Denied For A Week

D/s 101: If you call yourself a Dominant, don’t do this stuff...

You have adopted a title that should come with a giant heaping dose of honor, respect, and trustworthiness. 

1. Don’t make demands of submissive girls that don’t belong to you. You should know the difference between having the ability to control your own submissive, and how you should be treating all the rest that don’t belong to you.

2. Don’t talk intimately/woo other submissives behind the back of the one that belongs to you. All the time and energy you have to put into the submissive world should be aimed at your own submissive. If you want a different submissive, do the right thing, and break with the one you currently own first.

3. Don’t ditch submissives. How would you feel if the person you depend on for nearly everything suddenly went up in a puff of smoke, and was never heard from again? How would it effect your ability to trust someone else to take up the same role in your life? Stop ghosting, and ruining perfectly good submissives. 

4. Don’t cut your submissive out from contributing to your relationship. Yes, I know she put you in charge, but relationships evolve, and if you don’t attend to what she wants out of yours, your relationship is likely to evolve in separate directions. You can still be in charge, and listen to her wants and needs, I promise. 

5. Don’t ask someone you just met to be your submissive. It’s your job to inspire her to submit to you, by getting to know who she is, and showing her that you are the single most qualified man to be her Dominant. Don’t be lazy. Being a Dominant takes a lot of focus and energy. If you’re not up for that, go find another title to adopt. 

6. Don’t put your submissive on a shelf when caring for her is not convenient to you, and take her down off the shelf when it suits you. Submissives are human beings, and though some of them like to be treated like objects from time to time, they should not be ignored when you don’t feel like dealing with your relationship. If you don’t have to the time and energy to adopt the role of Dominant for someone, then don’t do it in a half-assed way.

7. Don’t compare your current submissive with past submissives. It’s not a competition. You should be making her feel like she’s the most important person in your current world, so don’t make her feel like she’s less than other submissives, or that you’re pining for something you no longer have, and feel you can’t have with her. 

8. Don’t skimp on the essential ingredients in D/s relationships. Don’t be that guy who limits your submissives safeword in any way. A safeword is the difference between consensual sex, and possible rape and abuse. Don’t skimp on aftercare. Let her know how much you appreciate all the control she continuously allows you to have over her, and how well she is performing for you. It’s the difference between a proud and happy submissive, and a sad and confused one. 

9. Don’t make unilateral decisions that your submissive is directly opposed to. You don’t get to decide your submissive needs a sister because it suits you to have a second submissive to play with, when it’s patently against her wishes. Once again, it’s her relationship too. 

10. Don’t lie to your submissive. It’s all about trust. It’s trust that inspires her to submit to you. It’s trust that inspires her to allow you to continue to hold her submission. One or two breaches of trust, and it all falls apart. 

JD🌹

Last night I was made to listen to Sir's drip file on loop until he allowed me to stop ><

13 orgasms left for the year...

I'm only allowed 13 orgasms for the rest of the year and sir decides when I can have them...

Crying is all right in its own way while it lasts. But you have to stop sooner or later, and then you still have to decide what to do.

C.S. Lewis (via lotsofpinkplaid)

Be quiet

(best I can tell from google image and tineye, this image is deliberately anonymous)

Nicole moaned in frustration as she tried again to cum, but it was no good. No matter how much of her vast porn collection she went through, how many sites she tried, ever since she’d been to that one site last week she hadn’t been able to get herself off without it. Tonight she’d sworn she would do it without the site, but after what felt like hours, she couldn’t take it anymore.

If she wanted to cum, she didn’t have a choice… What she did have was a bookmark, one she couldn’t bring herself to erase. She clicked it and went to the site.

This time there were no images or video of women playing with themselves or being fucked. Every time she visited the site, those images were fainter, the oddly twisting spiral in the background clearer. This time the spiral was everywhere.

A dialogue box popped up. “What do you want?” There were three radio selectors to choose from:

Beg

Obey

Cum

Below them was a button: Submit.

Three fingers plunging in and out of her dripping snatch, Nicole clicked “Cum” and then Submit.

She groaned as the popup disappeared for a second and then reappeared. Again she clicked Cum, then Submit while she desperately frigged herself, but nothing. She tried it again and again: Cum, Submit. Cum, Submit. Cum, Submit.

But she couldn’t. She was right on the edge, completely unable to stop, shaking with need… but she couldn’t get there without the site’s help.

Desperate, not knowing what else to try, she clicked one of the other options: Beg. She didn’t even have to click the button; the moment she clicked beg, the dialogue box vanished, and there was only the spiral with the single word “Beg” floating in the center.

She couldn’t think straight, couldn’t focus on anything but the screen in front of her and the waves of need cascading through her body. “Please…” she moaned. “Please let me cum… I need it so bad, I’ll do anything…”

The dialogue box appeared again, but this time “Beg” was grayed out. Eagerly, she clicked Cum and Submit.

Nothing.

She groaned… but she understood. She’d promised to do anything, hadn’t she? That could only mean one thing. She clicked Obey, and the box cleared. Her eyes widened as instructions appeared in the center of the spiral. Slowly, her thoughts wound to a stop. Her eyes dimmed, her face slackened, her mouth opened. Her entire body relaxed, except for the hand still eagerly working between her legs.

And then the box appeared again. “What do you want?” it asked, but there were no options, no choices, just a single button: Submit.

She clicked it. She submitted. She came.

And then she sat, watching the spiral, and waited to be picked up.

Sweet release

Sir was very nice and let me cum this morning after edging. I was kind of yearning for it after last night he sent me to bed in a frenzied state without much relief.

Denied ><

2 days of unexpected denial have made me quiver in need. I’m very horny and need to be used by sir. I’m so frustrated from not having been rewarded ><