I fucking love this and dont know why šš
when you have too many bros
crabs: hiding
tall ass mf namjoon:
basketball player yoongiĀ holds a special place in my heartĀ
Royalty/Arranged marriage AU 4/?: Now on Vlive! Royal Sugakookie coupleās bachelor party~
Black churches everywhere Sunday: āI know the Incredibles 2 came out yesterday but how many of you know we serve an Incredible Godā
You are absolutely valid and on the asexual spectrum even if:
You have a sex drive. Even if itās a high one. Because that is not sexual attraction.
You engage in erotica, pornographic material, explicit fanart or fanfiction. Because that is not sexual attraction.
You feel arousal. Because that is not sexual attraction. (While it can happen as a result, it is merely your bodyās response to certain stimuli, and yes, people on the asexual spectrum do indeed masturbate.)
You have romantic feelings for someone, or are in a romantic relationship. Because, and say it with me, that is not sexual attraction.
You have sex, enjoy talking about it, make sex jokes or even flirt. Because that is not sexual attraction.
I canāt exactly tell you what sexual attraction is per say, my experience with it is very subtle, and more along the lines ofĀ āI trust and love this person enough to do⦠stuff with themā and everyone is different in that regard.
For me, it is wrapped in more emotions, vulnerability and getting lost in the moment that it isnāt a clear cut thing and more an experience overall. (and Iāve only felt for one person ever, shout out to the boyfriend whenever he gets around to reading this! And Iām not counting the fictional crushes here because that is another ballpark entirely.)
So I wrote this for all the asexuals, gray asexuals, my fellow demisexuals, and anyone else thatās ace spec, because this stuff is nuanced and confusing, trust me, I had an existential crisis for about an hour when I first learned that demisexuality was a thing.
And now to hope that there arenāt any typos in this thing.
Yoongi: Ho-
Namjoon: Hoseokās not missing, heās just right over there getting some food. Hoseokās not cheating on you and yes Hoseok is the most beautiful person youāve ever laid your eyes on. Now shoo.
Yoongi: I was gonna ask how your day went, you fucker.
Namjoon: ā¦
Yoongi: ā¦
Namjoon: For the record-