I Wish I Could Hug Chan Right Now And Say It’s Okay

time is going by too quickly. never stop talking about jonghyun. never stop sharing his words of wisdom, his poetry, his music. don’t let people forget his voice or his face or his name. don’t let anyone forget him or put him in the past. keep on loving him.

We are right by your side Han ❣️

~Reblog if you also suffer from an anxiety disorder,He is not alone.

psa

this account does and will always support Bang Chan. if you don’t, feel free to unfollow or block me. thank you. he did nothing wrong and the hate he’s getting is literally for no reason. he’s not a racist. where that came from?? idk.

anyways, i love chan. he’s a whole cutie and an amazing person. thank you for coming to my ted talk

Okay.

Everyone.

Take a deep breathe.

You're okay, Woojin is okay, Skz are okay.

There have obviously been some problems we didn't know about, whether it's a physical problem, mental problem, or whatever, something was going on and now we have our beautiful eldest member Woojin leave the group. This doesn't mean we have to pretend he was never there, this doesn't mean we can't be upset about it, but it'll be okay. He above anyone knows what's best for himself and whatever made him make this decision had to be important enough to leave something he's worked very hard for. It's okay to be sad, it's okay to cry. Take time away and just get yourself together. I know a group can come back and even bounce back stronger than ever before when this happens. Stray Kids are still nine or none, but this time Stay will just have to be that 9th member. Work hard for skz, keep supporting them, but above all take care of yourself. The important thing is everyone is okay. We will be okay. Stay strong Stays ❤️

if ten don’t end up on james corden with fruit flying at him then what’s the point

You know what?

Since JYP Ent. hasn’t spoken up about anything for a WEEK, I’m just going to assume the most likely case. They kicked Woojin out, plain and simple.

Because if it was really personal reasons, there would have been a specific statement as to why, like other companies did for Hwall and Wonho. If it was a family issue, we would have known from Woojin himself, like how we knew about IN2IT Kim Sunghyun’s economic situation concerning his family.

And it can’t have been something that bad because we would hear of it anyways. Like come on, drugs and sex scandals? We’ve been there. There can’t be anything worse.

But it doesn’t matter what’s going on.

I’m not going to give up on Woojin.

Unless there is a clear explanation as to why Woojin is suddenly taken out of a group I will keep on talking about Woojin and drive JYP and his company mad. But I am not going to be seen as the Stay that stood by while a member was forced out of his own group. That’s a regret I am not going to have.

RIP Chadwick Boseman

He's so attractive ❤💛💚💙💜

so i just woke up to the news of goo hara’s passing. she was a south korean singer and actress, only twenty-eight years old. this is coming right after hearing about sulli’s passing just about a month ago. in 2017, the lead singer of shinee, kim jonghyun passed away at just twenty-seven years old, followed by actor jeon tae soo’s suicide in 2018, actress jeon mi seon in 2019. this problem isn’t just found in south korea, but i’m writing after seeing the news this morning.

there have been more than 200 celebrity suicides in the 21st century. the afsp published that in 2017, 47,173 americans died by suicide. there were about 1,400,000 attempts. the people who are dying are not just “our family, friends, teachers, etc.” they’re other human beings who genuinely should have every chance at living life they deserve. there is something inherently wrong in social society that prevents people from being able to live. there are some who wish to commit suicide but cannot because they are more afraid of their children’s/family’s/friend’s lives than their own lives. this is another extremely big and undressed problem, because there are so so many people suffering from depression. 

we can’t just blame it on cyber bullying and call it a day. it’s a much more serious problem than that, because not everyone dies from being cyber bullied. not everyone is dying from being bullied. some people are dying because of economic reasons, family problems, traumatic events, you name it. we need to be helping each and everyone in some possible way, whether it be by just trying to extend a hand to those who need it, or focusing on bettering mental health care.

there needs to be something done, and me being frustrated and heartbroken after hearing about suicides won’t be enough. awareness is not just enough, but it’s an amazing step towards a goal. we need to start taking some sort of action, and fast, because suicide is the tenth most common way people die in america. (after a list of 1-9 being health-related death, like cancer, diabetes, etc that are also very important)

if you know someone needs help, be compassionate, empathetic, and an active listener. provide them with different solutions, like therapy or just being able to sit and talk with them. serious problems like these take time, and unfortunately, it doesn’t seem as though people are taking the time to actively move towards a society that is more accepting, aware, and inclusive of people who are struggling within.

we need to care, and we need to start caring faster if there is meant to be a way to help those who need help. please read this 

 this is the national suicide prevention lifeline: Call 1-800-273-8255