This Is What I've Been Working Hard To Remind Myself Lately

this is what i've been working hard to remind myself lately

The wildest part about being a system and having known you are a system for a while (6+ years for us) HAS to be seeing people who are just figuring it out fall into holes that you've long left behind.

Like. Yeah. We also thought we needed to keep tabs on everyone to increase communication. In the end it became too unwieldy. Especially since DID evolves with what you experience all the time.

Microlabels are cool and I fully support anyone who uses them, but figuring out what to call every single structure in your system isn't for us anymore.

Another thing we notice is people who try their best to know who is fronting at all given times. A lot of that comes naturally to us nowadays, but it's also... OK not to know. Especially if you're not focusing on anything system related at the time.

I guess a lot of this boils down to, it's okay not to care. It's okay to go with the flow of things and figure out at your own pace. Identity is fluid, especially if you have a dissociative disorder. You don't HAVE to have everything figured out 100% of the time.

It's okay to take it slow. It's okay to not know. It's okay to just exist for a bit. It's okay to live and experience things beyond being a system.

To all the people who are just starting to comprehend this. You do not need to know and label exactly what is happening in your head all the time. Fuck, we sure don't. And we're happier for it.

It's okay to just be you.

More Posts from Voregguks and Others

1 year ago
A Little Comic(?) About Holding Back & Being Trans Online
A Little Comic(?) About Holding Back & Being Trans Online
A Little Comic(?) About Holding Back & Being Trans Online

a little comic(?) about holding back & being trans online

1 year ago
a simple drawing of a brown toad
a simple drawing of a bowl of soup
a simple drawing of a green frog

sometimes I feel like discord is lacking emojis and so I make them myself. these ones in particular are my favorites

frog, toad, and soup!

Feel free to use them if you'd like!

1 year ago

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but please don’t break promises you make to yourself just because it’s you the promise is being made to. You told yourself you’d go on a walk with tomorrow morning? Do it. You said you’d set more consistent with your skincare routine? Make it happen. You promised yourself you would work on establishing boundaries regardless of who’s on the other side of them? Follow through with that. Don’t wake up the next day and go “well I don’t HAVE to do this” “it wouldn’t hurt to postpone this” “this isn’t a big deal” because it literally is. Every promise broken is another nail in the coffin of your self-actualization. It’s another major roadblock to developing healthy self-love and self-respect. Weigh promises you’ve made to yourself the same way you would weigh promises you’ve made to others.

1 year ago

5 simple exercises to awaken dormant muscles

{source}

1 year ago
He's Very Pop-culture Savvy Now.
He's Very Pop-culture Savvy Now.
He's Very Pop-culture Savvy Now.
He's Very Pop-culture Savvy Now.
He's Very Pop-culture Savvy Now.
He's Very Pop-culture Savvy Now.
He's Very Pop-culture Savvy Now.

He's very pop-culture savvy now.

1 year ago

oh, ok *smokes enough weed to forget who i am*

1 year ago

shout out to this one interaction i had with my therapist yesterday

therapist: "the best part of being human is..."

me: *tilts head*

therapist: "...the best part of being somewhat human is..."

1 year ago

if you were the toriel cosplayer who gave me a blowjob at dragoncon, PLEASE inbox me. i think you took my wallet. it looks like an NES

1 year ago

"the early 2010s were better" no they weren't. "hey soul sister" was on the radio.

1 year ago

mutual 1: just got engaged lol <3 #slash serious

mutual 2: i know its been 3 years but i cant stop thinking about bloingo's arc in season 2 :(( my baby my baby youre my baby say it to me

mutual 3: This world is sweriously so fucking beautiful #Just had a snickers bar. effervescent

mutual 4: https://open.spotify.com/track/2P5yIMu2DNeMXTyOANKS6k #yeah...

mutual 5: [gerard way image] #i miss her thighs i mean her music

mutual 6: [this post contains filtered content: blood, gore, guts, wound, nsfw]

mutual 7: if bloingo was a deer he would have chronic wasting disease

mutual 8: [responding to the most insane anon hate you've ever seen] they anon on my askbox til i block #fslur girl slay

mutual 9: Next person to Fuck with mutual 8 has To go through me..... I Will Protect You

mutual 10: get me OUT of the fucking midwest bro #CANNOT take it anymore im srsly at my limit

mutual 11: [poll] should i get boba [yes] / [no] / [button for me]

mutual 12: i think i have a disorder

mutual 13: [rapidly reblogging gerard way images from 2010 with 6 notes]

mutual 14: dude i just got hit by a fucking car im not even joking im waiting for my uber to the hospital rn i think my legs are broken why does god hate me

mutual 15: JUST GOT MY NEUROSCIENCE PHD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mutual 16: [this post contains filtered tags: #[fandom you hate but you love ur mutual so much anyway]]

mutual 17: [reblogging bloingo fanart at a rate previously thought physically impossible]

mutual 18: One of the guys in my head ate my fucking ham sandwich

  • theanthemsys
    theanthemsys liked this · 3 weeks ago
  • pjskye
    pjskye reblogged this · 3 weeks ago
  • pjskye
    pjskye liked this · 3 weeks ago
  • tiny-creaturr
    tiny-creaturr reblogged this · 3 weeks ago
  • uri-yaoie
    uri-yaoie liked this · 3 weeks ago
  • cabbage-automaton
    cabbage-automaton liked this · 3 weeks ago
  • adudelol-reblogs
    adudelol-reblogs reblogged this · 3 weeks ago
  • violetthunderstorm
    violetthunderstorm reblogged this · 3 weeks ago
  • violetthunderstorm
    violetthunderstorm liked this · 3 weeks ago
  • specifiedsleep
    specifiedsleep liked this · 3 weeks ago
  • virtually-unknown
    virtually-unknown reblogged this · 3 weeks ago
  • leathefroslass
    leathefroslass reblogged this · 3 weeks ago
  • leathefroslass
    leathefroslass liked this · 3 weeks ago
  • celestiachan
    celestiachan reblogged this · 3 weeks ago
  • celestiachan
    celestiachan liked this · 3 weeks ago
  • stoat0nline
    stoat0nline liked this · 3 weeks ago
  • catgirldragon
    catgirldragon reblogged this · 3 weeks ago
  • dearlambcollective
    dearlambcollective liked this · 3 weeks ago
  • thepluralmaster
    thepluralmaster reblogged this · 4 weeks ago
  • obsidianflow
    obsidianflow reblogged this · 4 weeks ago
  • the-versus-gem
    the-versus-gem reblogged this · 4 weeks ago
  • itsgirlcraft
    itsgirlcraft reblogged this · 4 weeks ago
  • itsgirlcraft
    itsgirlcraft liked this · 4 weeks ago
  • azzysflowergarden
    azzysflowergarden reblogged this · 4 weeks ago
  • azzysflowergarden
    azzysflowergarden liked this · 4 weeks ago
  • little-amethyst-rosebud
    little-amethyst-rosebud reblogged this · 4 weeks ago
  • little-amethyst-rosebud
    little-amethyst-rosebud liked this · 4 weeks ago
  • th-compl-x
    th-compl-x reblogged this · 4 weeks ago
  • spark1edog
    spark1edog liked this · 4 weeks ago
  • mutipede
    mutipede liked this · 4 weeks ago
  • last-starfighter
    last-starfighter reblogged this · 4 weeks ago
  • earlgraytay
    earlgraytay liked this · 4 weeks ago
  • harmony-of-gaia
    harmony-of-gaia liked this · 4 weeks ago
  • harmony-of-gaia
    harmony-of-gaia reblogged this · 4 weeks ago
  • indigochromatic
    indigochromatic reblogged this · 4 weeks ago
  • arkumelatonin
    arkumelatonin liked this · 1 month ago
  • stevejansensdrumstick
    stevejansensdrumstick liked this · 1 month ago
  • snowy10604
    snowy10604 reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • snowy10604
    snowy10604 liked this · 1 month ago
  • the-lavender-flock
    the-lavender-flock reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • the-lavender-flock
    the-lavender-flock liked this · 1 month ago
  • dutch-oven-cowboy
    dutch-oven-cowboy liked this · 1 month ago
  • soybean-official
    soybean-official liked this · 1 month ago
  • skeletonthecreator
    skeletonthecreator reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • flock-of-feral-plague-doctors
    flock-of-feral-plague-doctors reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • ultra-violet-bouquet
    ultra-violet-bouquet liked this · 1 month ago
  • grilde1chesse
    grilde1chesse reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • grilde1chesse
    grilde1chesse liked this · 1 month ago
  • mama-alcina
    mama-alcina reblogged this · 2 months ago
voregguks - Ghosting
Ghosting

97'. they/them. queer and disordered. here for a bit of a cry, and not much else.

107 posts

Explore Tumblr Blog
Search Through Tumblr Tags