Latest Posts by twinklestarchild04 - Page 7

Hitting it Raw.

Being the baddest will drain you 💖

Can’t squirt? Can’t fuck for hours? Worry that you’re not up to pounding someone ‘til their brain turns to mush? Can’t orgasm easily? Like the idea of dirty stuff but always end up doing vanilla? Inexperienced? Worried about the way your body looks when you’re contorted during sex? Feel like you’re bad at getting a rhythm when you’re on top? Worried your dick isn’t big enough? Worried your pussy isn’t pretty enough? Not wet enough? Too wet? Are you nervous because everyone else seems to be amazing at deep-throating and you might gag? Haven’t been with someone that isn’t a different gender to you, but you feel bi/pan? Worried you can’t fuck someone again immediately after cumming?

Don’t stress yourself. All these feelings are normal. In fact, they’re typical. I’d say these anxieties are more common than they are rare.

A lot of people talk in such a way (especially on Tumblr) where they’re not clear that they’re talking about their fantasies, rather than real and lived experiences.

They’re not showing off to you. You’re not bad at sex because you feel worried about things or haven’t had the courage to try them or suggest them. They’re just saying “I like the idea of this thing”.

I’ve had a lot of experience. I’ve been in long term relationships. I’ve been promiscuous. Largely speaking, I’m very confident about my sexuality and my sexual prowess. However, the anxieties we have about sex are always there - I’ve just learned to manage them a little better.

The pressure to perform is a lot. The pressure to know everything and be up for everything is real. A lot of sexual fantasies don’t translate into real life at all, but it’s fun to fuck around and try. A two second gif of someone getting railed isn’t someone getting railed for 3 hours - their hips and knees would give out first - it’s all smoke and mirrors.

A three second quickie where you both laugh at the end is always better than some overly dramatic roleplay, trust me.

Just remember that everyone is in the same situation, it’s just not very cool to say it out loud. I’m saying it out loud because I don’t care if someone thinks I’m uncool because of it.

You’re more beautiful than you think. You’re better at sex than you think. You’re allowed to learn on the job too.

You’re doing great, honestly.

being called "dumb" turns me on so much..... but not in a "you're genuinely an idiot" way, more of a "aww baby, your brain just turns off when your needy, huh? you can't even make proper sentences. you're so cute and pathetic, my little dumb pet" way

so excited to wear cute sundresses this summer bc there are so many different things i can hide under them! have i got a cute lil plug in my ass? am i wearing some sexy lingerie? am i wearing no underwear? have i got a lush vibrating in my cunt? the possibilities are endless

Being trained by a dom is so wonderful just being taught to be so perfect for them and only them

Having someone put in the time to make you everything they want 🥺🥺🥺

You’re not wrong

I want your legs strapped open as I shoot load after load into your cunt while you’re completely helpless and cannot stop me.

12 Reasons I need to have a Dominant in my life

1.) I need the structure and rules in order to feel fulfilled.

2.) I need to have someone to care for and be valuable to

3.) I crave the intensity of D/s interactions

4.) The feeling of ownership makes me feel safe and free

5.) Having someone in my life who is willing to push my boundaries has made me a better person

6.) I need someone who craves me and wants me just as much as I do them and I have not found that in the vanilla world

7.) I need to be held accountable for my actions in a way that only a D/s relationship can provide

8.) I love having a person who will take me down dark paths of desire

9.) I have desires that require absolute trust in order to be fulfilled

10.) I crave that moment when I can finally let go and fully submit and my mind finally quiets

11.) Sometimes I just need the feelings of hands on my throat or buried in my hair and the whisper of “You are Mine” in my ear

12.) Pain is an incredible turn on and I have yet to meet a vanilla who understands why I want it

Listen up. There is literally an app that can help you avoid self harm and I don’t know why we aren’t talking about it.

Calm Harm can be tailored to your needs and will provide strategies to help you get past those crucial moments of wanting to harm.

It’s also totally FREE.

once again, it’s called CALM HARM

nice sadists are so so underrated.

if a someone told me they loved that i suffer for them? omg im gonna nut

tenderly caressing my cheek, then slapping it? beautiful 10/10

that fake pity voice? GOD

when they give you a break between spankings to play with your pussy? i’m in love

on that same line of thinking, when there’s playful spankings, and you’re giggling and trying to get away until they’ve had enough of your squirming and they make you stay still? literally ughhh

orgasm denial bc they love hearing you whine?? YES

making you come so many times you cry because they love to see you cry? please please please

don’t even get me started on humiliation.

Being into degradation and cnc makes it so hard to find blogs that are actually devoted to healthy and consensual experiences and not thinly veiled misogyny, homophobia, or transphobia

So, uh... please reblog this if you’re a cnc or degradation blog that also respects consent, aftercare, and people of all orientations and identities

Dear Caregiver,

Please feel free to put me into my headspace (especially if I’m having a bad day). It reassures me that you don’t find my headspace annoying and being in my headspace calms me and makes me happy!

is it too on the nose to fuck myself with the mouthpiece of my bong?

🔫 give me ur thigh to hump and no one gets hurt

a collared sub helplessly coming all over themselves while desperately rutting against their doms leg, who's holding their leash and has one hand on their hip, coaxing them to move and telling them "that's my good little pet, so gorgeous for me. that's it, precious, come for me"