Key Differences In Sexes

Key Differences In Sexes

I was reading this article by Dr. Nick Neave in which he explains how we are born predisposed to search for the best partner, because all of our ancestors before were doing the exact same things.

Here are some key points that stuck out to me.

Females are smaller and weaker than males, so, in prehistoric times, women and their offspring were prone to being the victims of predators and violence. They needed the support and protection of men who didn’t just have brute force but also had social status in the group, either through their sheer physicality or the strength of their personality. That’s why women still look for a mate of higher social standing. If a woman had a relationship with a socially dominant male, she would immediately get greater access to resources because her social standing would be elevated, too. As we shall see, modern surveys consistently show that women today ape [no pun intended?] those inherent characteristics by looking for partners who are socially dominant and have the respect of their peers, paying close attention to how men interact with, and are treated by, other men.

When couples meet at speed-dating events, typically a man will judge a woman on her looks and youth. His priorities are whether she’s healthy, interested in sex, and can give him children one day. He doesn’t care how much she earns or her social status. Typically, however, a woman’s first question will be: ‘What job do you do?’ It sounds a friendly overture, but what she really wants to know is his social position and earning capacity. Is he an industrious, hard worker, capable of providing for her and their children? Because of his power, even the ugliest politician on the planet has women lining up to go to bed with him… As American statesman Henry Kissinger put it: “Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.”

Women will pick the powerful over the sexy. Neave goes on to quote a study in which the researchers presented women with photographs of men. The first group, described as doctors, wore designer ties, smart shirts, and sported Rolex watches. The second wore plain shirts and Swatch watches and were described as teachers. The third group wore Burger King uniforms. Women repeatedly picked doctors as potential boyfriends — even though many of the men in the third category were actually more handsome. To women, a man’s looks are less important than earning power and social standing.

It’s much less likely that a rich woman, or even a woman of average wealth, would be willing to reproduce with a poor man. He will not be able to support her during pregnancy and help her raise a healthy child. It’s better for a woman to be with a richer man, no matter how ugly he is. Similarly, beautiful women tend to have beautiful children. And the thing about beautiful children is that people treat them better. Not just adults, but also peers and teachers.

So the next time someone calls you a gold digger, whore, slut, or sell out because you want a strong, successful man, read this as a reminder and FUCK them.