Literally Cannot Comprehend How Society Succeeded In Making People Feel Insecure About Stretch Marks.

if you could give only one piece of for beginner feedees, what would it be?

I’m assuming you want one piece of advice! Here’s my response:

You have to be okay with being fat on your own.

I think some feedees get caught up in the fantasy of having a partner that is a feeder that will stay with them forever and never leave them. While that is the case for quite a few people, you still have to keep your relationships grounded in reality. People break up, people die, people move on and grow apart. A feeder is not bound to you just because they helped make you fat. A feedist relationship is still a relationship. That’s why, if you decide to enter a feedist relationship, you need to seriously consider what will happen if your relationship doesnt work out. Will you be okay with being significantly fatter without a partner in the picture? Will you be okay existing as a fat person without the validation of a partner reassuring you how attractive you are? Will your mental health remain stable?

Unfortunately, no matter how hot you think it is, there are real life social/health/political/familial/daily consequences to voluntarily becoming obese and/or gaining significant amounts of weight. You need to be prepared to face those consequences with or without someone at your side.

If you feel unprepared you either need to do some serious self reflection and research, or keep your feedist fantasies as strictly fantasy only.

「肉の日」/「ぽちゃる」のイラスト [pixiv]

when ppl tell me i’m not that kinky bc they’re into bdsm & shit.. my fetish is literally one of the seven deadly sins but go off i guess

big girl

Ohno I ordered too much food by "accident". Guess I'll just have to feed you all of it, so it doesn't go to waste, no my fridge is not working, so open up and start eating 💖

close 💖

sketches/WIPs get posted first on patreon

this was posted in a fat liberationist twitter group i'm a part of and it is unironically a cornerstone of my philosophy and politics

Congrats on making it to 200 lbs! 💕

Virtual Meality, originally posted on the Supercake Studio Patreon!

Frank Paton - Witness my Act and Deed (1882)