I Am Really Holding On To That 'it Will Get Better' Part Otherwise I Will Officially Lose It

We are an awful lot alike, Theo.

If I had a nickel for every time I deeply related to a Finn Wolfhard character who has horrible internalized homophobia, I would have two nickels!! Which isn’t a lot but it’s weird that it happened twice!

STOP saying boris's scandinavian wife and three children are fake!!!! let adultery and absent fatherhood into your hearts!!!!!

I’ve never been to Las Vegas because I’m scared of becoming gay

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Your phone is why you don't feel sexy

Eros, desire, instinct, eternity

Eros—carnal desire—is an embodied experience, and our phones do a terrific job of getting us out of our bodies and into our heads. In the digital age, we often neglect our bodies entirely, and use them merely as a way to transport our heads to meetings. (The rise of rave culture and physical fitness programs since the 1990s is perhaps evidence that we feel the need to fight against this.) No one feels connected, present, alive, embodied, or sexy when they’re on their phone all day.

And our phones don’t just move us out of our bodies, but they have become something of a second brain, a second body. You don’t have to remember something if you can record it, photograph it, or type it into your notes app. You don’t have to look good in person if you look good on Instagram. Our phones not only hollow out our true selves, but are starting to replace us.

STOPPPP😭😭😭😭😭

hey man I found a piece of your soul stuck in the text messages of old friends you don’t speak to anymore. do you want it back

Theo and Pippa tumblr bloggers, one in secret the other sooooo so open and proud.

"I got 360 notes on my last post Theo!"

"oh wow that's so awesome!!" *got 1869 notes on his last post but can't let anyone know what the post was about or that he regularly uses tumblr*

rip theo decker u wouldve loved the xandemic