Just Because Someone's Autistic DOES NOT Make Their Sexual/Gender Identity Any Less Valid!

i really like this one <3

A gender that’s related to foxes but more quiet? Like, groves and burrows and the woods

vulpacagender: a gender that is related to foxes, but is more quiet and less hectic. may also have an aesthetic association with groves and burrows.

neopronouns are extremely epic!!

So I have like 15 names and I keep adding more everyday. My main two with people I know irl is (Ares/Ace) but man do I have a lot I go by in every other situation. I fucking love it. Why choose when I can have multiple fucking cool names?

it is my good indecisive trans right to have as many names as i like. after all it’s harmless, it’s fun, it’s sexy, and it’s free.

this is kind of ramble-y and talks about being against fae/faer pronouns!!! this has been a warning lmao

i love neopronouns, but fae/faer pronouns are just,,,,, yikes

ive seen multiple people talk about it and after seeing another post about it today i decided fuck it im gonna log onto my discourse account and make a post about it

nyways, the fae are NOT to be fucked with. theyre a huge symbol to celtic cultures and and reglions like wicca. theyre practically gods, and a solid portion of the time theyre not the cutsy fairies you would see in movies. as someone who has had to deal with the fae, theyre not the kind of being you should like,,,, make pronouns out of. you cant give them your name, you cant take gifts from them, you cant take food from them, if you so accept something from them you cant say thank you, you cant stand in faerie rings, and you cant be rude to them. doing any of that will fuck you up. but people decided to use pronouns that directly refer to the fae.

i saw it described in a post as using something like jesus/jesusself. like people (usually) dont do that because its a huge religious symbol and he's respected by those who believe in him

i hate to be the person thats like 'uwu these pronouns make people uncomfy you need alternatives' because usually thats because like,,, 'i dont like neopronouns let me use they/them',,, but i strongy reccomend something people find another pronoun so people who respect the fae can talk to/about you. if u like the sound of fae/faer thats 100% valid!!! and i completely understand that they sound really cool!!! some similar pronouns that dont directly refer to the fae would be ae/aer and vae/vaer, and at least letting people who believe in the fae who use one of those alternatives would be very nice.

its not the same as like 'neopronouns make me uncomfy because im a dumbass, let me use he/she/they',,, its 'you are actively appropriating my religion/culture, do you have an alternative for me to use'

remember to get some food!! drink some water while ur at it!! and dont forget to take your meds! you are beautiful and you will get through this.

Thank you so much for this ❤️

“people who think aces are oppressed need to just go outside” A Measured Response

I’m going to preface this by saying this: People asking you to stop oppressing them doesn’t come from the privilege of being sheltered, it’s because we’re tired of you ignoring these scientific, peer-reviewed, repeatable facts:

42% of cis asexuals have considered suicide (2) compared to 11% of cis heterosexuals

10.2% of us are victims of conversion therapy

75% of the population cannot define asexuality

We have the least average life satisfaction score out of every cis identity (except pansexual, who shares our score of 5.9 out of 10)

Attitudes towards asexuality are evaluated most negatively of all sexual minority groups. 

A study of 148 undergraduates at a Canadian university showed that participants were less likely to rent to asexuals than their heterosexual counterparts. Potential confounds (e.g., bias against singles or unfamiliar groups) were ruled out as explanations

In early 2015, Russia passed a law banning, amongst others, people with “disorders of sexual preference” from obtaining driving licences. The Association of Russian Lawyers for Human Rights stated that it effectively banned “all transgender people, bigender, asexuals, “transvestites”, cross-dressers, and people who need sex reassignment” from driving  (I am not linking to the original article due to recurring transphobic language. If you would like to see it, PM me)

So sorry that sounding the alarm hurts your delicate sensibilities, but I honestly do not care anymore. If you’re an exclusionist, kindly pick up a few research papers about sexual minorities and learn something instead of posting your sub-zero “hot takes” on a website whose main demographics consist of people blogging about things they enjoy, rather than the people they hate. I am willing to have an open discussion about the inclusion of asexual people in the LGBT community as long as it doesn’t boil down to “I don’t know about the abuse you face, so I’m going to assume it doesn’t happen.”

Have a great day and stay safe.

Hello, just a reminder-

Trans people are supported by science so your argument of 'well, i bElEVe in sCiEnCe.' is invalid...

unlike my existence.

Living for all this tea! Anyway; exclusionist culture is gaslighting and threatening aces/aros (and to a lesser extent, their allies) in order to "prove" that aces and aros are the Bad Guys for fighting back.

"Neopronouns are made up!!!" ah yes, made up pronouns, as opposed to the organic, 100% natural she/he/they pronouns, handpicked from the trees

teachers will get more mad at students saying ‘shut up’ than at students who are blatantly racist, homophobic, transphobic, ableist, and so forth.