What Ur Preferred Pronouns Say About U

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I’m tired of being nice. either you will use my correct pronouns or you will die by my sword.

anyway, the idea of “the one” is so innacurate and outdated. there are literally so many people that you could be compatible and share a really strong emotional connection and healthy relationship with. like if you think about it... even in platonic terms, friendship. how many best friends have you had throughout your life? your childhood best friend? high school best friend? college best friend? these were all people you were very in tune with emotionally and shared a meaningful relationship with. did they not understand you? did they not see you for who you were? did they not love you unconditionally? and you did the same. in a world w 8 billion people, one person was not the end all be all. remember that if a relationship dissolved it was for a reason; it wasn’t meant for you. there are plenty of people with whom you can form bonds with. who are willing to meet you where you are, and do what is necessary to earn a place in your life through consistent effort and actions. the “one” doesn’t exist, and they’re not out there for you to find.

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so this is more for myself-

i'm curious to see how much my gender changes (I'm genderfluid) and what it changes to so I'll probably repeatedly reblog this with my gender shshhs

I'm not aro but reblogging just because i love frogs

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No, because a sandwitch is bread on top- meat- condiments- bread on bottom, not bread on side- pig guts- bread on side.

The only real discourse that we should be having in the LGBTQ+ community is whether or not a hot dog is a sandwich.

So I post this to interupt your scroll through the discourse tags with an actually important question:

Is a hotdog a sandwich?

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this is kind of ramble-y and talks about being against fae/faer pronouns!!! this has been a warning lmao

i love neopronouns, but fae/faer pronouns are just,,,,, yikes

ive seen multiple people talk about it and after seeing another post about it today i decided fuck it im gonna log onto my discourse account and make a post about it

nyways, the fae are NOT to be fucked with. theyre a huge symbol to celtic cultures and and reglions like wicca. theyre practically gods, and a solid portion of the time theyre not the cutsy fairies you would see in movies. as someone who has had to deal with the fae, theyre not the kind of being you should like,,,, make pronouns out of. you cant give them your name, you cant take gifts from them, you cant take food from them, if you so accept something from them you cant say thank you, you cant stand in faerie rings, and you cant be rude to them. doing any of that will fuck you up. but people decided to use pronouns that directly refer to the fae.

i saw it described in a post as using something like jesus/jesusself. like people (usually) dont do that because its a huge religious symbol and he's respected by those who believe in him

i hate to be the person thats like 'uwu these pronouns make people uncomfy you need alternatives' because usually thats because like,,, 'i dont like neopronouns let me use they/them',,, but i strongy reccomend something people find another pronoun so people who respect the fae can talk to/about you. if u like the sound of fae/faer thats 100% valid!!! and i completely understand that they sound really cool!!! some similar pronouns that dont directly refer to the fae would be ae/aer and vae/vaer, and at least letting people who believe in the fae who use one of those alternatives would be very nice.

its not the same as like 'neopronouns make me uncomfy because im a dumbass, let me use he/she/they',,, its 'you are actively appropriating my religion/culture, do you have an alternative for me to use'

remember to get some food!! drink some water while ur at it!! and dont forget to take your meds! you are beautiful and you will get through this.

what a great day to remember pansexuality is a real and valid sexuality

rb to also wish all arogenders a very pleasant evening