STOP. Guilting. Women. For. Wanting. To. Get. Married. To. Men. And. Raise. Children.

I will never understand people who say you should have fun instead of getting married young as if those are mutually exclusive.

The only explanations to saying that is either that your idea of fun is fucking anything that breathes without it being considered cheating, or that you’re dating someone toxic.

There is no reason you should be dating someone if you think marrying them would prevent you from doing things you enjoy.

Either find a better partner, or get real hobbies and interests beyond sex.

When I say “people against getting married young” I don’t mean people against getting married the second you turn 18. I mean the people who yell about “enjoy your 20s don’t tie yourself to someone!”

me every Sunday

local Oklahoma resident visits Colorado and is shocked and appalled to see that the land goes up sometimes.

As a homemaker, I have a lot of cleaning and cooking and laundry to do. But homemaking also allows you to have some spare time, particularly as your kids get older. So I read regularly to sharpen my mind, feel alive, and stay interesting to my husband. If the only thing you have to talk about when your husband is home is what your friends have gossiped about, you're not going to be very interesting.

Something I never thought I’d do:

My husband mentioned before we got married that he loves cheesecake. I took a mental note but was too busy working to actually do anything about it.

Since I came home in October, and he came home from deployment, I’ve been less stressed and happy as can be. So what did I do tonight?

I baked a cheesecake simply because he likes it.

That is something I never thought I’d do.

Noooooo don't indoctrinate your own children into your family's system of beliefs and values you have to let us indoctrinate them into the state's system of beliefs and values that includes rejecting their family and parents' instruction you are literally evil for wanting to raise your own children in your own home without letting us undermine you nooooo

“if you become a housewife they’re gonna cheat and you’re gonna get abandoned with nothing some day.”

has to be the biggest self projection ever. why do you automatically assume every relationship is going to go badly, and why do you feel the need to project your own fears onto other people who actually feel secure in their relationship/with their decision?

I love how people automatically assume that being a homemaker is a decision that doesn’t account for the wants or needs of the woman + her family. Or that our husbands see us as not human- like where on Earth is this logic coming from????

''A woman should submit"

Are you a dog? A child? A servant? You are your own person with your own opinions, wants and needs. You are smart enough to know what's best for you. You deserve to be treated as an equal not as lesser. Being a homemaker isn't what you think it is. You're young; go travel, have fun, get a job you love, study, live your potential and have new experiences instead of daydreaming about erasing who you are and dedicating your entire life for someone who doesn't see you as a person.

You are very respectful and I appreciate that about you so I’m gonna make this nice short and sweet

1. This is my blog full of my opinions

2. My life (which you probably don’t know about)

3. I’m an adult

4. I am capable of understanding the difference being guided and being abused

5. If you are so bothered by me choosing the way I think and how I would like to live my life you are more then welcome to ignore me or leave

Being traditional doesn’t mean I can’t study or travel or do anything cause I marry a traditional man and want a traditional relationship

When traditional women chose the right man for us more often then not these desires are fulfilled even more then anyone can imagine

A husband isn’t meant to hold you back but be your biggest friend and supporter

A husband should be able enhance a woman’s life not downgrade it

I get it not everyone is for tradlife and that’s okay you live your life and I’ll live mine

Thank you very much for your question and I hope you have a wonderful day you wonderful person