PLS IS SOMEONE ELSE ALSO FEELING SHY , NERVOUS AND IDK UNSURE WHENEVER POSTING HERE ON TUMBLR ?😭 ESP WHEN IT COMES TO DR STUFF AHHHH
(I LOVE THIS COMMUNITY BUT I AM JUST AHHSNDJDJDJDJDUFUSHDJ😭🤌)
just realized the first thing i script into my dr’s are my s/o’s …
things won't stop you from shifting
꒰ putting your dr on a pedestal , does not exist. it is not some glass castle suspended in the ether. it is a place like any other, as accessible as a room you haven’t walked into yet.
꒰ fantasising about your dr , does not matter. your brain is not a courtroom and you are not on trial for thought crimes. imagining a place does not exile you from it.
꒰ not knowing everything about your dr , won't impact. you do not need to be a historian of your own life. you do not need to have memorised the census records and economic structures of a world you are simply in.
꒰ being too attached to your dr , does not ruin it. urgency does not dismantle possibility. the sky does not fold in on itself every time someone desperately wants rain.
꒰ not being "calm enough" , no one is breathing monkishly through their nose 24/7. you are not required to be an unmoved river stone. people shift after a long day at work. people shift mid-existential crisis. it is not yoga, it is not meditation, it is a thing that happens when it happens.
꒰ doubting yourself from time to time , irrelevant. you do not need to pass a faith test. you do not need to be baptised in unwavering conviction. you just need to assume. doubt is a background noise, not a locked door.
꒰ external validation , unnecessary. your reality is not waiting for someone else to confirm its legitimacy. you do not need a jury of peers nodding solemnly at your experiences. this is not an academic dissertation. you do not need footnotes and sources and a professor’s approval.
꒰ "trying too hard" , not a thing. effort does not push it further away. want does not make it shy away. this is not an uncatchable fish. this is not a paradox where wanting something too much means you will never have it.
꒰ failing to shift multiple times , irrelevant. past attempts do not predict future outcomes. you are not an athlete counting losses. you are not a gambler on a losing streak. every attempt is new. every moment is unburdened by the weight of the last one.
꒰ an inconsistent sleep schedule , doesn’t matter. you are not being graded on your circadian rhythm. shifting does not belong exclusively to people with 8 hours of uninterrupted rem.
꒰ using multiple shifting methods , neutral. you are not hexing yourself by switching it up. they are not magic spells, they are just tools. they are ways to organise your approach, not laws of the universe.
꒰ shifting while sick or in pain , possible. you do not need to be in peak physical condition. you are not signing up for a marathon, you are existing. bodies exist in all states. you are allowed to exist in all states.
꒰ not “feeling close” to shifting , doesn’t mean anything. shifting is not a feeling to be unlocked. you do not need to sense it coming like a change in the weather. it does not always announce itself.
꒰ having trouble visualising , won’t stop you. not everyone sees things like a movie in their head. imagination is not just images. it’s thoughts, impressions, instincts. a blind person can shift. a person with aphantasia can shift.
꒰ not affirming constantly , does not matter. you do not need to chant like a monk or plead sweet nothings into the void 24/7.
꒰ being distracted mid-shifting attempt , not fatal. you are not required to have monk-like focus. people shift thinking about their homework. people shift thinking about dinner. people shift thinking about absolutely nothing at all.
꒰ not having a specific shifting method , does not stop you. people shift lying down. people shift sitting up. people shift standing. people shift in moving cars. you do not need a formula to do something natural.
Your cr is one of the many realities in the multiverse just like your dr.
Shift your mind, shift your reality.
Disciplining your mind is one of the most important parts of shifting. It’s easy to get caught up in doubt, overthinking, or frustration, but at the end of the day, your mindset is what shapes your reality. If you constantly tell yourself shifting is hard, your mind will make it hard. If you let intrusive thoughts take over, your subconscious will listen.
Shifting isn’t just about wanting it, it’s about training your mind to believe, to focus, and to let go of resistance. That means staying consistent, redirecting negativity, and trusting the process even when you don’t see immediate results. The more you strengthen your mindset, the closer you get to your desired reality.
I saw this tiktok and felt like it can be applied to manifesting. Affirm while ur scared, annoyed, frustrated, etc
I understand the "I will die for you" ship dynamic, but what about the "I will not let you die, I will not let myself die- we will, at any cost, survive" kind of couple?
As someone who hasn’t gotten to their destination yet, why would I stop?
Why would I let one failure stop me from doing what I loved most?
It didn’t stop me when I was shit at art. It didn’t stop me when I would cry over books, wanting nothing to stop reading but I still went on because I knew there was more at the end. It didn’t stop me when I knew that I was terrible at writing yet still tried.
Why should it stop any of you? Shifting is a beautiful thing just like you, dear reader. Yes, beauty isn’t always beautiful when you’re crying, praying hopelessly to the universe to just let you shift. Whatever you believe in, whether you believe in yourself or not; I believe in you, okay? Everyone who reads this is able to shift. Sit. Focus. Shift.
Blessed wishes to all, love Someone on the Internet.
sometimes i’m in public and i wonder “who in this crowd knows about shifting????? 🤨🤨🤨🤨”
this is your sign to script your s/o gets so flustered when they see you for the first time they blurt out their entire legal name, age, occupation and favorite band when you ask them who they are