When did hikers develop the collective impulse to stack rocks and make obnoxious, useless decorative cairns at every park and river they visit? I don’t remember seeing them as a kid except as trail markers, but now they’re EVERYWHERE. What part of “leave no trace” don’t people understand?
Fuck this one hits home.
“Togheter, all of us are heroes“
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One of the things that surprised me first time I watched the reboot of Star Trek was the deep heartache I felt for Spock Prime. Seriously, the movie’s shinny and the new crew are crazy pretty, but every time the movie ends, my thoughts linger on Prime. (this is by far the most depressing graph I have ever created.)
Years lived (so far): 157
Years knowing Jim: 28
Years trying to forget Jim: 3
Years spent as Space Husbands: 20
Years spent alone, carrying a holographic message of Jim on a pendant around his neck: 94
I am not crying…
apologies for the terrible video quality but i NEED y'all fellow Spirk enjoyers to see this freakin' blooper
Daily reminder, because this shit is so ingrained in global culture it makes me want to SCREAM, that vaginal sex is NOT SUPPOSED TO BE PAINFUL EVER. It is not supposed to bleed! No, not even when it's your "first time". That's not how it works and WHY WOULD IT BE? The vagina is a very cool dude that does this really cool thing: when sexually aroused, the tissue surrounding the vaginal opening as well as the muscle of the canal expands in width & length and lubricates. YES, EVEN "VIRGINS". You've probably heard something along the lines that "it hurts at first but it gets better" – NOPE. The vagina does not magically start functioning after a penis tears it open.
Painful sex is generally due to (other than ignorant partners):
- Minimal or no sexual arousal
- No additional lubrication (vaginal lubrication is great! it is also not always sufficient)
- Low oestrogen or unbalanced hormones (due to young age, health conditions, HRT, stages of menopause)
- Incompatible partners (yes, penises/strap ons can be TOO BIG, don't just pick up the biggest one you can find. look up how long the average aroused vagina is, seriously, then take into account your own anatomy and the position of your cervix at rest & when your vagina is mostly or fully aroused)
- Congenital conditions or a cervix that hangs lower than average
It is so important for people with vaginas to learn their body before having penetrative sex with a partner. PLEASE EXPLORE AND EDUCATE YOURSELF FIRST. Find what works for you. Do NOT put your health and safety in the hands of some idiot.
P.S. Sometimes it just doesn't work and that's okay. Vaginal sex is NOT the height of human experience. There are dozens of other mutually pleasurable sexual experiences to be had!
Hello everyone! Yours truly had gone blinder than the last time I was on an eye checkup so I’ll need new glasses soon! I was meaning to do this “drawings sale” a long time ago but never got around to do it!
So, hey, thought about now was a great time. If you can’t afford to buy or don’t want to, REBLOGS are highly appreciated. Thank you for your time, have a great day!<3