ok maybe i romanticize everything a little a lot
Ma mère (2004) // dir. Christophe Honoré
”getting thicker skin” is great in theory but I think for some people “get better at handling your thin skin” is gonna be way more helpful advice. I have strong emotional reactions to criticism and they might never go away, but i can continue to try and handle each situation maturely and that’s the important part. Sometimes irrational feelings are chronic and living with them is better than trying to beat yourself up into not having them.
Men & their Subs
gay📲irl
I just want to cuddle and feel a boner on my butt and strong arms around my body
Hecate/hekate
Goddess of the night, necromancy, crossroads, witchcraft, boundaries, ghosts
Offerings :
Garlic
Oak
Yew
Willow
Dandelions
Lapis lazuli
Bronze
Gold
Black candles
Silver candles
Red candles
Purple candles
Knives or daggers
Swords
Keys
Depictions of crossroads
Depictions of the moon
Depictions of hekate's wheel
Triple moons
Owl feathers
Crow feathers
Raven feathers
Dog hair
Statues of her
Statues of her sacred animals
Bones (naturally sourced)
Dark chocolate
A wand
A cauldron
A horseshoe
Devotional acts :
Be kind to dogs
Donate to a dog shelter
Invoke her when casting spells or praying
Visit a graveyard (be respectful)
Go to a crossroad
Leave offerings at crossroads
Make a playlist of songs that remind you of her
Speak to her at midnight
Hang keys around your house
Have a feast
Write poetry dedicated to her
REMINDER you don't need to do any of these things to worship a deity, these are just suggestions, remember that if you don't want to or can't do any of this that it's totally ok !!
thinking about edvard munch's "The Sun" (1911)
like yeah thats how it feels. thats what it feels like to exist sometimes. he gets it