Quick Reminder That Although What Is Happening In Ukraine Is Inhumane , But So Is The Occupation Of Palestine,

me, getting dressed: ok so which fictional character are we manifesting in place of a fixed identity on this dire autumn morning

mood: slowdive chilling in a graveyard

Your goal is to leave everything undefined, including yourself.

One bright spot in the storm

“I’m not everything I want to be, but I’m more than I was, and I’m still learning.”

— Charlotte Eriksson, Everything Changed When I Forgave Myself

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the idea that all coping mechanisms are valid and completely immune to criticism is honestly one of the worst things on nd/mentally ill tumblr.

just because you’re doing something to cope doesn’t mean it’s not hurting you, or that it isn’t hurting others.

sometimes, coping mechanisms hurt other people, like compulsive lying or constantly expecting your partner to give you reassurance every second of the day. sometimes, your coping mechanisms harm your recovery even though they feel good at the time. sometimes, your coping mechanisms just further entrench you in whatever you’re struggling with.

stop defending unhealthy behavior with the justification of “oh it’s just me coping”. you’re not permanently chained to whatever harmful bullshit you do.

i don't think we talk about dead poets society enough . and no ,i don't mean talk about the impeccable aesthetics . what i mean is that we don't talk about the tragedy of this film . a young man taking his own life at such a young age , weighed down by the expectations of everyone around him . we don't talk about how neil was already dead before that scene . you see it's sad that i've watched a lot of films in my life yet this one, this one spreads dread inside me , it makes me relate to the boy that would rather not live at all ,than live a life without passion . how many teenagers out there have their dreams crushed every single day , how many depressed adults have had to leave their passions behind in exchange for their seemingly perfect lives . how many of us are trapped inside this vicious cycle of living but not actually feeling alive .