It feels as if all the wind inside of me has been knocked out. That terrible feeling when the person you are in love with and your best friend starts dating... I have never felt so alone.
Saoirse Ronan and Timothee Chalamet did that.
Bob's Burgers ❤🍔
As a diabetic in a country where I do have access to insulin (more afordable than the US, but still a lot of extra money for me) I cannot wrap my head around how this is okay.
fyi things like insulin, hearing aids, wheelchairs, glasses costing money at all is a form of structural ableism
i think the difference between the barbie's treatment of ken's in barbieland vs the ken's treatment of barbie's in kendom can be summed up pretty easily actually:
barbie's ignored ken, realistically they were given an opportunity to have their own lives and do what they wanted and they didn't do it. everything revolved around their barbie's, ken would only have a good day if barbie did or if barbie acknowledged him. they never tried to do anything they genuinely wanted to.
whereas when the ken's took over, they brainwashed the barbie's into liking them and doing things for them. they would bring them beers and act like waitresses, give them foot massages or watch films they otherwise wouldn't be interested in. they became mindless and existed to serve the ken's. they were no longer just friends with the barbie's, they didn't want barbie to love them back, they wanted to own them.
people talking about ken falling down the patriarchy pipeline out of neglect or loneliness but why couldn't the ken's form friendships and communities like the barbie's did? why is it up to barbie to ensure that ken doesn't feel that way? at what point is it acceptable to blame barbie for ken's feelings? barbie let ken come to her party, watched him beach, held him whilst he went to the hospital, agreed to let him go on her journey, says hi to him when she sees him, things friends do and things she's shown doing with all the other barbie's, but if he still feels loneliness after that because she doesn't want to kiss him or doesn't love him back, why is that barbie's fault? meanwhile the entire time ken is ignoring other ken's out of his fixation on barbie and is even trying to "beach" other ken's off and causing problems with other ken's to gain barbie's attention
to me it's the perfect representation of the real world in the sense that women will leave men alone, men will want to own women, and women will be blamed for men's neglect and loneliness but it's a paper cage they create for themselves because they refuse to see women as individuals and arguably they don't actively try to create and nurture communities in the same way women do. ken's story is sad yes, but it's a story of his own design and what makes it worse is that he blames barbie for it. not himself, not mattel, no the real world but barbie, who's friendly disinterest in him means that she should be the one who is blamed and punished
Pretty much me...
Read like Julian Morrow's students
Untimely Meditations by Friedrich Nietzsche, Epigraph
Republic, Book II by Plato, Epigraph
Tom Swift by Victor Appleton,
Paradise Lost by John Milton
Goodbye, Columbus by Philip Roth
The New Testament
Agamemnon by Aeschylus
Oresteia by Aeschylus
Inferno by Dante
Poetics by Aristotle
The Iliad by Homer
The Bacchae by Euripides
Parmenides by Plato
The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald
Ivanhoe by Sir Walter Scott
Rover Boys by Edward Stratemeyer
Journey from Chester to London by Thomas Pennant
The Club History of London by ?
The Pirates of Penzance by W.S. Gilbert
Bobbsey Twins by Laura Lee Hope
Marino Faliero by Lord Byron
The Waste Land by T.S. Eliot
Sherlock Homes by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
Madame Bovary by Gustave Flaubert
Mémoires by Duc de Saint-Simon
Vanity Fair by William Makepeace Thackeray
Othello by Shakespeare
The World Book Encyclopedia
Men of Thought and Deed by E. Tipton Chatsford
Invisible Man by H.G. Wells
Peter Pan, or The Boy Who Wouldn’t Grow Up by J. M. Barrie
The Divine Comedy by Dante
Superman Comics
The Upanishads
Perry Mason Novels by Erle Stanley Gardner
With Rue my Heart is Laden by A.E. Housman
Lycidas by John Milton
The Charge of the Light Brigade by Alfred Lord Tennyson
In Flanders Fields by John McCrae
Corpus of Mycenaean Inscriptions from Knossos
Alice in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll
The Malcontent by John Marston
The White Devil by John Webster
The Broken Heart by John Ford, epilogue epigraph
Doctor Faustus by Christopher Marlowe
The Revenger’s Tragedy by Cyril Tourneur
Our Mutual Friend by Charles Dickens
Dido, Henry Fuseli - 1781
Sure would be a shame if this got spread around and he lost his job 💅🏽
Autism and Phone Calls
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