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You are absolutely valid and on the asexual spectrum even if:
You have a sex drive. Even if itās a high one. Because that is not sexual attraction.
You engage in erotica, pornographic material, explicit fanart or fanfiction. Because that is not sexual attraction.
You feel arousal. Because that is not sexual attraction. (While it can happen as a result, it is merely your bodyās response to certain stimuli, and yes, people on the asexual spectrum do indeed masturbate.)
You have romantic feelings for someone, or are in a romantic relationship. Because, and say it with me, that is not sexual attraction.
You have sex, enjoy talking about it, make sex jokes or even flirt. Because that is not sexual attraction.
I canāt exactly tell you what sexual attraction is per say, my experience with it is very subtle, and more along the lines ofĀ āI trust and love this person enough to do⦠stuff with themā and everyone is different in that regard.
For me, it is wrapped in more emotions, vulnerability and getting lost in the moment that it isnāt a clear cut thing and more an experience overall. (and Iāve only felt for one person ever, shout out to the boyfriend whenever he gets around to reading this! And Iām not counting the fictional crushes here because that is another ballpark entirely.)
So I wrote this for all the asexuals, gray asexuals, my fellow demisexuals, and anyone else thatās ace spec, because this stuff is nuanced and confusing, trust me, I had an existential crisis for about an hour when I first learned that demisexuality was a thing.
And now to hope that there arenāt any typos in this thing.
āThe only dangerous minority is the richā
fyi for those in Phoenix Arizona: stay away from Target because the Phoenix Police still won't arrest this dude despite it being illegal to declare intention of violence like this š
being bilingual is understanding but not being able to translate because your brain couldnāt be bothered to do any extra work and is just content with knowing what the heck is going on
Talk about character development. Heās no longer a meat shield, he is willingly putting his life on the line for Peach!
Good job Toad, youāll make a certain someone proud surely