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[ tw for this post, it mentions sex/sex-repulsion a few times (just the word, nothing else) and i get heated/angry talking about it. this isn’t directed at anyone, i’m just pissed off about acephobia. ]

I think a lot of people get hung up on some ace people not liking sex or thinking it’s gross/repulsive on a personal level. Even in 2020. And I’m getting sick of it.

Even other aspec people I’ve spoken to have legitimately gotten pissed off at ace people who are averse to it. I feel like a lot of y’all only accept ace people if it’s the ones who are just as okay with sex/sexual topics/etc. as you are, and I can and WILL call you out on it when it happens. Sex-averse ace people deserve just as much goddamn respect as any other ace person.

There is a BIG difference between being sex negative and sex averse/repulsed. I’m personally very sex-averse, but you don’t see me stopping anyone else? Ace people do not walk around and claim that sex is objectively bad, and if you genuinely think we do this shit on a massive scale then you might want to try actually talking to an ace person and not exclusionists a few times in your life.

If us asking for you to, I dunno, talk about it somewhere else where it won’t make us uncomfortable, spoiler it, or maybe just tone it down a little bit, feels like being “sex negative” to you, then I genuinely worry how you treat other people and topics that make them uncomfortable. Y’all respect people’s discomfort and squicks until that person is ace and it shows.

Oh and if you try and tell me this isn’t an issue, that nobody is actually doing this, I will personally put crabs in your pillows. This shit is so constant I have the (dis)pleasure of seeing it in spaces I am apparently supposed to be welcomed in. My discomfort is not respected even in spaces that I’ve made myself. I’m laughed at and not taken seriously and viewed as childish/naive for not liking or understanding extremely sexual conversations/jokes even in my own friend-groups, and even around other aspec people, and even after I ask people to stop multiple times. Do not tell me what I, a sex-repulsed ace person, “actually” experience.

We’re allowed to joke about it being weird and not something we like. We Are Allowed To Not Like Sex, Guys.

y'all go follow my friend junie! she's amazing and yes, i think it is largely due to the overwhelming things that happened last year that kinda brought down our expectations and excitement for a new year.

2021...I have no reason but I’m really sad about it..

EEEEEE WHAT LAWRENCE SAID

Quick psa

If you don’t support people who use neopronouns, or trans people in general, please kindly get off my page. The people using neopronouns are not hurting anyone, nor are they making the community look like a joke. People hate trans people because they’re transphobic, not because some kid uses xe/xem or pup/pupself. I support all of you guys, and I am willing to lose hundreds of followers on this. If my followers are transphobic and ableist, I don’t want them. Have a great day!

Here is your source.

Is this person trying to say that being ace or aro makes you less of your sexual orientation…? This is just,,, so silly. A gay ace or a gay aro isn’t “basically” gay, they are gay.

Being gay doesn’t make you any less ace and being ace doesn’t make you any less gay. They aren’t contradictory! Same goes for every other sexual orientation and with being aro

~Mod Pluto

Quickie on why people with “weird” genders tend to be mentally ill! I know the question is asked to be rude most of the time, but I felt compelled to make this anyway :3

What?? You are ATTRACTED TO MORE THAN ONE GENDER and also POLYAMOROUS? Well buddy let me tell you you are INCREDIBLE VALID!!!!!!!! Keep being yourself

I’m tired of being nice. either you will use my correct pronouns or you will die by my sword.

So I have like 15 names and I keep adding more everyday. My main two with people I know irl is (Ares/Ace) but man do I have a lot I go by in every other situation. I fucking love it. Why choose when I can have multiple fucking cool names?

it is my good indecisive trans right to have as many names as i like. after all it’s harmless, it’s fun, it’s sexy, and it’s free.

so this is more for myself-

i'm curious to see how much my gender changes (I'm genderfluid) and what it changes to so I'll probably repeatedly reblog this with my gender shshhs