can u make barbie a bi butch?? im tryna see sum
What are you asking for? For like an icon of Barbie with the bi butch flag? For a stick figure drawing of Barbie with more visually masculine or butchy clothing? Like do you want me to make Barbie a bi butch like march down to Mattel and create canon bi butch Barbie? Oh if I was a superhero thatβs how Iβd use my powers :)
i feel like i never really see affirmation anymore for bisexuals who donβt have a preference, for bisexuals whose fluidity is constantly changing, for bisexuals who simply do not want or care about categorizing their attraction to every gender. as a bisexual i hate getting asked βwhat do you prefer?β because it forces me to simplify my complex relationship with my sexuality. itβs also a biphobeβs insidious way of asking βso are you actually straight or actually gay?β people can also use whatever label they identify with, but when you try to push the βbi means gender plays a factor into your attraction/you have a preferenceβ definition, you are a part of the problem. youβre making people who identify as bi hyperanalyze their own sexuality. bisexuals do not need to think about who they prefer. iβm just tired of seeing every single post on social media about bi people being in relationship to preferences.
preferences are just not something i think about. i know i love everyone and thatβs all i need to know. and i want this to be affirmation to anyone who is bisexual. you are not some meter in a scale. you donβt have to make a bar graph to explain your attraction to different genders. you can love everyone point blank full stop. your experiences will always be more important than having to define yourself. just live your bisexual life and keep being perfect πππ
Bisexuals with no preferenceβ¦ you are so valid. No you are not faking it, no you do not need to pick a βfavouriteβ side that youβre attracted to, no youβre not actually pansexual, you are you
oh you totally shouldβve mentioned that, itβs cool that we both thought of it then!
Hecatic flag πππ€ππ
Hecatic (dervived from the Greek goddess Hecate) means when youβre bisexual + sapphic, Iβve seen many bi sapphic combination flags and just wanted to make my own :) Hecatic is all bisexual sapphics regardless if they have a specific preference or not, and regardless of relationship status (or lack of) <3
I wanted to make it pink and purple to showcase bisexuality and sapphicism :3 and the flower in the centre is a moonflower! It felt fitting with moons being a bi symbol and a flower on the sapphic flag!
β½βΎ bi blog β learn ur historyop (pride-cat, whom you can call aster) goes by he/she and identifies as butch (but is often inactive) icon credit: n7punk | header credit: mybigraphics
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