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Screening

Here’s the information I request on my contact form, and how I use it.

Required information is marked with an asterisk*

*First name

*Middle name

*Last name

*Email address

*Phone number

*Do you prefer texting or calling?

Texting 

Calling

Either

*Provider References

Please provide the name, email, website address or ad link, and contact number for AT LEAST TWO currently active companions, and the dates you last saw them. 

Age

Employment Verification (REQUIRED if you have less than two provider references, STRONGLY RECOMMENDED otherwise)

Employer’s name, your position/title, company phone number, your direct line or extension, and story for me to use when I call (or other way for me to verify employment, such as an employee photo ID badge)

*Appointment Date and Time

*Appointment Duration

P411/TER/localboard/Datecheck Info

Outift request (not guaranteed)

*What are you looking to get out of our date?

*Where did you find me?

Is there anything else you’d like to tell me?

RECOMMENDED Driver’s License Upload

OPTIONAL Face Photo Upload

How I use this information:

Google their name, both with and without quotes around their name (quotation marks tell the engine to search specifically for that exact phrase, not similar phrases)

Google their email address, both with and without quotations

Google their phone number, both with and without quotations

Plug their phone number and email address into the search feature of my local board to see if they’ve ever been blacklisted

Go to your state’s courts website, and search their court records database for his name. If your state separates their database by county, search for your county, his county, and a few surrounding counties. In my state, all superior court cases are available to view. You can see what pleading/motion was filed, and when, as well as the final judgment. You do have to pay to request the actual documents to see their contents, and you probably cannot do this anonymously (in my county, you have to call the county clerk’s office). In my state, district and municipal cases cannot be viewed, but they will still show up in the search results. Your state may be different. 

Search for them on Facebook. Often their wives or children have much more of their profiles publicly visible. 

Search for any information on their family members. 

(I will be buying a Spokeo subscription soon, so I can plug all their info into here, as well)

Google the providers (normally Googling their name and city will pop them up if they have any sort of online presence). Or just find them based on the info he gave you.

See what kind of reputation those providers have. What to they charge? Do they have any rob reports or bad reviews posted of them? Do they look like they have their shit together? Do they have their own website? Does it look nice? Are there a ton of typos? Having your own website legitimizes you. Do they have professional photos, or are they bathroom selfies?

Contact the providers. I start off by emailing them. “Hi Jessica, this is Foxxxy. Billy Joe is requesting a date with me and used you as a reference. Can you please tell me if he was safe, clean and respectful? Would you recommend him to another provider? Anything else you can tell me about him and his personality I would very much appreciate! Best, Foxxxy.” I follow up with a text. “Hi Jessica, this is Foxxxy. I just sent you an email with a reference request. If you could get back to me promptly, I would really appreciate it!” 

See what they say. Duh. 

Contact his employer. The one time I called a client’s company, it was quite well-known and Google-able. I called the main company line, and asked to be connected to the president of _____. He was already en route on the plane, but I was able to hear his voice during his voicemail recording. A simple phone call to his cell phone would match up his voice, verifying he does work there. I have had a few clients send me photos of their photo ID badge (military personnel, for example). 

Obviously check to see how many Okay’s they have, or if they’re on the whitelists for the hobby IDs they provided you. Search their usernames/IDs to see if anything negative pops up. 

If they sent you a photo of their driver’s license: search Google Maps for the address on the card. Do they live in a nice part of town? Google the address. Has it popped up on Zillow lately? Any homeowner info pop up? You might be able to search their driver’s license number, either by Googling or going to your state highway patrol site, though I haven’t tried this myself.

If they sent you a photo of their face: reverse Google image search that shit! Also reverse search for it on TinEye. Do they look friendly? 

This sounds like a lot, but doesn’t take all too long once you get the hang of it. This doesn’t guarantee your safety, but it sure does reduce the risk of an assault or an arrest. 

I don’t wanna go to this 2 hour booking. But that’s 1k I’m missing out on. Ugh i rather be laying in bed all day and vaping. 😐

Real shit about being a sugar baby/escort.

EVERYBODY CAN NOT HAVE A HUSTLER MENTALITY

I’m tired of this shit. My friend recently got scammed by a dude that messaged her on a social media site claiming he can buy her cars, houses and jewelry. He don’t know her or never met her AT ALL. He proceeds to say if she wants proof he can send her 650. Her dumbass gave out her Email address and routing number. Even though I told her to never give out any bank info she still does it. In a few days the bank will recognize that money as a fraud and take her money out.

But you want to know something even crazy? I DONT FEEL BAD. Some of y’all not ready for this game. You got to be on your A GAME AT ALL TIMES. SOME OF YALL DONT GOT WHAT IT TAKES TO HUSTLE. These men will eat your asses alive if they smell a little of naivety. You can not be desperate for money when you want to become a sugar baby/ escort. Because then you will settle and get scammed by dumbasses like him. I’m tired of y’all lowering your rates and values to cater to these men. You got to always have standards within yourself and who ever you seek. If you can’t uphold your values and be smart about your decisions then go the fuck home.

Period!

It’s 2019 we out here making money fool 🙄🗣

Ways to make your client nut fast

ask them to choke you. a lotta guys nut in seconds cus theyre not used to anything rough. and it wont even be that rough cus he will nut in 1sec.

ask him to fuck your tight asshole, if you allow anal. thats guaranteed quick nut. under 1 min nut

sloppy af bj + hj combo. this one takes sum skill. but if u do it right, not tooo hard or not tooo fast, you can build a quick hard nut. 5 min he will nut

talk dirty. if you arent comfortable, practice it. u might think ull cum across as fake but do u think they give a fuck? they want u to be a pornstar. just say shit like U like that?? u like pounding my whore cunt? u like me bouncing on ur fat dick?? OoohhHhh my god ur cock is buried deep in my (name of hole) . it will speed up the nut. but if they are vanilla just moan rly sensually i guess lmfao tell them how intense this feels and how u feel all 2 inches of his cock and how ur gonna nut. if u nut he nuts

be a little more dominating, take ctrl. i used to be rly submissive out of laziness and in real life i used to be naturally submissive but ive learned that taking ctrl will make the client think u are rly into it. they like that shit. u dont gotta be a domme, just give lotta direction, take lead and fuck hard

if u have fat ass, reverse cowgirl. bounce n fuck hard n he will nut in 2 min max. reverse cowgirl ANAL?? game over, auto nut

lots and lots and lots of eye contact.

in missionary, tilt ur pelvic bone down to make ur pussy tighter and the angle more narrow for his cock. this makes my bf nut all the time

thank u for listening to my ted talk

Lately I’ve been addicted to watching stripper vlogs on YouTube. 😩

This is the money pentacle. Reblog and unexpected money will come to you!

I saw a post that was regarding the dynamics of freestyling, essentially saying that to be successful, you either had to look like a Victoria’s Secret model or to simply be “Asian”, which is not only false, but incredibly stupid, ludicrous, and outright racist - demonstrating that the original poster likely has little practice freestyling and has quite possibly no idea what she’s talking about. Was it written out of frustration of other’s success, insecurity with one’s looks and body type, or was it just an utterly false generalization to justify your failure? Or perhaps all three?

In regards to the content of the aforementioned post:

No.

Absolutely not.

You get to freestyling by embodying a look, by holding a very strong, palpable physical presence, and by implying subtly with your body language that you are sexually available. You freestyle successfully by observing your surroundings and seeing where you can employ your feminine capital best, ideally where you observe men looking for a sexual partner, where there is a greater proportion of men to women, and where you pay attention to those who desire you. The dynamics are not particularly complex. You should always remain unfazed by rejection. There is a very, very, very steep learning curve and you either follow the learning curve, take the hits, embrace the struggle, and demand better from yourself - shape yourself - sell yourself - or you fail and don’t bother improving or acquiring any success.

To imply that by being of a certain look or being a certain race is to automatically acquire success is just to demonstrate complete, utter, and blatant stupidity, an inability to learn, and total absence of attention to the power dynamics at play. The absolute ridiculousness - I would be embarrassed to write such a thing. Those who freestyle most successfully are those who are not only opportunistic and highly observant amongst their surroundings but also ruthless with the standards they put amongst themselves. The best people who freestyle exert extreme and utter discipline with their looks, their body type, the way they move, the way they dress. They put everything on the line. They’re willing to suffer. They do all or nothing. They might starve themselves. They might restructure their whole face. They might buy a whole new body. They might fly across the country, wherever the money goes. They’ll do anything, anything, everything, to get that bag. Do you do that? Do you act the way they do?

There is no “try”. There is no “potential”. There are no “maybe’s”. You either do, or you do not. You either will, or you will not. You either are ready, or you are not.

Stop making excuses for yourself and false statements to justify your mediocrity.

I hate to break it to you, but this lifestyle is highly, highly competitive and it isn’t for everyone - and if you’re not ready to make major sacrifices, regarding your appearance, regarding your diet, regarding your wardrobe, regarding your personality, you may continuously find failure.

And if you continuously find failure, perhaps, the problem, may in fact be you. Perhaps, at your present form, you may not just be good enough. I know, I know, it hurts to admit that after coddling your ego for so long. Simply put: you’re just beat out by the competition. You’re just not invested enough or observant enough to truly enter the game. You’re just not inputting the right effort at the right time. Scrambling to put the puzzle together under the clock, and missing every time. Running in the rat race but failing to take the short cut and wondering why you continuously get outperformed. You say you want it; you talk about it all the time; you think about it. But at the end of the day, what do you procure? Nothing.

Bag remains unsecured.

Run your mouth about acquiring “sponsors.” Tell yourself you’ll be a billionaire trophy wife. Dream and write fiction about becoming an heiress. Fantasize about the peak wealth in Dubai, Monaco, Moscow. But in reality, you could barely even acquire an entry-level benefactor. The average $50K arrangement I mentioned prior, has never, ever, ever, even come close to your personal orbit - and with the way you act now, the way you look now, the way you are now, would never, ever, ever come your way. Ever. In reality, the upscale men in those premier locations wouldn’t even fuck you for free, let alone pay you for sex. In reality, you’ve never even met a billionaire, never had a billionaire even look at you twice, never even been acquainted with a billionaire, never had an arrangement with a billionaire... what makes you think you could marry one again?

Rather than making blatant and inaccurate generalizations or attempting to falsely justify your failure, your resentment and obvious envy may be better channeled into self-improvement. A desperate attempt to salvage a wrecked self-esteem, as you wonder and wonder and wonder why nothing big comes your way. As you wonder why every time you go out, you get ignored and come home with nothing. You get one pathetic simp to follow you around, you get one beta buck bit-player to abide by you, you get one man to entertain your entry-level luxury requests, and you feel like you know everything - and you couldn’t even entertain them for long; they left you soon. Then talk big talk online, spew false information from your desperate insecurities, act like you know it all, act like you’ve seen it all - when really, all you know is the tip of the iceberg.

Or maybe, just quit.

Ughhh

I have a 4 hour appointment tomorrow and I don’t even know what to wear. I have so much shit in my closet it’s ridiculous.