Start planning 2025
Make a list of all the emotions you want to feel at the end of 2025.
Now work backwards and write down all the tasks you need to do in order to feel that way.
Make a separate list of all the “gaps” - what do you currently not have in order to do those tasks to make you feel the way you want?
And lastly, write down how you can fill those gaps. Do you need a gym membership to become fit to feel good about your yourself? Do you need to learn how to cook better meals in order to feel healthy and energised? Do you need to start applying to jobs, in order to secure one, in order to feel financially safe? Do you need to buy an old school alarm clock that’s going to wake up your entire apartment building in order to wake up early? what do you need to DO?
also, make a list of all the things that worked out for you in 2024. Learn to celebrate and appreciate, even the smallest of wins.
For the next two months start the trial and error process of this program. Let’s say you decide that you want to work out 7 days a week in order to feel good about your body. Now halfway through November you realise that 7 days is probably too much, and 5 days would be better for your schedule. Or you decide to read 3 books a week, but realistically, maybe a chapter a day is better.
November and December are your trial months. By the time January starts, be ready with a program that is built for you, works for you, and can be completed by you.
Don’t forget about keeping a reward mechanism. If you complete your daily tasks for 1 month straight, buy that little purse you were eyeing, or take yourself to a spa. Reward yourself in ways you like so that :
a) you’re not in an endless cycle of never being satisfied
b) you don’t drop everything for a man or a friend who shows you the slightest bit of affection because you won’t show it to yourself
c) it encourages you to work harder for yourself.
Procrastinating? Read this.
So, you wanna manifest your dream life but keep putting it off?
Let’s be real. You say you’re gonna affirm, visualize, and persist, but then suddenly, scrolling through reels, watching a whole-ass Netflix series, or overanalyzing the 3D becomes your full-time job. And then? You freak out because nothing is changing. Sound familiar? Yeah, thought so.
Why do you even procrastinate on something you want?
Your brain is lowkey trippin’. It craves instant dopamine, and let’s be honest—staring at your ceiling, imagining your dream life while reality looks the same ain’t always fun. Your mind wants proof, results, and fireworks ASAP, but that’s not how this game works. You gotta train your brain like a puppy—consistency, belief, and a whole lotta "sit down and shut up" energy.
"I’ll start tomorrow" is the biggest scam ever
Tell me why you think tomorrow will magically make you more disciplined? Spoiler alert: It won’t. Tomorrow turns into next week, next month, and suddenly it’s 2026 and you’re still waiting for "the right moment." That moment? It’s now. Get up. Start affirming. Step into the version of you that already has it.
The 3D is playing with your head, but you gotta play it back
I know, I know—the 3D is looking mad disrespectful. Your SP is acting like you don’t exist, your bank account is laughing at you, and your dream life feels like a fever dream. But guess what? The 3D is just old news, and if you keep reacting, you’re just keeping the same boring storyline alive. Ignore it. You’re the director here.
How to actually stop procrastinating & start manifesting
Set a deadline for your doubts: Give yourself 10 minutes to freak out, then move TF on cause we ain't gonna suppress our emotions.
Romanticize your manifestation: Act like you’re the main character and your dream life is unfolding.
Affirm like it’s your job: No days off. No breaks. This is your reality, claim it.
Stop playing victim: You are literally the creator of your life. Act like it.
Make it a habit: Turn manifesting into muscle memory. If you can scroll IG for hours, you can repeat affirmations.
Drop the obsession: Desperate energy repels. Relax. Breathe. Your desire is already yours.
You either keep waiting, or you wake up and take control
The truth is, your dream life is waiting on YOU. Not the universe, not some random timeline, not "divine timing"—just YOU deciding to stop playing and actually persist. So, what’s it gonna be? Are you gonna keep making excuses, or are you finally gonna step into your power?
You already know what to do. Now go do it.
self concept affirmations so i don’t go insane trying to manifest this thing
- i am pure consciousness, not bound to any reality
- creation is finished
- my manifestations are always fast and inevitable
- everything always works out for me
- i always get everything i want
I'm so happy about my life right now.
Everything it's perfect.
I am the most happier and healthier version of myself.
I love every single moment.
Everything happens exactly how I want to.
I don't chase, I attract.
What it's meant to me will simply find me.
where is the stuff that i manifested?
why is my reality lagging? why am i, the divine, the ordained, the girl on the hill, not seeing the thing i have declared mine? i have sat in the temple of assumption. i have dined with the lords of the quantum realm. i have whispered my desires into the cosmos like a mistress to the moon. so where the fuck is it?
breathe. inhale. exhale. do not become a tragic greek figure, clawing at the sky, cursing the gods, wailing into the abyss. you are not sisyphus. you are not icarus. you are, in fact, the universe wearing a silly little meatsuit. and the universe is not incompetent.
but let’s get clinical. let’s get ruthless. let’s get biblical.
i , are you checking the 3d like a victorian wife checking the window for her husband’s ship? if you keep looking at the 3d for confirmation, you are living in the state of lack. and what does the 3d do? it mirrors. so if you live in the state of “where is it,” the 3d will say, “where is what” right back to you. congrats, you’ve manifested a waiting room. enjoy the grey chairs and outdated magazines.
ii , are you persisting or are you pouting? manifestation is not a negotiation. you do not get to sit across from the universe like a hostile business partner, arms crossed, demanding results before you believe. belief is the contract. assumption is the currency. you are either in the state of the wish fulfilled, or you are outside in the cold, shivering, looking through the window at your desire having a candlelit dinner without you.
iii , are you declaring or are you begging? the universe does not respond to “please, oh mighty forces, grant me this one thing.” the universe responds to, “this is mine because i said so.” you do not ask. you do not hope. you do not weep at the altar. you declare.
iv , are you actually embodying it? or are you just thinking about it in a cute way? imagining yourself as the version of you who has it is not a one-time aesthetic exercise. it is a full-body possession. the reality in which you have it is the real reality. this one, the one that says you don’t, is the illusion. the question is, which one do you choose to believe?
v , are you reacting to the 3d like it’s god? the 3d is old news. the 3d is a corpse. the 3d is a polaroid of a moment that has already passed. if you react to it, if you bow to it, if you let it dictate your inner world, you are breathing life back into the past instead of standing in the present, drenched in your fulfilled desire, dripping in inevitability.
vi , do you actually think it’s yours? or do you just want it? wanting is not having. wanting is the antithesis of having. wanting says, “this is separate from me.” having says, “it is done.” when you order food at a restaurant, you do not sit there worrying that it won’t come. you just know it’s on the way. so why are you treating your desire like a lost package instead of an assured delivery?
the 3d will fold. it will bend to your assumption like a devout disciple. but only if you hold the line. only if you refuse to be swayed by what is already dead. only if you walk like the god you are, not the peasant you fear you might be.
your desire is yours. it always was. the question is, will you finally start acting like it?
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♱ Black beauty 🐈⬛
Powerful affirmations
I am the embodiment of dark, feline beauty—my sharp features and seductive eyes are utterly captivating, impossible to look away from. My gaze is magnetic, pulling people in, leaving them breathless and lost in my spell. My plump lips are luscious, addictive, and irresistible, the kind that linger in people’s minds and haunt their fantasies. My face is striking and unforgettable, the perfect blend of mystery and allure. My body is hot, lean, and flexible, moving with the effortless grace of a sleek black cat—sensual, hypnotic, and untouchable. Every inch of me radiates power, seduction, and enchantment. I am a living masterpiece, dangerously beautiful and endlessly desired.
I radiate pure black cat energy—seductive, mysterious, and dangerously magnetic. My aura is irresistible, enchanting everyone who crosses my path and leaving them obsessed. I am impossible to forget, my presence lingering in their minds like a haunting desire. I don’t chase; I’m always chased. My energy is commanding and effortlessly demands attention. People are drawn to me, craving my time and affection, willing to do anything just to be close to me. I am the ultimate prize—captivating, untouchable, and endlessly desired.
I embody black cat energy in everything I do—sensual, graceful, and dangerously alluring. The way I move is hypnotic, my every step oozing confidence and seduction. My voice is soft and captivating, wrapping around people like a spell they can’t escape. I have the attitude of a spoiled cat—playful, irresistible, and always in control. People adore me, eager to please me, craving my attention. I always get what I want effortlessly because the universe bends in my favor. My presence is intoxicating, and no one can resist me. I am power, beauty, and desire in its purest form.
People are utterly captivated by me, endlessly chasing and pursuing me, willing to bend over backward just to please me. My black cat aura makes me the ultimate fantasy and deepest desire—they can’t resist me. They beg for my attention and affection, desperate to be in my presence. I am their obsession, the one they crave and dream of, forever enchanted by my mystery and allure. They’ll do anything to make me happy, hoping for even a sliver of my time. I am always the prize they long for but can never truly possess.
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🐈⬛ black cat energy/beauty subliminal!! (V powerful use w caution) :
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After a long harsh day, where maybe you felt a range of emotions- and maybe some of them were negative, the best thing you can do is return to yourself. Take comfort in yourself, soothe yourself, show up for yourself. Be your own best friend.
First of all, a self care night means actually giving yourself love. Actually taking the time to do what makes you happy and loved and appreciated. People often think that to feel loved and appreciated you need other people to make you feel that way??? That’s so wrong! Why would you put how you feel and your emotions in the hands of others when you could so easily give it to yourself?
So get the space all cozy and comfy with blankets and pillows because this night is the YOU night!
So the number one step to making you feel loved on your self care night is to learn your love languages and try to add in something for each love language. The 5 main love languages:
Physical touch
Words of affirmation
Acts of service
Quality time
Gift giving
Here’s a list of things you can do to give yourself love in each way:
Movies/shows you can watch:
Wizards of Oz
Gilmore girls
Bridgerton
Legally blonde
Mamma Mia
Any old Disney movies <3
Barbie!
Food & drinks:
Freshly baked cookies
Mini cake
Hot chocolate
Tea & biscuit
Ice cream
Self loving activities you can so by yourself!
Make sure to look at the list above for the love languages and do one from your top love language! Here are some more ideas to spend time with yourself and have a great time.
Journal
Paint rocks / canvas/ water color
Draw/ sketch your dream dresses
Read
Everything shower
Face mask!
Yoga
Paint your nails
Write a love letter to yourself
Braid your hair
Watch the sunset
DANCE! Some songs that are so danceable that you WILL get up and dance: 22, like a girl (old song😭😂) freak the freak out, dance the night (Barbie ofc)
Hope this helped you with your epic self care night and to also realise that you don’t need others to have an amazing time!