And The Ugly Truth Is. No One, Absolutely No One Gives A Fuck If You Don’t Live Up To Your Potential,

What Makes Her Classy?

When it came to refining my image, I knew instantly what persona I wanted to portray: The Classy Lady. I wanted potential clients to take one look at my photos and know automatically that the purchase of my companionship would not be cheap. 

But I also didn’t want just any client either. Just because he has the money doesn’t mean we would be a great match. For example, I’m not great with young guys or partiers. So I wanted guys of that type to take a look at my pictures and know that we most likely wouldn’t be a good match as well. I’m most compatible with romantics and laidback, professional types. 

I knew my persona. I knew my ideal client. But there was a problem:

I wasn’t quite sure how to depict this in my photos.

I need my photos to do most of the “talking” for me (because we know men don’t always read your blog, site, ad, etc. but they always look at the pictures). 

So I begin browsing various providers’ sites that I felt emulated the persona that I wanted to portray. And were most likely getting the type of clientele that I’m aiming for.

Once I gathered enough pictures, I asked myself, what is it about her pictures/album/gallery that makes her fit this persona? 

Or to put it bluntly: how the hell do I look high-end in my pictures?!* 

Here’s what I noticed: 

She picks one asset at a time to show off (if she’s showing off her breasts, every other asset is covered up)

The lingerie always matches. And there’s usually stockings and/or a garter belt added as well.

Professional/Quality photos. Even the “candid” photos are clear with lots of lighting. 

Adding “feminine” touches to the pictures like flowers.

Having name brand/designer items in the photos. The red bottoms are shown off (literally). The Chanel bag is in her hand. The Agent Provocateur box is on display. I noticed that this is never “over done”. There’s usually only one noticeable luxury item in the picture and it’s never the focal point. 

Makeup is always kept neutral/natural. The boldest I’ve seen is a red lip.

Hair is styled simply and always looks “touchable”. It’s usually lightly curled.

The surroundings are neat and clean.

No explicit posing (no “spread leg” shots).

Nude pictures are done more “artistically”. Less Playboy. More Italian Vogue. 

Business attire. This is one that I hadn’t really noticed but it’s everywhere. Dresses are knee length or longer. The clothing is “work/office appropriate”.  

Plenty of clothed photos. In some cases, I’ve noticed some providers would almost have as many clothed pictures as lingerie or nudes photos. Almost. 

Few casual pictures. Obviously if you’re going for “girl next door”, this wouldn’t apply. However, I’ve noticed that there will be one, maybe two pictures of her dressed “casually”, i.e. jeans and a t-shirt. The majority of the clothed pictures will be taken in skirts, dresses, business attire, etc.

Robes. This was another one I hadn’t really noticed at first but almost every provider’s site that I visited there was at least one picture of her in a robe. And it was usually long, flowy and “feminine” (light colors, lace, etc).

Simple jewelry. Or no jewelry at all. 

If anyone else is using this persona (or plans to), feel free to add to the list!

*Yes, I’m aware that there’s more than one way to look “high-end” and that not every provider wants to portray this image. There are multiple personas that a provider may embody such as Playboy/bombshell, girl next door, bad girl, etc. However, because this is the persona I’ve chosen, this is the “look” that I’m focusing on.

Some affirmations

I am the most sought after companion in my area. I attract generous and kind clients. I am healthy and succeed in everything I do. Money is always coming my way easily and effortlessly.

I would say my blessing but i believe in the evil eye. Soooo

So this guy is really going to inquire about another provider I reposted on my Twitter feed to me. Like he @ me asking about a inquiry. Little ole me redirected him to my email and he like “I wasn’t asking about you. I was asking about so and so” if that’s the case why didn’t you just dm her? I’m embarrassed and shit 😂.

Just in case you were feeling discouraged.

Where are all the hoes at? 🤣

Just paid 1500 for a ticket at a local charity met gala. I’m manifesting that I will get my money back and more. I’m also going to be testing my new freestyling rates that night. (1500-2000 per hour)

I have a line that will save you sooo much time, when you’re talking to a guy just drop “I really want to get my nails done tomorrow” that’s it. See how he reacts. I swear this is gold. Either they offer to pay or they show that they’re salty. Nails are basic shit that guys should be expected to pay for.

I’m not a sugar baby anymore (hence the name change).

Formerly sugarbabynola, After almost 2 years in the bowl and 3 SDs later I’m giving up the whole pretense of the bowl. I started escorting last year and was mixing the two but I’ve finally decided to just settle on being a full time paid whore. I don’t have the patience for being a sugarbaby anymore, I don’t have the patience for men in general. Being an escort is fast, freeing and to the point. Men know that if they want to see me they HAVE to pay and they HAVE to pay whatever my rate is. No more trying to get money from men who don’t want to give it and it’s like pulling teeth to get a small £100 for groceries. Escorting has been a much better way for me to get money from men and we immediately both know what the stitch is. They’re here to have sex and a good time and I’m here to get money and leave. Two people leave happy and most of the time will see each other again, and again. Until I’m looking for something serious, I won’t be entering the bowl again. For now, I’m sticking to freestlying and escorting.

I freestlye for clients too. I go to hotels and get a drink at the bar and just wait. When I’m approached I lay the sexy on thick and get them talking about sex. I show them a few pictures on my website and say something like, “trust me I know every devilish way to make your toes curl” simultaneously showing them a picture of me with my nipples peaking through my lingerie or something. 8/10 the men give in and ask how much it’ll cost to spend the night with me. I double my rate and they pay it. They’re way too horny to turn me down. After they cum and the realisation sets in that they’ve paid for sex I’m long gone and probably onto the next hotel if the night is still young. Obviously sometimes it doesn’t work this well and they either haggle on price or say no that they don’t pay for sex, sometimes I press harder or I give him a kiss on the cheek and tell him to enjoy his night, depending on the vibe.

Anyway, was just keeping you guys up to date with what this whore is up to. Do what works for you darlings. The bowl is over saturated at this point in time. It seems that when you pretend you don’t want money men think you’re in it for just them and they get offended when you ask for money. But when you put yourself in a position where you demand their money off the bat, they’re more than willing and eager to give it to you.

Men are dumb. Just take their money anyway you can.

my fave hoe products

baby wipes - can be used to take makeup off quickly. use before & after sex,easily wipes up boob sweat and is just good for freshening up overall

throat numbing spray -  makes deep throating easier (especially if your gag reflex is bad)

aquaphor - makes lips soft and is good for any rough patches of skin

clear or light pink gloss - super flirty and cute and makes your lips look nice & pouty

salux cloth - exfoliates skin really well and will make your skin soft as fuck. it’s like a loofah but better. it’s also long so you can exfoliate your back as well.

schick intuition razor - it has a little moisturizing bar on the razor so u don’t have to use shaving cream. so moisturizing and makes you smooth as fuck. one of the best razors imo.

dr. bronners peppermint castile soap - literally makes you feel so clean and minty! if u have a vagina do not put this inside of it bc it will throw ur pH way off)

baby oil - put on wet skin to keep moisture in and make you soft af. also good if u wanna put oil on your ass & titties during sex (also be sure not to get this in your vagina bc it will give u a fuckin infection and it also it deteriorates condoms)

perfume oil - lasts longer and is is stronger than perfume (i recommend the “crown perfume” brand)

body butter - thicker than lotion and makes you wayyy softer (heres a diy recipe)

rosewater - smells like rose (obviously) and works good as a toner,setting spray,and makeup “refresher”. works well for all skin types.

aloe vera gel - great under makeup as a moisturizer & primer if you have oily skin. it absorbs fast and prevents wrinkles and makes ur skin look nice & plump. i’ve heard it can be used to shave with as well. (make sure you get the clear one, not the green or blue gel. and make sure there’s no alcohol added)

chlorophyll - basically a body deodorizer, that you take internally. comes in liquid or pill form. it’s a natural remedy for vaginal odor & bad breath. it’ll make you smell better in general though.

bentonite clay/aztec healing clay - detoxes skin and is good for break outs.