What’s The Game Plan?

So many of you don’t actually hustle. But spend all damn day complaining.

Like a lot of you don’t take the time to step out of your boundaries, step out of your comfort zone. So many of you don’t do things because you think it’ll harm your self worth or that its below you. Its affect your money, honey.

When you’re an escort at $400 an hour, but you haven’t gotten any calls But you won’t create a quick second persona and charge  200$ because its below you to accept that little.

Or you’re online reblogging sugar baby self help posts and wondering why dudes on SA are so cheap. While you have bills to pay and rent to make, you can’t take a few headless nudes and sell em on kik? Or accept that splenda daddy, use him to tide you over until you get your whale?

I dislike online sex work. I’m not good at it and its boring/awkward for me. But I did it for a couple weeks, paid my all bills and got a new wardrobe. I toured SF at a high rate and had only a few chomps. I brought out my old lower rate persona and advertised, made all my money back and more. 

If you’re capable of charging a higher rate, it doesn’t make you bad if you accept less than it. Stop tying this work to your self worth. It doesn’t make you pathetic if you need to sell your snapchat. I’ve got friends who make bank off their snapchat and manyvids, I wish I could do what they do.

Simply said your lateral whorephobia is affecting your coins. Stop sitting around waiting for someone to book you at your high price, while your bills pile up and you can’t eat. Make your fucking money and stop worrying about what others might think. I still respect you whether you’re 800/hr or 150/hr. 

What I respect is that you’re making an effort to get your money and not sitting around waiting for it to come to you.

I would say my blessing but i believe in the evil eye. Soooo

Taking out my implants, focusing on getting skinny and entering the game again :)

I’m tired of older sex workers discouraging younger sex workers. Like I’m trying to tour Newyork and La soon. It will be my first time going there. So I go in this sex worker group chat I’m in asking some hotel recommendations. Here comes this lady trying to talk down on me saying “You won’t do well in Newyork or I tried New York and I lost so much money when I toured.” Mind you I’m already nervous to your alone but the last thing I want to hear is me not doing well. So I quietly just remove myself from the group chat and go about my business. I’m not going to waste my energy going back and fourth with this lady. Just because you didn’t do well won’t mean I won’t do well. I don’t know is it because your age or persona that didn’t make the cut but I’m already getting inquiries and prebookings. I don’t know if it’s a jealousy thing or she just wanted to disturb my spirit.

I usually don’t do younger clients but this 30 year old black client blew my back the fuck out 🥵

He was attractive too. I lowkey want more of him

Sorry for the late update

But I didn’t shit on him and I got my money.

1k for the hour plus a tip

I miss the OG whores.

About the corona virus

When I was a freshman in highschool my grandma would constantly remind us that a famine or virus will rise upon us. She would say that we are truly living in the last days. She predicted a drought, War and diease will wipe out majority of the human population. I always brushed it off thinking she was just some crazy old lady. But now as all these events are starting to unfold I’m starting to believe her.. I’m not saying I’m some crazy spiritual god fearing Christian. But it’s interesting people that have a strong spiritual presence with god or whatever they believe in predicted this stuff will happen eventually. My grandma been stacking up toliet paper, Canned goods, water, non perishable items, weapons, etc for years.

With that being said I’m still going to be a escort and travel for work. If my time come and I die from whatever virus comes upon me then I’m ok with it. I will not live in fear and stop making my money. I don’t really believe the whole ordeal is that bad. I feel like practicing basic hygiene is enough not to get sick. Plus there’s other worse viruses or diseases that can affect your body. But It just mind boggles me how everything she said 4 years ago have come to light. She even said most of this shit will start happening around 2019-2020. All I know if shit does get crazy I know my ass will be good. We stocked up for a couple of years due to her preparing over the years.

How to screen your clients in Canada

These are all the methods that I’m aware of on how to screen clients in Canada. If you’ve worked here you’ve probably realized that clients aren’t too keen on giving out personal information but there are still some things you can do to keep yourself safe. If you know of another method, let me know and I will add it to this list! Of course these methods may also be relevant elsewhere.

1) The first thing I do when a client contacts me is google their phone or email or both and see what comes up. I also search their phone number on Facebook. You can also add them to your phone as a contact and find their Instagram/what’s app profile through that. This is how I often find out that I’m getting a fake appointment. I’ve had women and teenage boys contact me and this is how I weed them out. BUT….now that burner numbers are more and more popular this can lead to mix ups. I’ve had clients give me their number and then I search it and it comes up as a woman and I call them out, and they say that’s not them and have sent me alternative methods to prove their identity. Burner numbers get tossed around so much now that the info you find about it online may or may not be the real owner.

2) References

You can ask clients for one or two provider references. I always remind my clients to please ask or give their other provider a heads up that they will be using them, this usually allows for faster communication and also it’s just polite. When you get the contact information from your client, make sure it’s a REAL escort. If you search her email or phone number and nothing comes up, she is a fake reference. If she is a real escort you can send her a message that goes something like this

“Hey there :) just emailing you in regards to Jim, he said that you were a reference of his.

346-737-2222

Jimjohnson76@gmail.com

Thanks!”

It doesn’t have to be fancy or formal but it does have to be polite.

3) Email money transfer

Clients can email money transfer you a deposit or full payment to a discrete email addresss without getting any of your personal information. This also allows you to get their full legal name when you go to accept the transfer. I have two email addresses, one for my escort persona and a second discrete one that married men can send money to that looks like they’re just sending it to a man-bud. If a client wants to pay for their appointment via email money transfer be sure they send it ahead of time. I’ve had clients send transfers that took 1 hour + to get to me. Do not do anything until the money is in your account.

4) Hotel room call

If a client wants to book me for an outcall to their hotel room, which 80% of my appointments are, there is a super easy way to screen them. I often don’t even tell them I’m going to do this until the day of so that they don’t have time to argue. I tell them I want to call them on their hotel room phone to confirm our appointment and I need their full legal name to do so. Once you get it call front desk (from a burner number) and ask to be transferred to whatever room he is in. Front desk will ask for his name, you give it, if it’s correct they will transfer you through and you’re good to go. Usually I just say “hey confirming we’re still on for tonight at X time for Y hours” and tell them I like to hear people’s voices over the phone before we meet, which I do. Often clients give you fake names when they first start speaking to you so to avoid the awkwardness of them admitting that I usually ask “what name is the room under?” As opposed to “what’s your real name?”

5) Ask for a piece of mail with their name on it

Stolen from @bossyprada. If you’re doing an outcall to residence, ask for their name & address as well as a piece of mail with their name and address on it.

6) LinkedIn profile, work profile, Facebook

You can ask for their name and a link to their social media, LinkedIn or work profile. Use with caution as people can make fake accounts. I’ve seen some girls ask for LinkedIn + an email sent to them from their work email or LinkedIn + photo ID. Which brings us to…

7) Review board profile

I don’t really like this method, but often clients will give their review board profile username and you can check their activity on there and decide if you want to see them. Good things are him writing positive reviews, leaving nice comments etc Red flags: he writes critical reviews, complains about escorts et…if you see someone off a review board, be prepared to have a review written about you

Canadian review boards: PERB, CAF, TERB, MERB

8) Photo ID. You’re not going to get this from a lot of guys. I offer it as an option if someone is new and has no references and doesn’t want to send a deposit. I also never travel with a client without a copy of theirs ID and license plate.

9) Gut feeling. I’ve done plenty of calls that were just gut feeling. Rule of thumb, if it feels wrong something is wrong. Trust your gut.

How to stay safe on calls: The best option is to always have someone know where you are. However for most of this isn’t an option, so always let your client think someone knows where you are, even if you’ve seen them a million times. I always text people when I first get to an appointment and then I say “oh sorry I’m being rude, just letting my girlfriend know how long I’ll be here” you can also pretend to be on your phone. You can set your timer on your cellphone to sound like a ringtone and pretend to answer it when you and your clients time is up. There are also “fake a call apps” available for download.

Stay safe everyone! Xox

What’s your workout routine/ diet. Because that body is goals sis 🤩

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Well recently I’ve been on a champagne diet and that’s not good 😆 But I try my best.

Eat raw vegetables at least once a day. No salt, no oil. Cut a bunch of veggies green peppers, celery etc and chew your food properly. You need to chew your food slowly!

There’s sugar in everything: ketchup, sauces etc keep that in mind! And do not drink soda! Soda truly is poison. I understand that it’s close to impossible to get away from the sugary drinks completely. I got hooked on Starbucks green tea matcha latte lol But I’m very careful and only order it every 3-4 days as a dessert.

I fast once a week meaning I only drink water that day. Sometimes if I’m too tired or dizzy while fasting, I’d eat a piece of protein ( e.g. a small piece of chicken breast or a boiled egg).

I’m a professionally trained ballet dancer. I did ballet from the age of 5 till 16. So I’m used to extreme dieting. I attended ballet school where I lived Monday - Friday. They’d weigh us and take measurements every week, sometimes every other day! So I’m very disciplined when it comes to my diet.

I do ballet workouts at home and attend classes/workshops for dancers with a ballet background,like me every other week, sometimes more frequently. I also do reformer Pilates with a personal trainer. And HIIT classes every other week. 100 push ups every day . A lot of stretching.

Typically I don’t eat anything 5 hours before going to bed.

If you need to lose weight, it’s better to concentrate on your diet and then figure out your workout regimen. It’s really quite simply you need to create calorie deficit meaning you need to spend more calories than you consume. It’s always uncomfortable and WILL make you tired and hungry. It’s important not to go crazy with it but there’s no other way and it will be uncomfortable. But doing both diet and working out as you’re actively losing weight is very difficult, and I wouldn’t recommend it. It’s too much. Depends of course how much weight you need to lose.