Settle This For Me Once And For All

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i really can't stand this anymore oh my god

so i have made a few posts talking about this, but my mom is Making Ultimatiums that are going to fuck me over financially just for the hell of it. i am currently unemployed, receiving no more benefits, and i have absolutely no savings. at this point i have a negative balance on my bank account and i have nothing much i can do about it. i am a trans man with adhd, ptsd, and severe depression so it has become inhospitable in my current living environment, and i need to move, except i currently live in one of the most expensive places in the US and i don't know how to drive. basically, i need to buy a bike, get a plane ticket, and find a job. so this is a mutual aid request but also like. if any of you know of any trans people who know of any trans safe living areas that are not wildly expensive, please message me!

anyway i have talked for too long, here is my info

cash.app: $luvlandfrog

paypal.me: /ezrabanksy

American Girl stories were the best tbh

As of twelve hours ago!

Yekaterina Lisina 👀💦

has anyone else ever played the 1 2 3 i’m sorry game? it’s where, after having a falling out w/ a friend or loved one, when you see them again after calming down you count to 3 and both of you say “i’m sorry” at the same time. (best followed by you both respectively acknowledging the things you which you’d done or said differently.)

it’s hard to apologize first when you feel like someone else was also in the wrong, but waiting for someone to apologize is the worst game of chicken. the counting-to-3 thing can be a helpful way of letting someone know you’re ready to mutually accept responsibility and move on, together

No one’s saying this so I guess I’ve gotta: no more shirtless scenes for men if the actors gotta starve himself. Its just as bad as woman being forced to lose weight for a needless sex scene/photoshoot what have you. If it endangers the health of the individual it should not be encouraged.