going to punish, make sure the sub knows exactly WHY they are being punished.
12) Submission is a gift- Never take the subs submission for granted. It’s a beautiful gift that needs to be respected at all times!
13) Make sure you give rewards- Don’t just be the Dom that only ever hands out punishments. Give your sub praise for a job well done, and make sure that you give them rewards as often as you can!
14) Don’t make a habit out of acting up just so you can get punished- I’m not saying to never do it…sometimes it can be a fun little game to play. However, if you (the sub) wants to get spanked or punished, it’s ok to just ASK for it! Trust me, very few Doms will turn down the opportunity to spank their sub.
15) Have Fun! BDSM should be fun. Enjoy it! Don’t take the relationship so seriously that you don’t ever enjoy yourself. Yes…a BDSM relationship is a big deal and a lot of work…but if it’s not enjoyable then whats the point? If you can’t laugh and smile with one another, play games (that aren’t always sexual), or just enjoy each others company, then you are either doing something wrong, or you are in the wrong relationship.
This is by no means a complete list. What other things should be added to the list?
boys with their face burried into the mattress. boys with their back arched and their ass up. boys with their holes exposed, begging and whining to be touched. boys that softly moan as they pant. boys that stick their tongue out and let the saliva drip freely down their chin. boys that are unable to form any cohesive sentences once they feel that first finger slide in. boys boys boys.
on your knees, beneath me, where you belong. look up at me, that's a good boy. your eyes are begging for me to touch you, tease you, edge you, deny you. you can handle it pretty boy.
another thing about free use is the constant knowing that they’re going to use you. they’re going to take that handful, that squeeze, they’re going to kiss that exposed skin and open back. they’re going to press into you and breathe heavy agains the nape of your neck in soft desperation. they’re going to consume you and devour you and swallow you whole whenever they please, and you know it. you are always expecting it.
Shit I want to embarrase a shy little sub boy so bad, I want to fuck him until he's just dripping of cum just completely weak and legs shaking while I just tell him how much of a whore he is, how he looks like a dirty little cock slut from this position and watch him get more and more embarrassed, I want to leave many dark hickeys on his neck and watch him get shy when people ask him who did that, who did the poor little thing let him mess up so bad, I want to make him wear tight revealing clothes and put a leash on him that says who he belongs to and take him outside for a walk. "But that's embarrassing" that's the entire point love, embarrasse yourself for me, just entertain me with your cute expressions<3