How Are You Progressing Toward Actualizing The Lifestyle In Your Marriage?

Absolutely. The idea is very hot.

Question is... do I get to read her chats afterwards?

Absolutely. The whole point is that you enjoy it.

Yup. I just wish she'd use it.

Kinky vs selfless

I'm still trying to understand my feelings and why I find the idea of my wife having sex with another man in front of me to be such a huge turn on.

At first I thought it was just another kinky fetish - something new to keep the sparks alive.

Then I thought it was the logical argument of "sperm competition" that makes the husband rise to the challenge of other attractive men.

But now I think it might be selflessness. It's less about the act of sex in front of me that I find arousing, but rather seeing her revel in arousal, pleasure and freedom of expression. To see her throw off the shackles of societal norms and just do what she wants.

This sexual freedom is a gift I can give her, rather than an act she performs for me.

True. I encourage her to enjoy everything that arouses her - all guilt free. I want her to have as much pleasure and enjoyment as possible.

This is an awesome story. I so wish it was mine.

The beginning

When I first brought up this fantasy to my wife I think she was confused. Her concern was why would I want to share her with another man. I must admit, I kinda felt the same way. I mean I wasn’t even sure why I felt the need to see her with someone else. The thought of someone’s hands all over her body would make me feel all kinds of mixed feelings. On one hand, the naughtiness and lustfull feeling of my fantasy coming true would get me really excited, but on the other hand the taboo feeling and the way people would judge us if anyone found out would scare and make me feel wrong. All my life society has taught me that a man should marry have children and live a monogamous life, but what I felt was not that much different. I felt as if I could have all that and still have this secret sex life with the person I loved. I explained to my wife my thoughts on this fantasy, how I felt sex was just that sex. No strings attached no feeling involved and as long as we were both OK with it there was nothing wrong. We were not hurting anyone.

After the initial conversation we made the mistake of only touching the subject when we were fooling around. Up to this point it was just a fantasy nothing more than dirty talk and a bit of role playing. I think I enjoyed it more than she did, I would later come to find out this was true. Even though she played along she was still skeptical about the whole thing. A couple of months went by and I really wanted to make my fantasy come true.

At this time I was working as a security officer at a factory. The majority of my time during my shift consisted of me sitting in a booth with my supervisor who was only a few years older than me. We would just talk about all kinds of random stuff. One day… not sure how but my fantasy came up during a one of our conversations. This was the first time I had ever told anyone outside of my relationship about how I fantasized and how I felt about it. I told him how much I wanted to see my wife with another man, and how my conscience and morals made me feel like I was doing wrong. We talked about it for a while before he said to me something that launched my emotions into overdrive, he said to me “look man I don’t want you to take this the wrong way but I think your wife is beautiful” he then paused and said “I would love to be in your fantasy if you would allow me to” at that moment I felt a bit jealous and angry. This was the first time anyone had ever told me that they would love to fuck my wife, but at the same time I was really turned on by the fact that he wanted to. We both joked about it and left it alone.

A few days went by and then one night while my wife was her knees giving me a blow job I told her about my conversation with my supervisor. Her reaction was not what I expected, at first she thought I was kidding or just trying to talk dirty. I told her that I would really like to see this happen. It took me some time to get her to go along with it, but when she finally said OK I couldn’t wait.

The following day I decide to invite my supervisor to come over for a beer, he had no clue what my intentions were. The plan that night was for my wife to try and seduce him, she was nervous but since she knew that he liked her she wads ok to try. After a few beers she began to get closer to him and began to be flirtatious. As I watched this happen I could feel my cock begin to throb I was so excited. A few minutes of this went by then my wife pulled me into the kitchen and told me she couldn’t make a move, she felt nervous with me being there watching. I decided to give her some space and walked into the bedroom for a while. I stood by the door for a few minutes trying to listen to what was happening in the living room. When I finally decided to walk out the first thing I saw was my wife sitting on my supervisors lap and him sucking on her tits. At that moment I felt like could’ve exploded in my pants. My wife looked over at me with a look I could only describe as lustful, she told me to sit and watch. I sat their and watch her take off her shirt and yoga pants, he immediately pulled her panties off and began to eat her sweet pussy. As they began to fuck she asked me if this is want I wanted to see, to wich I responded yes many times. I watched them fuck until she told me to pull my cock out and started sucking it. We took turns fucking her pussy and mouth until we came. We all got dressed and called it a night I didn’t know what repercussions this night would have.

Since this experience we have had many other great sexual adventures and partners. Not all have been great but the majority have been full of naughty fun.

This cartoon was what inspired me to do a few drawings of my own. I realised it expresses the idea better than most of the re-purposed photos circulating here. It's very easy to identify with it because he could be anyone. Thank you to the author.

My wife's "Gym Hottie"

My wife and I gym separately at different gyms. I asked her to have a little perv next time she trained and she's come back having spotted someone who's caught her eye. She doesn't know his name, so we refer to him as her "Gym Hottie".

For about 2 weeks now, she's been giving me updates on how she managed to train next to him or cross paths while returning weights.

Thinking about her at gym watching him do his stuff, getting all hot and wet over a muscular, sexy hunk is enormously arousing to me. I hope she gets brave and chats with him. Some active flirting would be amazing and totally send me over the edge. I also love the fact that she's found someone she genuinely finds super attractive, not just settling for someone to make me happy with some made up stories.

I'm trying to play it cool, but everyday I want an update. I'm encouraging her, but don't want to push her.

She's soooooo sexy. I love her to bits!

I'm in two minds... do I want to have her undressed in front of me as if he is taking her despite me, or do I want to undress her for her stud as if I'm handing her over to him... Hmmm, I'm torn.

She has my permission, but it's still very early days for us. It's still to happen. I know one day it will.