Reading. Reading. Reading. Being well-read is so valuable!! Get cosy, pick up a Jane Austen, Emily Brontë, or maybe a Charles Dickens and spend some of your free time indulging in literature. <3
Soft-spoken and kind expressions. No one likes being around rude people. Being a bitch doesn’t make you look confident. Instead, be kind, make conversation, pay attention, engage, etc… trust me.
Dainty jewellery. Find some high-quality signature pieces.
Think before you speak. Take a moment to reflect on your thoughts so you can speak confidently and with intent without stumbling over your words!! <3
Quality over quantity. Stop buying large amounts of cheap clothing; instead, save up and invest in higher-quality pieces that will actually last you. :)
Practice your handwriting. Having pretty and neat handwriting is a lovely little detail; extra points if you write in cursive. ;)
Drop the tiktok slag. “sticking out your gyat for the rizzler”… just stop, please.
Keep to yourself. Small circle, no bragging, gossips only with the closest, keep your plans to yourself.
Watch your posture. Straighten that back, honey. I see you. :))
Manicured nails. I do mine every two weeks. Almond-shaped, always dark red. <3
As always, Please feel free to add your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! ♡ ₊ ⊹
✩‧₊*:・love ya ・:*₊‧✩
My Top 5 Favourite exercises (Abs / Core) :
Please follow a calorie deficit diet if you want to see actual results.
Personally.. I find this so much easier than actual crunches.
Lower abs. 🔥🔥🔥
15 * 3
Difficulty 💥💥💥
Side of the belly. 🔥🔥🔥
15 * 3
Difficulty 💥💥💥💥
Lower back & abs. 🔥🔥🔥🔥
15 * 2
Difficulty 💥💥
Full abs 🔥🔥🔥🔥
20 * 3
Difficulty 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥. But it's totally worth it. I swear.
Full abs. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
20 * 2
💟THE SONG JIA EFFECT💟
💖I have princess sickness, I'm happy with myself and wanna be born as myself again .
💞I am really satisfied with who I am and I love myself.
💕It's hard for me to have a crush on anyone , my standards are as high as Mt. Everest , and I won't lower them for anyone , especially for a man.
🥿I honestly don't care what people think about me , even if someone dislikes me , I don't care .
🩰My life revolves around me and only me
💟I am the main character of my life .
💟 I radiate Jennie Kim & Jang Wonyoung Vibes .
💖 Im the perfect Epitome of " I don't chase , I attract " .
💕I don't need pretty privilege, Pretty privilege needs me
💞I don't please or chase anyone but it's always them who try to please or chase me .
🩰I have the abundance mindset
🥿I have strong , bold , feminine , " ice cool queen " , " it girl " , mysterious aura .
💞I only seek self validation , I never seek validation from others .
💖I belong to the Youtube Royalty
💕I never compare myself with others because I'm Incomparable
💞I never feel insecure because I know that I'm the prettiest , Smartest, coolest & hottest it girl out there .
🩰Receiving love letters , proposals and messages from Kpop Idols , celebrities & Models is so normal for me .
🥿Breathing is enough for me to make everyone whipped for me
💖I take exquisite care of myself & always put myself first.
💖I'm extremely popular on social media ( youtube and instagram )
💕I always go viral for my ethereal beauty & charm & iconic confidence .
💞I have the prettiest hair & clearest skin in the whole universe .
🩰I'm a style icon !!
🥿I always stand up for myself no matter what .
💕Everyone always fall head over heels for me
💖I have a strong magnetic aura because of self love and self confidence .
🥿Everyone admires confidence and love that I hold for myself
🩰I have the radiant classy , elegant , luxurious looks
💕I possess kpop idol like beauty
💞I always set the standard way too high .
💖No one can compare to my charisma or confidence .
the forbidden flower (2023) : appreciation post | otp + scenery
hii, can i ask about each of the bp members as a person? this anon https://www.tumblr.com/hwnglx/713518010385694720/felix-as-a-person-pls?source=share inspired me. thank you!
tbh, looking at all their birth charts now, i understand why these women are thriving in success. they were pretty much all made for the spotlight.
blackpink as a person based on tarot and astrology, take it with a grain of salt
jisoo capricorn sun aquarius moon
fool&8ofsw&2ofc, judg, kingofp, 8ofp, herm
jisoo is a person who is very passionate, mature and incredibly hardworking, especially when it comes to her own goals and the vision she's set for her life. her willingness to put in extra effort and her responsible and reliable approach to her work makes her an amazing business woman. she's very aware of this quality of hers and carries a quiet but strong confidence inside of her. however, her aquarius moon can make her pretty unemotional, which can lead to her struggling to understand people of more emotional nature. this trait of hers plus her more individualistic and naturally reserved nature is prone to cause a lack of emotionally intimate connections and alienate her from others sometimes, making her more of a lone wolf who prefers staying to herself.
rosé aquarius sun aries moon
knofsw&3ofw, pagofw, 6ofp
rosé is an incredibly determined, independent and action-oriented soul. similarly to jisoo, she's very fixated on fulfilling the goals she wishes to achieve. she is willing to go to great lengths and face challenges with her strong-willed and energetic spirit. though there is a tendency for her to become a little too egocentric sometimes, she's still continuously generous and giving to the people she loves and cherishes, especially with her wealth. she's very sociable, outgoing and friendly, also exudes a lot of sweet charm and is willing to humbly learn new things on the one hand, but has her bossy, stubborn and opinionated ways as well, once you manage to rub her the wrong way or stand in her way somehow.
jennie capricorn sun scorpio moon
world, star&3ofp, 7ofc
jennie is the type of person who was made for the spotlight. she has a lot of star power and natural charisma. she also is an ambitious and devoted perfectionist, especially when it comes to her career. her scorpio moon makes her an incredibly creative and artistic person with a vast imagination, and also gives her a great deal of emotional depth and sensitivity. however, because jennie can easily get a little lost in her head and get overwhelmed by her emotions, she prefers hiding away that side of her, out of fear of making herself vulnerable. she's also very aware of the power she can have over others, using it to manipulate or control them to her advantage sometimes.
lisa aries sun scorpio moon
5ofsw&kingofc, 4ofp, knofw
lisa is a person full of passion who approaches her goals with a huge amount of enthusiasm. she's another member who's a natural performer by blood, she thrives and feels like her best self in the spotlight. while her magnetic, attractive and mysterious personality draws people to her very easily, her bluntness can intimidate them sometimes and her extremely strong desire to succeed can stand in her own way. she can become overly stubborn and fixed in her ways, as well as struggle with balancing her fiery nature with her more emotional side. though she is much more sensitive and emotionally deeper than what meets the eye, i see her thinking that inner softness can make her seem weak and prefer keeping it to herself.
new week : begin again. stay positive. set intentions. leave last weeks negativity behind. be kind to your mind and body. drink your water. don’t skip meals. meditate. move your body. make time to do things that makes you happy. be productive ✨🌸🕯️
+ morning coffee or tea ritual: start your day with a carefully prepared cup of coffee or tea, and if you can, enjoy it slowly somewhere cosy, with a book or soft music in the background.
+ journalling ritual: whether it's morning pages or an end-of-day debrief, consider free-flow journalling to unclog your thoughts, face any problems, and deal with your emotions.
+ skincare ritual: develop a luxurious skincare routine, slowing down to pay real attention and care to your body. consider adding in lymphatic massage, too.
+ mindful cooking: allow cooking to be a meditative process, taking time to choose fresh, seasonal ingredients, explore new recipes, and enjoy the hands-on experience of being in the kitchen. set the table with care, even for simple meals, using beautiful dishes and linens.
+ midday break: decompress and take a quiet break in the middle of the day, perhaps with a short walk through a nearby park or a few minutes of journaling. pause and reflect on how you are feeling and how you want to feel for the rest of the day.
+ afternoon tea or snack: enjoy a piece of dark chocolate, some fresh fruit, delicious cheese, or a small pastry, served on a delicate tray or vintage plate, for a moment of indulgence.
+ evening wind-down: in the evening, unwind with a bath or hot shower, surrounded by soft candlelight and soothing music, followed by changing into comfortable, elegant loungewear or pyjamas. this could be a time for reading, listening to music, spending time with your partner, or enjoying a classic film.
+ home care: pay daily attention to your living space and cultivate a serene and inviting atmosphere by tidying up, clearing away clutter, arranging fresh flowers, and lighting a candle or two.
+ gratitude practice: take a few moments for reflection and gratitude, appreciating the small, beautiful moments that made your day special.
Healthy self love habits + activities°❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:・
• Drinking a ton of water and tea (I love peppermint, green, and ginger tea 😽🍵☕️)
• Oil pulling (oral hygiene)
• Read a book
• Going to bed early + waking up early - sleep affects everything, it is so important. Early to bed and early to rise is better for your brain and makes you more productive.
• Stretch out those strong muscles, girlllll
• Positive self talk (giving yourself compliments) - helps you respect, accept, and love yourself 🩷
• Do some journaling
• Facial yoga + facial massage
• Engage in fun activities that make you feel like yourself (Sports, video games, drawing, swimming, dancing, etc.)
• Deep breathing and meditation 🧘♀️
• Make yourself a delicious, healthy, nutritious meal
Performing any of these habits/activities makes me feel good and helps to get me out of any slump I may be in.
Introverted Intuition or Ni, is characterized by their inclination towards “a-ha” moments and their symbol oriented perception of the world. With an innate talent for seeing meaning everywhere and striving towards their desired future, INxJs are unparalleled when it comes to big picture thinking.
Astrological placements that I associate with the Ni dominants, INTJ & INFJ:
Lilith in 10th, Venus in 10th, Lilith in 6th, Venus in 6th, Pluto in 6th, Saturn in 10th, Saturn in 11th.
<one track mind for success, a fine eye for detail, goal oriented, ambitious, a heavily analytical mind, and a stern and domineering presence amongst their peers.>
Pluto in 5th, Scorpio 4th, Scorpio 5th, Scorpio Juno, Aquarius/Uranus in 8th.
<hatred for small talk, all or nothing attitude towards relationships, a need for depth in their relationships, and finally for aquarius/uranus in 8th, a deep inquisitive mind that they use to break down their interests and hobbies.>
an updated repost. if you don’t have any of these and are an ni dom, i’m in no way discrediting you. these are just placements that give off the energy of ni inherently.
dt: my fellow ni dom, @8emstar8.