The Next Time Someone Wants To Argue About "what Is A Woman", I'll Just Send Them This Post Honestly

I love how people automatically assume that being a homemaker is a decision that doesn’t account for the wants or needs of the woman + her family. Or that our husbands see us as not human- like where on Earth is this logic coming from????

''A woman should submit"

Are you a dog? A child? A servant? You are your own person with your own opinions, wants and needs. You are smart enough to know what's best for you. You deserve to be treated as an equal not as lesser. Being a homemaker isn't what you think it is. You're young; go travel, have fun, get a job you love, study, live your potential and have new experiences instead of daydreaming about erasing who you are and dedicating your entire life for someone who doesn't see you as a person.

You are very respectful and I appreciate that about you so I’m gonna make this nice short and sweet

1. This is my blog full of my opinions

2. My life (which you probably don’t know about)

3. I’m an adult

4. I am capable of understanding the difference being guided and being abused

5. If you are so bothered by me choosing the way I think and how I would like to live my life you are more then welcome to ignore me or leave

Being traditional doesn’t mean I can’t study or travel or do anything cause I marry a traditional man and want a traditional relationship

When traditional women chose the right man for us more often then not these desires are fulfilled even more then anyone can imagine

A husband isn’t meant to hold you back but be your biggest friend and supporter

A husband should be able enhance a woman’s life not downgrade it

I get it not everyone is for tradlife and that’s okay you live your life and I’ll live mine

Thank you very much for your question and I hope you have a wonderful day you wonderful person

I’ve had a cute little llama xylophone for over a year- a gift from a friend when we found out I was pregnant with my daughter- and now she’s big enough to sit up by herself and play with it. It was a bit of a shock that made me tear up a little when I realized it.

Time flies. And God is so good. 🩷

Sure I can do anything a man could do

But why would I want to

I would rather be carrying my someday husbands babies and making bread

This hit me deep

me every Sunday

if you are a woman who wants to be a wife and a mother its actually important that the man you say yes to date, be in a relationship with, and marry actually has skills, resources, and drive. its important that he is honorable and his actions show it. its important he is *actually,* not just conceptually, capable of making a life for you both and any children. him just wanting to be with you, or worse - simply agreeing to be with you....is not enough. that is the ground level. please do better!

Basic Homesteading Skills

Crafts

quilting

embroidery

cross-stitch

knitting

crochet

sewing

Cooking and Baking

homemade bread

homemade butter

homemade extracts

dandelion jelly

Canning

26 canning recipes

canning jars 101

60 canning recipes

Gardening

edible trees to plant

what to plant to save the bees

cure and braid garlic

save seeds for next year

braid onions for long term storage

build a greenhouse

Animals

homemade chicken feed

raising mealworms for chickens

why to raise nigerian dwarf goats

Outdoors

starting a fire with sticks

trail signs

knotting

find true north without a compass

Medicine

homemade neosporin

all purpose healing salve

Traditional femininity is empowering. There is strength in being soft, beauty in being kind, and peace in being soft spoken and humble.

Feminine women add to the world by building up a sense of community and fostering safe and comfortable homes in those communities.

It’s not humiliating to be a traditionally feminine woman.

Howl's Moving Castle dir. Hayao Miyazaki | 2004