Mercury Is Raising Funds For Gender Affirming Care! Go Support However You Can!

keep a trans guy warm and fed

it's rough at the moment and we could use some help getting food and paying bills while we're trying to put money aside for our big move.

Kofi

paypal

moving funds 329/700

Thanks Tumblr Dad!

My dear lgbt+ kids,

Dealing with homophobia (and other forms of discrimination or hate) takes a lot of strength.

You may think about people who have to go face-to-face with homophobic people, like listening to (or even arguing against) your dad's anti-gay rant at the dinner table - but it's not only situations in which you could point at one person in the room who is clearly being homophobic right now.

It's also walking into a room full of people you never met and instantly feeling like there's a target on your back. It's sitting amongst your friends and wondering if they'd still be there if they knew. It's lying in your bed at night and feeling overwhelmed by the thought that there is just so much hate out there.

It'd be absolutely wrong to say that being gay is nothing but constant sad thoughts about homophobic people - but we do carry the knowledge with us that homophobia exists. Even if it's not aimed at you directly or you are not staring in its face right that moment, it is a burden to carry that with you.

Sometimes we don't think about that burden at all and sometimes it can literally feel like a huge weight is lying on our chest.

If it feels heavy for you right now, it's not a sign that you are weak. You are actually doing a very brave thing! You are carrying something really heavy... and also invisible. Something you maybe can't really share with others or feel like they don't understand. That is a tough thing to deal with and you are dealing with it! Giving yourself permission to actually feel the weight of that burden takes a lot of strength - and you do that. You feel the weight and you are still here. Good job, little fighter.

With all my love,

Your Tumblr Dad

Ok y’all, I need you to drop links for free binder services. It’s November which means that parents won’t think it’s odd for their children to request that they not inspect packages. They’ll simply assume it’s a present for whatever holiday they observe. So please do your part by dropping links in the reblogs and trying to get this seen by those who need it

edit: k, so I mean this in nicest way possible. Liking isn’t going to help anyone. This isn’t just for me, other people need these links. If you if you can’t/don’t have the energy to find and post links to ACTIVE donations. Please at least reblog so someone who follows you can. Please and thank you <3

Help me get Top Surgery please

Hey everyone! 

Queer person here trying to get top surgery before the political transphobia burst in my country as it is happening in the US and UK right now. 

gofundme.com

Help Nu get it off their chest!, organized by Melissa Denecke

Hi, everyone! And thanks in advance for your time. My name is Nu and I’m a 23 yea… Melissa Denecke needs your support for Help Nu get i

Any amount donated helps, every share is crutial. 

Thank you so much guys!

Chaotic academia is writing detailed lecture and study notes in sparkly gel pen

top surgery for dan

It would mean so much to us if you could please share this post. Dan is one of the kindest and most beautiful people I've ever met. They started T in 2019 but they haven't been able to get top surgery yet as it is so very expensive. Please help if you can, any amount would be sincerely appreciated.

Backabuddy

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Dan Keify, our sibling and friend, is looking for help on their journey of self-discovery and reclaiming their identity. Assigned female at

Happy Asexual Week of Visibility!

My dear lgbt+ kids,

Whenever you’re reading this, during Asexuality Awareness Week or not, it’s a good day to

- be proud of and comfortable in your identity as an asexual person

- question if you might be asexual (and no, you’re not too young, too old, too whatever!)

- support asexual people. Asexuality is real, there’s nothing wrong with it and asexual people belong in our community!

With all my love, Your Tumblr Dad