How To Make Your Husband Feel Valued And Appreciated

I love how people automatically assume that being a homemaker is a decision that doesn’t account for the wants or needs of the woman + her family. Or that our husbands see us as not human- like where on Earth is this logic coming from????

''A woman should submit"

Are you a dog? A child? A servant? You are your own person with your own opinions, wants and needs. You are smart enough to know what's best for you. You deserve to be treated as an equal not as lesser. Being a homemaker isn't what you think it is. You're young; go travel, have fun, get a job you love, study, live your potential and have new experiences instead of daydreaming about erasing who you are and dedicating your entire life for someone who doesn't see you as a person.

You are very respectful and I appreciate that about you so I’m gonna make this nice short and sweet

1. This is my blog full of my opinions

2. My life (which you probably don’t know about)

3. I’m an adult

4. I am capable of understanding the difference being guided and being abused

5. If you are so bothered by me choosing the way I think and how I would like to live my life you are more then welcome to ignore me or leave

Being traditional doesn’t mean I can’t study or travel or do anything cause I marry a traditional man and want a traditional relationship

When traditional women chose the right man for us more often then not these desires are fulfilled even more then anyone can imagine

A husband isn’t meant to hold you back but be your biggest friend and supporter

A husband should be able enhance a woman’s life not downgrade it

I get it not everyone is for tradlife and that’s okay you live your life and I’ll live mine

Thank you very much for your question and I hope you have a wonderful day you wonderful person

She fixes her home, instead of her man.

She gives thanks, instead of orders.

She uses her voice for kindness, instead of evil.

She makes a warm dinner, instead of trouble.

She puts up flowers, instead of her guard.

She opens her heart, instead of an act.

Sure I can do anything a man could do

But why would I want to

I would rather be carrying my someday husbands babies and making bread

I've been thinking a bit about what it means to be a homemaker lately. And I think about things my mom did when I was a kid. She decorated the house for different seasons and occasions. She baked cookies and banana bread and cake for our birthdays. She made beef stew and barbecued chicken. When we were little we would set up leprechaun traps for St. Patrick's day and she would hide Easter eggs and make us Valentine's baskets. Homemakers are memory makers. They are the ones who build your sense of belonging, of safety, of love and comfort. I started thinking about this when I was reading A Little Life. Though their life is complicated, Jude becomes a homemaker. I don't think it matters if you work or if you don't have kids-- homemakers are people who make homes. My mom was a single parent and she worked full time and attended night classes when she was pursuing a degree. And she created a home for her children.

Heaven knows I keep falling into some of these traps… 😥

"When a culture of Ladies arises, a culture of Gentleman will follow."

~ Jason Everl

Target has a bunch of sweater tights that are wonderful for making dresses multi-season!! I swear I’m going to practically live in mine now, they’re so comfortable and soft!!