PILE 1

PAC: THEIR S3XUAL STYLE, POSSIBLE K1NKS & FAVORITE THINGS (18+)

Look at each pile and choose the pile that you can’t stop looking at, or the one that you always return to. For current partner and future spouse only, it doesn't work for crush. If you have a partner already, remember to communicate before trying something. I use Tarot of Secsual Magic so the interpretation is a bit different.

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Important:

People with more masculine energy are the masculine. People with more feminine energy are the feminine. This isn’t about gender, everyone has masculine-feminine in themselves, some people have one stronger than the other, some people are balanced.

When I say 'dominant' and 'submissive', I mean the behavior and the energy, not BDSM. When I use dom-sub or dom/sub, I'm talking about BDSM. You can be dominant (adjective) in bed without being an actual dominant (noun) in a dom-sub relationship.

PILE 1

Core Personality: The Moon

I asked about the core personality of your person that would appear in sex. This person seeks depth in a connection; emotionally and psychologically. This is what they will bring into the sex, and this is what they will seek from their partner to feel satisfied. What they like sexually probably has something to do with their insecurity or issues.

7 of Swords, 4 of Swords, Ace of Pentacles Rx, 6 of Cups

I’m not getting a strong masculine or feminine energy in this one, so this person could have a balanced feminine-masculine or they shift from one energy to the other depending on the situation. In the case of sex, the way to know that they have completely surrendered to your connection is when they show their submission. They like their partner playing psychological & emotional games and making it a bit painful, to make them obey. They like the pressure, and the release that the pressure can give them at the end. It’s mentally soothing. For those who like men or people with a masculine demeanor, this may not be obvious on the outside and they may not do this with every sex partner they have, only with those they are comfortable with. Because this desire makes them feel vulnerable.

They like being taught a lesson, being made to wait, being ordered around, being ignored. For example; after doing something ‘wrong’, being told to sit on their knees with a cock ring on OR with a sex toy inside their ass/pussy while their partner watches, not letting them have that release. They like having their stability shaken and feeling like they have to serve their partner to gain that stability back; their partner pulling away and them having to follow orders and perform to get that favor back. Masochistic streak. Master-slave, dom-sub.

They like roleplaying. As a punishment, they like being made to wear something they don’t normally do (eg. nothing else but leather body harness and a collar), or being put in a position that is embarrassing (eg. being made to masturbate in front of the window with the risk that anyone can walk past and 'see' them. It could be tinted glass if your person is not open to actually being seen but still wants to feel like it could happen).

They like being marked and feeling like they are owned by their partner. Hickeys. Their like their dick/pussy being ignored until it’s wet and swollen. They may also like being made to watch their partner masturbate and not being allowed to participate. Or being made to watch porn with their zipper open and their partner 'checking' whether they are hard or wet, but not being pleasured.

They don’t mind where, but they prefer somewhere private. I’m not getting much about the pace, since it starts with mental stimulation-- the pace can vary. For example, some days you guys may fuck when they can’t take it anymore which can be over in just 3 minutes probably. The fucking itself I mean. The foreplay is longer, the foreplay is the main thing here. With this person, orgasm isn’t only achieved through penetration alone, their partner or them can achieve that orgasm during foreplay, so there could be multiple rounds in one session. And of course, after all of those plays they like to be soothed.

To conclude, they like to approach sex first with mental stimulation (mentally tested and pressured), and lose themselves into it deeper and deeper (emotionally) as the arousal builds up. There’s nothing else I can say other than you should buy a collar.

PILE 2

Core personality: 5 of Pentacles

I asked about the core personality of your person that would appear in sex. I think this person has gone through serious hardships in life, or they have a lot of Saturn energy in themselves. So they understand that pain. But instead of it making them sadistic and rough, it makes them caring. It’s not submissive... it’s more like... responsible, like someone who nurtures and someone who wants to provide a safe place for their partner.

8 of Pentacles, 8 of Swords, 7 of Swords, Strength, Knight of Pentacles

This person has a strong masculine energy but that nurturing side of them is coming from their feminine energy. So they are pretty balanced I guess. They are more dominant than you are, or the people they tend to go for. This person likes their partner to submit to them, to let go and let them take care of it. They are giving off dependable and mature vibe, and marriage material tbh. This person may be like this only with a serious partner (i.e serious relationship, not casual sex). They like to have control, but they are firmly gentle about it.

They like things to start slowly; the foreplay and the sex. Very attentive and detailed. They don’t mind doing the work. They like to court their partner, to ease their partner into it. Slow and light touch. Lightly touching their partner’s chin, neck, chest, navel-- before unbuttoning their pants. Or having their partner sit on their lap so they can play with their partner's dick/clit, slowly moving their thumb around the tip or slowly rubbing their fingers between the folds. It’s building up the arousal but at the same time soothing the partner.

This is the kind of person who likes to undress their partner and to dress them up. Again, slowly. They definitely like to see their partner in lingerie, or something pretty. They really like to just play with their partner's dick/pussy, and get the partner aroused to the point of giving in to them. They may like to restrain their partner a bit, gently I mean. It’s like they would say “it’s okay baby” while tying you up and kissing your forehead. They may also like to buy sex toys and lingerie for their partner, as gifts.

When they talk (during sex), it’s more about saying things to soothe their partner instead of being loud. As for the pace of the fucking itself, it’s just like their general approach to sex. They start slowly, they fuck like that too. Since you have Strength here, this person has hidden passion in them. So the slow fucking usually gradually becomes harder and deeper; hard to breathe and bed shaking type of fuck. If they have a dick, it may be thick and straight. For some of you there could be a slight upward curve at the end. As for pussy, thick/big labias? Or whatever you think the equivalent is.

There is a part of them that is a bit ‘animalistic’, but they have a good control of this. They hide these dirty animalistic thoughts. They may channel this side through those little things that can help them release their frustration little by little, like I said; tying up their partner, or pinning their partner on the bed, having their partner lie on their lap so they can spank that ass. Oh they like spanking. Sorry to those who hate this, but this is really giving off the Daddy vibe, so they may have that kink.

PILE 3

Core personality: 3 of Wands, Ace of Swords

I asked about the core personality of your person that would appear in sex. It’s the curious side of them, the part of them that likes to explore. This is a typical masculine pile, I think your person has a bit of an ego (i.e leads with their ego sometimes, likes being adored and praised) but it's mostly harmless. The personality is fiery and/or outgoing. They are vocal and have many ideas, so they are open to trying new things in the bedroom.

They may like having sex with different types of people. I’m not saying they like open relationship. I’m saying that this is the kind of person who doesn’t mind fucking a bookworm today, a cheerleader tomorrow, an athlete next week. They are okay with anything/anyone. But they prefer a partner who is more feminine than them.

Queen of Wands, 9 of Wands, Death, The Star

Their sexual style is passionate/hot. Even the quickies. The fucking itself may be hard and heavy, you will feel it, alright, and you will feel hot all over. But I would say the pace is in the middle range, nothing too slow and nothing too fast either despite these Wands cards.

They like their partner to soothe them, this is different from the previous pile. They want the feminine to attend to them, not really in a submissive way, but in an encouraging kind of way? To praise them, to make them feel good. They like their partner quietly confident. Not sure if this is the right thing to say in a sexual reading, but this is the kind of person who can act like a baby, eg. rubbing their face on your chest for attention. But once you guys start kissing, it gets heavier and hotter.

They like watching their partner undress, because of the anticipation. They like doing it with clothes on as well eg. dry humping. Since this person is open, anything goes really. The vanilla, the taboo. They are okay with sex toys. If they have a dick, the dick may be a bit thin but long, there is a curve to it. This may not resonate with everyone tho, obviously.

Regardless whether they have a dick or pussy, there’s usually a lot of cum/wetness. Their pre-cum may leak and drip onto the floor when they stand, or they may wet through their panties or the bed sheet. And they like cum play. They may also like to make their partner gag during oral; mouth full of cum or not being able to breathe properly because of it. They like seeing the cum on their partner’s clothes.

They may be okay with exploring ideas but they also seek emotional/spiritual connection; the best sex for them is sex where they can be vulnerable and rewarded for that. They like to fuck when they are not feeling emotionally okay, this person seeks comfort from sex. They may like doing it on the couch, sitting there and receiving oral. They may be open to a make-out session in nature lol, a bit hidden from others. I think this person prefers sex that has no obvious dominant-submissive roles, like equals, just sex yknow. There’s not much dom/sub play here. I’m not saying they won’t do it at all, it’s just not their go-to sex.

Honestly, as long as their partner is nurturing and feminine and the sex can give them that comfort and deep spiritual satisfaction, they are good. Have passionate sex on the couch and end it with forehead kisses, they will probably be as happy as a clam. There is a bit of childlike quality to this person, despite Death here. For some of you, the intense energy is not really from them, it’s something they seek from their partner, they like their partner to be so into the sex with them. Their personality is more passionate and fiery than intense and dark.

PILE 4

Core personality: Judgement

I asked about the core personality of your person that would appear in sex. This person is quite intense, they seek healing. They bring in a quite serious energy too, almost like seeking a renewal from sex. I don’t feel like this is a loud or outgoing person, at least most of them are not, because we have more Water and Earth here.

Ace of Pentacles, 4 of Pentacles, The World, 2 of Cups

Like I said, they like that feeling of renewal. Almost like being a different person after sex, figuratively I mean. They like to fuck slowly and deeply. There is an emotional undercurrent. Long sex, you have the Ace and The World here, they make sex an experience. They like physical closeness and they like to have that emotional bond. Probably 'fucking and staring into each other’s eyes' type of sex. 'Fucking and listening to the little gasps and moans' type of sex. This person may not have casual sex often, if at all. There is nothing much kinky going on (at least, it's not obvious in this reading) but they do make sure their partner reach that O.

Sex with them is full of love, but it feels committed and serious instead of bubbly and cute. They like the morning after, when they feel the soreness and see the marks, it’s the proof of what happened the night before. They like deep kisses, French kiss.

They like to be visually stimulated; looking at their partner’s nudes or porn. If their partner is open to it, they will like to record videos and take pictures. They like to watch their partner sleeping. This person may also like to touch their partner when the partner is sleeping, and maybe wake them up with them between their legs. They like the look of vulnerability that their partner shows when sleeping. Honestly if you don't like this kind of thing, just communicate.

This is the type who fucks while holding hands. They like to taste as well, so when they give oral they will swallow. They make sure to lick everywhere and get every drop of cum. They like seeing their partner spread open under them. They may be into shower sex or sex in a bathtub/pool/Jacuzzi. They like sex in the dark or under dim light. Because it represents the intensity/intimacy that they seek. This person is low-key, they probably don’t immediately come across as a sex God, but they have it alright, they know how to experience sex.

They may have a breeding kink; they like the idea of cumming inside their partner or being made pregnant by their partner (only if this is physically applicable). If this isn’t physically applicable, just see it as their feelings. Despite their breeding kink, there are no obvious dominant and submissive roles. Their energy is usually slightly more dominant than their partner, but they like give and take, giving and receiving. They do take care of their partner tho, making sure their partner is comfortable and feeling good.

To conclude, they like sex that is healing, emotionally intense and serious.

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1 year ago

Request/Idea-

Male Yandere Lawyer x Female Embroider Reader (a lady who works as a tailor is fine too)

Imagine a man falling head over heels for that newly employed lady who hand embroiders beautiful handkerchiefs in a luxury shop he visits to get his custom suits! And he just trying to coax her into dating him, marrying him, and becoming his stay at home wife (and mother of his children eventually) 🥰🤭

Age difference? I need some DILF Daddy energy more in my life (but don’t make him an actual father…yet)

P.S. I adore your OCs and writing. And your artwork is way too fucking good! You’re art is just *chef’s kiss* infuckingcredible

-👘

Ooh, you know what this reminds me of? I have a yaoi volume from Scarlet Beriko, “Queen and the tailor”, about an interior designer that visits a legendary tailor whose suits will supposedly help you achieve success. The tailor turns out to be a scary looking, blunt man but nonetheless extremely talented. I liked the premise a lot, so it’s definitely interesting to try out a different perspective.

In this case I have the image of a patient, soft-spoken reader and a hurried, short tempered lawyer. Comically different but in a way that eventually works out, you know? Also thank you for the kind words!

Yandere!Lawyer x Embroiderer!Reader Headcanons

Featuring a Reader that is blissfully unaware the lawyer she just stared dating has their entire life together already sorted out.

Content: female reader, age gap, older yandere, obsessive behavior

Your eyes begin to hurt mildly, so you look out the window and blink repeatedly, trying to refresh your poor sight. Such detailed works always strain you terribly, but you love seeing the finished result. Others must, too, given your handkerchiefs are often sold out the very same day. Right before your needle pierces the silk canvas anew, the door opens with a burst and you jolt. An older man in a suit, arguing loudly over the phone. He’s drumming his fingers over the counter, eyes darting around in search for an attendant. You know the type quite well, so you hurry over with the hoop still in your hand. “Might I help you with anything?” You mouth discreetly. He turns to you, stares for a couple of seconds, and promptly ends his call.

Out of all the places, he certainly didn’t expect regretting his rusty, unpolished flirting skills in a luxury tailor shop. Yet here he is now, clumsily mumbling something about his new suit he’s come to pick up and wondering how to connect that with your number. The name’s the easy part, as it’s neatly and conveniently printed out on the little badge pinned to your collar. Everything else, not so much. You excuse yourself and return moments later with his order. Shit. You tilt your head, confused by the delayed response, worrying whether you forgot something. Next time. He’ll figure it out for sure next time he comes here.

If there’s one good thing about his career, it’s that his eyes have been trained to spot every detail. For example the embroidery hoop you gently held while speaking to him, so he knows exactly what his next custom order will be. Truth be told, he didn’t anticipate your popularity and long waiting times, but a calculated raised tone with a sprinkle of intimidation has convinced the employee to assign him to you as earliest priority. Whether he can flirt remains to be seen, but arguing with others? Child’s play.

“Thank you for coming again today.” You bow slightly and extend the gift bag. “Although, I must say…I’ve never seen you using these before. What has caused your sudden interest in handkerchiefs?” Rather bold of you to begin such conversations, but your curiosity is too great. No matter how hard you try, you can’t imagine why a blunt, nonchalant man like him would abruptly become passionate about embroidery. A lover? You smile faintly at the idea. Whoever it is, they’ve taken quite the challenge upon themselves. The lawyer frowns at the inquiry. It seems you’re just as observant as him. Maybe this shall be the pretext he can finally cling onto. So he presents it in the factual truth you’d hear in a courthouse: it’s his excuse to see you. You raise your eyebrows in surprise. Well now, isn’t it just silly? He could’ve simply asked. Buying countless expensive handmade items instead of plainly confessing his intentions…He stumbles, flustered. The same man whose ruthless reputation has even reached your humble ears is anxiously awaiting your response with a deep blush on his face.

The childlike innocence doesn’t last long. You’ve agreed to date him and that’s great, but he’s a man with little time that has known exactly what he wants for many years. When he laid his eyes on you he didn’t imagine cheesy coffee dates as you discuss your favorite color and cautiously breach the topic of intimacy. What’s the point? He’s already certain he’ll spend the rest of his life with you. Skip the unnecessary steps. On the other hand, you’re not as cooperative as he’d wish. Truly, the tangible proof that opposites attract. You’re always calm and take your time with everything. It’s almost frustrating how easygoing you are. When asked when you’re moving in with him, you just smiled and wondered out loud what could be wrong with your small studio above the shop. Marriage? Good question, you never thought about it.

Oh, the irony. Last time a client was being particularly difficult, your lawyer boyfriend pulled him out by the collar under the mortified stares of the other attendants and shoppers. The exact attitude he himself would’ve shown before, yet this time it’s different. Of course it is, it involves you. His thin patience runs out if it’s you. That’s all there is to it. Can you blame a man for following his heart? They say you should always chase your dreams; he prefers hunting them down efficiently, and the shotgun is pointed in your direction. His sweet, exquisite prey he can never get enough of.

Finally you agree to move in with him. Your hesitation was maddening and he’d started coming up with downright psychotic alternatives to convince you, such as your studio burning down after a vicious attack of some unknown hooligans. So it was rather wise of you not to push someone that knows the law like the back of his hand, even if you aren’t aware of it yet. He enthusiastically guides you around your new forever home, omitting unimportant details. The spare office he emptied for a future nursery? You’ll get to that later.

He can’t wait to spoil you. See, that’s the advantage of dating an older man. He’s gotten his life sorted out a long time ago. All that was left was finding you. You just need to be a darling and behave. He knows you will. After all, you’re his talented little embroideress that won’t have to worry about anything else ever again.

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1 year ago

Random messages for you from your future lover/future spouse

18+ messages in some piles

How to choose a pile?

Take a deep breath and close your eyes. Kindly ask your spirit guides to show you the right pile for yourself and then open your eyes. Whichever pile catches your attention is the right pile for you.

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Pile 1

"I want to bite your neck and leave my mark there"

"I love the way you walk"

"you look absolutely gorgeous from behind"

"God really took his sweet time creating the masterpiece in front of me"

"I want to worship every part of your body"

"all the lonely nights were worth waiting for you"

"In your arms, I have found my home."

"With you, love is not just a destination but a beautiful journey"

"I will buy you every book you like, but there's a price you must pay"

"In a world of billions, you're the only that makes time stand still"

"The darkness inside me is really to consume you, however I am scared of the consequences"

"If you had any idea about what I want to do to you, you wouldn't be standing here challenging me"

"I want to know everything about you, your likes, dislikes, what makes you happy, what makes you sad, every fucking thing"

"Your whispered desires set my soul on fire"

Pile 2

"You think you can run away from me love?"

"I crave you, I desire you, I want you. In. every. way."

"I love the way you look right now. You don't need to change anything"

"You're flawless. People who find flaws in you are blind"

"tie your hair up. Show me your neck"

"Your presence lights up my darkest night"

"You can literally sell me poison and I will buy that in gallons from you"

"Your acne scars correspond to the craters on the moon. They make you even more beautiful to me"

"You look so f-able in my hoodie"

"You can be my black cat and I can be your golden retriever"

"I will never force my beliefs on you"

"You look magical in that dress"

"I don't want other guys to be close to you, to touch you, I know it's selfish but it's something I can't help but feel. You make you go crazy over you"

"You're like a Siren, alluring me with your voice, enchanting me with your appearance and making me want to do things that are not so pure"

Pile 3

"You are so pure so innocent. I feel like I will taint you with my darkness"

"Some things are better as secrets"

"Do. Not. Provoke Me. You'll not be able to handle it"

"I am not that type of person who dreams of getting married on the first date. But something about makes me feel I should wife you up, like right now.

"I want to see a mini you or/and mini merunning around in our house"

"Do you mind if I ruin your lipstick right now?"

"can you see hearts floating around above my head? No? *Gets heart shaped balloons from God knows where, puts them above their head* Can you see them now?

"With you, even the simplest moments become cherished memories"

"I crave the taste of your lips and the touch of your skin, you are my sweetest addiction"

"With you, time flies by like a shooting star, leaving behind a trail of cherished memories"

"Don't leave me. I have loved you too much to be separated from you.

"You make flowers bloom in my heart just from the thought of you"

Pile 4

"I will work hard for you. I will work hard for us"

"To be honest I will let you step on me"

"Our future is so bright together mama"

"In your arms, time loses its meaning, and all that matters is our love."

"How long do you want me to wait for you? 1 month? 6 months? 1 year? 5 years? A decade? I will wait for you if it means that I can be with you even for a minute"

"I will never judge you for your past. We all make mistakes and it's fine. As long as you don't repeat the same mistake"

"You feel like chopping off your hair? Go ahead, do it. I bet on my left nut you will look good in every hairstyle"

"What makes you think that I wouldn't eat your snacks? Am I not human? Or Do I not have taste buds"

"In the heat of our passion, time fades away, leaving only the intoxicating blend of our souls"

"Your touch ignites a fire within me, and I crave the taste of your lips on mine"

"Baby I am preying on you tonight, hunt you down, eat you alive"

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soft-vainilla

1 year ago

The Compromise. I

PAIRING.

Dark!CEO!Steve Rogers x Reader.

SUMMARY.

Wealthy CEO, Steve Rogers is a businessman before everything. All he ever wanted is to be the best, richest and smartest, owning all the finest companies. His priority: be better in affairs than his father.

But when a huge opportunity is offered to him, Steve would do anything in his power to seize it. And he’s ready to make a sweet and dangerous deal with you. Even though you are not willing to make a compromise with him.

A/N.

Political Relationship/Marriage? AU. Dark AU.

This is DARK. ANGST (i’m sorry) & SMUT (explicit sexual content) +18. Breeding Kink - sort of… Non-Con & Dub-Con. Mentions of Political Marriage. Mentions of Relationship/Marriage of Convenience. Swearing.

Here it is. One of my favorite story. Hopefully you will enjoyed it too. As always, thank you very much for reading! Don’t hesitate to leave your thoughts, comments, and feedback. (sorry for the layout at then, bugs from Tumblr)

A lots of Love! Lex!xxx

P.S: Gif is not mine, credits to the owner and maker.

WORDS.2942ish.

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2 years ago

You sit on his broad back as he does push-ups. You almost jumping up as he tirelessly rams his hands up and down on the floor. You mewl as there is not sight of him finishing. getting bored, doing nothing, But holding his shoulders for support. Feeling your legs numb from sitting on him, you try to get off, but he growls every time you try to escape from him.

"Be a good girl and stay still."

-> SAKUSA, Osamu, IWAIZUMI, daichi, aone, KYOTANI, KAGEYAMA, USHIJIMA.

You are underneath him as he gives you a kiss every time he bends down. He gives you like three kisses in one second as his palms unconsciously move to fell your plump lips on his. He is not going to stop anytime soon as you whine that you have a lot of other things to do, but you are trapped in his arms as his muscular tighs press against your legs.

"My legs feel tired, when you are not underneath them"

-> OIKAWA, atsumu, aran, nishinoya, HINATA, BOKUTO, kita, KOMORI.

You are sitting on his legs giving him an access to freely lift himself up. His shirt is off as you have a chance to stare at his toned-up abs. Your lips are in a kissable way. You wanted him to kiss you while doing his work-out, but he being a jerk wanted you to suffer. As he was lifting his body, he would get too close to your face but before you could kiss each other, he would back away, smirking.

"Greedy, are we?"

-> KUROO, SUNA, matsukawa, semi, TSUKISHIMA, yaku, akaashi, hanamaki.

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1 year ago

— Giggling at the thought of a one night stand with Simon.

Sex was great, maybe a bit rough, but what can you expect from a guy mean mugging you at the bar? His gruff appearance and his obvious struggle to be a gentleman was apparent; the way he shoved you behind him a bit to shield you from opening doors, or how he made sure to kick off his shoes before stepping into your home.

A long, drunk sex taken place, half an hour later when you both drunkenly passed out, Simon woke up to something laying on his stomach. During his time in the military he never really got to get a good, deep sleep. Any fuckin' breeze woke him up, and the feeling of his stomach being squashed made his lungs exhale sharply. His eyes snapped open, ignoring the subtle burn of fatigue.

Rather than meeting an expected enemy, his eyes locked on to a cat. Your cat. A cute white collar on the fluffy, elegant feline. The sparkly name reading, "Sir Henry".

Simon's brows raised as he finally rubbed the back of his hand against his eyes, his gaze fixing back to you, all naked and snuggled up in bed without a care in the world. Then..back to Sir Henry who gave him an expectant stare.

He bit back a chuckle at the idea that cat was jealous of finding another man in the bed. In a low whisper, Simon uttered to Sir Henry, "She asked me to be here."

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2 years ago

georges chakra spring/summer 2019 haute couture

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3 years ago

❝That’s my girl.❞

Howl’s Moving Castle (2004) dir. Hayao Miyazaki

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1 year ago

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐅𝐈𝐍𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄 𝐑𝐔𝐋𝐄𝐑𝐒

What house rulers are: House rulers gives us deeper insight than the sign itself in each house. There are 12 different house rulers. House rulers are different than just the house signs. In order to find your house ruler you must first locate the sign of the specific house you want more insight on then locate the planet that rules that sign

The Planetary Rulers (including both traditional and western rulership):

Leo is ruled by the Sun

Cancer is ruled by the Moon

Virgo/Gemini are ruled by Mercury

Libra/Taurus are ruled by Venus

Aries/Scorpio are ruled by Mars

Sagittarius/Pisces are ruled by Jupiter

Capricorn/Aquarius are ruled by Saturn

Aquarius is ruled by Uranus

Pisces is ruled by Neptune

Scorpio is ruled by Pluto

Examples:

ᰔᩚ. ┊If you have a Gemini Ascendant then your 1st house ruler/chart ruler is Mercury

ᰔᩚ. ┊If you have Sagittarius in your 7th house then your 7th house ruler is Jupiter

ᰔᩚ. ┊If you have Scorpio in the 6th house then your 6th house rulers are Mars and Pluto

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1 year ago

PAC: THINGS YOU DO THAT TURN THEM ON & HOW THEY WILL RESPOND TO IT (18+)

Look at each pile and choose the pile that you can’t stop looking at, or the one that you always return to. For current partner and future spouse only, it doesn't work for crush. I use Tarot of Secsual Magic so the interpretation is a bit different.

Rules & Disclaimers

Below 18 are minors, I follow my country's legal age

Minors should not follow, read, interact, like, reblog, reply to my posts/asks.

Minors should not send me asks.

I do not want to interact with minors.

If you interact with this blog/post, I will assume you are an adult and I will treat you like one.

Important:

Having more feminine energy does not necessarily make you act like a woman, having more masculine energy does not necessarily make you act like a man. I will use these terms in the piles.

PILE 1

Things you do that turn them on:

2 of Cups, The Fool, 6 of Wands, Knight of Pentacles, Abs/Midriff

This message is for the person who holds a stronger feminine energy in the connection, this person’s feminine-masculine energies are quite balanced tho. If that’s you, then read this as it is. If you identify more with the masculine, you can read this as it is but you may also need to adjust the message to fit you.

When you act like you don’t need/seek their attention or validation. When you are in your ‘I’m the boss’ or ‘I’m that independent bitch’ mood. When you are immersed in your own thing, when you are busy doing your own work. For those of you who like to read/learn; when you do this alone-- away from them (in another room, etc), basically just minding your business in your own space.

Your pride. When you play hard to get. Every time you look polished or pretty after dressing up. Your side glance, you may like to give them that look; maybe you like to roll your eyes a bit or give them that sultry ‘I’m too cool to feel impressed’ side glance. When you act like you are not impressed and refuse to give them the attention-- they usually know that you do this on purpose. Your energy feels independent and cool/detached, or your demeanor is like this.

For women, when you wear thigh-high stockings, especially when they have garters/straps. For men, when your thighs are exposed or look big/strong when you sit. When your person feels challenged; when they feel like they need to be better or try hard to get your attention.

When you touch their abs/midriff. When you touch/rub your stomach. When your shirt or skirt rides up a bit and exposes more of your skin. When people/other suitors pay attention to you. When you low-key act like you are a prize. Skirts or/and loose clothing that fall nicely on your curves, can turn them on easily.

How they will respond to that arousal:

9 of Pentacles, King of Swords, Spitting, Bossy, Music

This person likes challenge, they feel aroused by it. So when this happens, naturally it makes them want to conquer the challenge. At first, they may pretend that they are not aroused and things are going just fine. They may 'sneak up' and act when the time/place is right. Almost like hunting.

For example, they may wait until you enter the bedroom and when the door is closed before they have their way with you. Or they may ask you to follow them to a place that they know will give them the space to do what they want to do. Sometimes they will bicker with you, or make you bicker with them to rile you up; they take the edge off their arousal this way.

They will want to get you under their control and 'conquer' you; to make your pride and independence melt away under their touch and kisses. For those who are into men; to have you at their mercy, begging and mewling as they pound/fuck you. For those who are into women; same thing, they may want to be on top of you and get you drunk in lust.

To show you who’s actually the boss. The idea of you 'melting' under them and seeking the pleasure (that they give you) feeds their ego. Conquering a strong person makes you the strongest; that’s the logic.

Astrological placements:

This person may have Fire Mars or Venus, or have these planets in fire houses. Aries or Leo placement. Could also have Mars in the 1st or 10th.

PILE 2

Things you do that turn them on:

6 of Wands, 2 of Swords, 10 of Pentacles, The World, Shoulder blades, Curly, Smile

This message is for the person who holds a stronger feminine energy in the connection. If that’s you, then read this as it is. If you identify more with the masculine, you can read this as it is but you may also need to adjust the message to fit you.

When they look at you, your pretty/handsome face and are reminded of how lucky they are. When they look at you and their mind goes on thinking about the shape of your body and how you feel. When you are shy or when you blush; when you look away and smile shyly especially after they tease you or make flirty comments, and especially when this makes you push them away a bit.

For women, when you wear a skirt and sit with your legs spread slightly, when you bend or stick out your butt as you sit. Little movements or posture that accentuates the curves of your body. This person may like to stare or pay attention to the details.

They get a little aroused when they see you lying down, maybe because it reminds them of sex or it makes you look accessible. For women, when you act feminine or in your feminine energy. For men, when you act like you have decorum and class. There is something that feels luxurious/elegant about you, without the snobbery. Like you are a princess or a well-mannered prince. You just look like this in their eyes.

Maybe not every time but when you are in the shower; when you send a picture of you in the bath/shower, or when they see you in a bathtub with bubbles around you. When you wear a bathrobe after you shower. When you are doing your skincare or grooming routine after showering. Your shoulder and shoulder blades. For women when you wear clothes that expose your shoulders. For men, when you are not wearing a shirt.

How they will respond to that arousal:

10 of Wands, Knave of Pentacles, Healing, Swallow/Taste

They will want to have you right away. That arousal usually comes with frustration, and so they will want to release that frustration by exerting some force and pushing things to the maximum. They may just grab you and rip your clothes off. They may kiss you roughly and deeply, sticking their tongue inside your mouth and dry humping; to make you feel them, to make you feel how much they want you.

For those who are into men, they may also imagine grabbing your hair and having you suck their dick and swallow their cum (or having their cum all over you), to mess you up a little bit and fuck that shyness/elegance out of you. For those who are into women, they may like to mess you up a bit and leave you breathing heavily and dizzy with arousal. This person likes to grab and squeeze, because the arousal is frustrating.

Most of them after a while tho, after the initial frustration has been released, they will ease back to their normal self, which will reduce the intensity of the sex/action, and turn it into something gentler and soothing. Almost like, they will want to soothe you after messing with you.

Astrological placements:

I’m not getting any specific placements, to be honest.

PILE 3

Things you do that turn them on:

King of Cups, Death, 3 of Cups, King of Pentacles, Arms/Hands

This message is for the person who holds a stronger masculine energy in the connection. If that’s you, then read this as it is. If you identify more with the feminine, you can read this as it is but you may also need to adjust the message to fit you. It could also be that you both swap the energy/role sometimes.

Your authoritative vibe. When you are being intensely you, when you talk passionately about something or when you approach life with so much depth; it’s almost like you have this dark wisdom about you. Like a survivor. Like someone who has been through hell and survives. Like someone who has conquered demons. Whenever you are in this energy, without being pessimistic and soul-sucking, it makes you look hot-- sultry. Your maturity, your control, your composure, your power. When you act like you are not aroused or easily affected by seduction.

Yet, also when you are being lovingly dependable, when you take care of them, especially when they are sad. This person may seek healing from sex and sensual touch. When you just approach them and start pulling their attention and focus towards you.

When you initiate sex, when you take charge at first and then let them have it; let them get drunk in lust. It turns them on even more when they can see that you enjoy it, enjoy them and what they do; it's like an honor. When you touch/grip their arms. Your touch sometimes can just turn them on, maybe you have a lingering or languid touch, or maybe they are just weak for you.

How they will respond to that arousal:

The Empress, 8 of Cups, Massages, Public

There are two sides of them; the one that wants to just follow their desire, and the one that wants to be loving because they think you deserve the best treatment. The latter feels like they want to wrap their lust in romance, love and servitude. They may start with the latter first before it gradually turns into the first one a.k.a it's when they start to push; gasping for more as if they are losing control.

They will treat you like the queen/king you are. There is a feeling of wanting to serve, wanting to impress. They may like to start sex with oral; tasting you and pleasing you that way so you are happy with them, so that they get more and more aroused to the point of not thinking about anything else besides fucking you or being fucked by you.

Sometimes they may hold back tho, like they don’t dare to desire it. They may suppress the arousal and feel it in their body instead, almost like savoring the feeling/sensation and feel it swirls and pools in their abdomen, thinking about having you instead of actually doing it.

If you are in public, they may also take the edge off by holding, caressing, stroking your hand(s), your thigh(s) or your lower back. They may also entertain the idea of fucking you in public, so people see that they are the person with the privilege to touch and feel you that way.

Astrological placements:

They may have Water Venus/Mars. Or Libra, Cancer, Virgo placements. This feels like Venusian or Moon energy, or Venus-Saturn aspect.

PILE 4

Things you do that turn them on:

The Magician Rx, Death Rx, 7 of Wands, 3 of Swords

If you are the feminine, this person likes to feel like they are your savior/protector. If you are the masculine, this person likes to feel like you are their savior. Whoever the savior here, gets turned on by submissiveness and helplessness, because these things appeal to their dominant energy. The masculine here is quite dominant.

If your person is the masculine, then they get turned on when you act like you need them. I don't want to make them sound like a prick because the energy isn't malicious or unkind, but they may also get turned on when you are sad. It doesn’t mean they will definitely initiate something just because they feel aroused, it depends. They like those moments when you are not in the mood to take care of yourself, because then they can take care of you, take off your clothes for you, fix your hair, etc. It turns them on.

When you act like a baby. When you sulk/pout. When you need love and attention. For women, when you hide yourself in their arms, as if making yourself small. When you seek their protection. When you struggle doing something. When you need directions and guidance. It's not that they always get completely turned on by these things, but these things may ‘flicker’ it a bit, these things make their lust start to hum.

During sex, you acting like you can’t take it-- may turn them on even more. So you squirming or whining that you can’t have that toy inside you because the sensation is too much, will make them want to do it even more.

How they will respond to that arousal:

Ace of Pentacles, The World, Different positions/places, Orgasm/fluid/cum

This person likes to take care of you obviously, their lust is mixed with their desire to comfort you, hence why they can get turned on when you are sad. They will respond to that arousal by spoiling you with attention, with pleasure, treating you like you are an expensive dessert and they are a gastronome.

They may start by soothing you, hugging you and kissing you everywhere. But then they will slowly take off your clothes, and before you know it they are between your legs; opening you up for them by fingering you or eating you out, or stroking/sucking your dick. This is the type of person who says things like “shh, it’s okay” while fucking.

They like to have you anywhere and in any position, this person may manhandle you a bit and bend you however they want. It's not rough tho. It’s slow, it’s gentle but firm. When you need help from them, they may ask for something in return as a ‘payment’, they may do this teasingly.

They see sex as a form of comfort, so this is how they like to comfort you. They may also see making you cum as a good way to distract you or move you away from whatever that is troubling you. You always end up wet and sticky with all the fluids whenever they get their hands on you.

Astrological placements:

This person may have earth Mars or Venus, or these planets in earth houses. Like. Definitely earth.

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adronitis - n. frustration with how long it takes to get to know someone (AO3, 1/?)

Assumptions - New. A relationship is defined, and you forget to sneak your secret lover out before your roommates get home.

Bouquets - Writing challenge. Prompt: “Then maybe it’s best if we didn’t see each other for a few days.” // “Fine with me.”

Coffee and Consequences - Working at the DPD after the Android Revolution is absolute hell, but realizing that the one-night-stand that broke your heart is captain of the SWAT team is definitely the work of satan himself. (AO3 link)

Coming Home - Captain Allen breaks up with you. (AO3)

Control - You take care of Captain Allen. (dom!reader x sub!Allen, NSFW)

Emergency Contact - Connor breaks your door down when he hears you screaming, but he doesn’t realize it’s not because you’re in danger.

First Impressions - In a world where your soulmate’s first words to you are written on your arm in their handwriting, you can’t help but be discouraged that you’ve got “What the fuck are you doing here?” on yours. (Soulmate AU)

Hay Fever - Obligatory Valentine’s Day Fic.

Impetus - You stop Connor from murdering your husband on the Hart Plaza rooftop. (AO3)

In the Oven - Based on the tweet “my wife’s in the kitchen, wine-drunk, making cookies while topless.” (adult themes)

Novelty - You embrace the booty call situation you have with Captain Allen, but then he starts acting weird.

Permanent Ink - [Complete] You can communicate with your soulmate by writing on your skin. When you try to reach out them, they reply with ‘fuck off’. (AO3, 8 Chapters)

Playfulness - Allen proposes.

Pride - After you’re taken hostage by a deviant, Captain Allen is forced to ask Connor for help. (Female!Reader)

Response Time - You’re an EMT in Detroit and always seem to be helping out the local SWAT unit.

Restrictions Apply - You try to win over Captain Allen on his birthday. Key word: try. (Birthday Fic!)

Risks - You literally take a bullet for Captain Allen and he’s absolutely furious that you did.

Sleepy Mornings - Pure fluff with a bit of friendly butt-grabbing, feat. domestic!Allen.

Song Inspired Angst Asks (a Tragedy) - Part 1 | 2 | 2.5 | 3 | 4

Upgrades - Captain Allen comes home from the hostage situation to find that you’ve recently acquired a new android. He’s not happy.

Work Ethic - Captain Allen looks stressed and you decide to help him out (read: you blow Captain Allen in his office for no reason other than you want to). (adult themes)

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