DEAR CAREGIVERS:
it’s okay not to take care of your little one every single day
it’s okay to feel sad and acknowledge your insecurities
it’s okay to be a flip
it’s okay to need time for yourself
it’s okay to have a bad day
it’s okay to say “no” to your little one if they’re pushing your limits/boundaries
it’s okay to feel, to be human, to care for your well-being, to get mad and frustrated
all caregivers deserve the same respect as age regressors, caregivers of any age, sexuality, gender, religion and ethnicity are valid and amazing
always check on your caregiver, let them know that it’s okay to take breaks, go easy on them if they’re having a bad day, be understanding because they’ll always be understanding with you :)
all caregivers are important🧡
aurora spudsters
to comfort and/or motivate <3
“It’s okay to feel small.”
“I believe in my big self and my little self.”
“I’m allowed to be a child when I need to.”
“I’m allowed to feel negative feelings.”
“My bad days don’t make my good days any less valid.”
“I’m proud of myself, no matter if I’m big or small.”
todays beanie is: logger the bear!
✯ Nyota's fluffy life icons
Caring for Littles From a Distance
❤Say good morning and good night
💙Keep track of your little's timezone
❤Ask about your little's day
💙Send cute pictures, videos throughout the day
❤Check in a lot (make sure your little is eating, drinking enough, going to bed on time, etc)
💙If you can't talk when your little texts, say you'll get back to the little as soon as you can instead of ignoring the little
❤Send worksheets and coloring pages for the little to do
💙Preschedule text messages if you know you won't be able to talk for a while
❤Be willing to listen and act accordingly
💙Be able to tell when your little is lying
❤Praise your little for doing a good job
💙Help your little regress when needed
❤Skype when you can
💙Set up a reward system (i.e. favorite snack, later bedtime, etc)
feel free to add more!
i'm so in love with these little friends 😭😭😭😭😭 ☆彡
Hippie the bunny beanie baby
Strawberry Baphomet by mylittlesatan