spooky squishy season approaches!!
For me feeding is an act of love π
Itβs about having someone you love and care about and wanting to make sure they are fed and taken care of.
Itβs about taking the time to make treats for them. Taking the time to learn their allergies and their favorites.
Itβs about making them feel safe and comfortable and secure so they arenβt afraid to eat and can destress.
Itβs about cuddling with them and doting on them as you feed them.
Itβs about reassurances and praise, telling them how much you love them and how special they are. Calming their fears about you not liking them if they gain weight.
Itβs about holding them and giving them belly rubs as they drift off to sleep knowing how much they are loved and cherished.
shoutout to blob girlz and their fat round faces πππ
We need to talk about tumblr's systematic fatphobia.
Posts of fat people are being marked as "sexual content" even more frequently than they used to, but now we have this fun little addition as brought to my attention by a friend;
That's right. Not just blatant kink-shaming, but now, if you make posts about or with fat people, you can now be flagged as "promoting disordered eating"! Multiple completely innocent posts of fat people literally just existing in their own bodies have already been flagged this way.
Raise hell about it. Reblog and share fat content more than ever. Don't let this shitty website tell you that your bodies are "wrong" or that you aren't allowed to exist publicly.
Tumblr staff, if you care about eating disorders (you fucking don't), stop promoting this sense of shame and fear and disgust towards the idea of weight gain. Stop shaming and censoring people for posting about their own bodies and experiences. Fatphobia kills. Fatphobia causes disordered eating. Fatphobia is the disease you should be worried about.
This has also been disproportionately affecting fat trans people, because of course it has.
Don't stop talking about it. Don't let this bullshit ceo silence you.
Bao (2018) dir. Domee Shi
Join Feedists for Fat Liberation for a Zoom workshop, βFeedism & Fat Liberation 102: Growing Together in Liberation.β Saturday, May 20, 11AM PT/2PM ET/7PM BST. This is a great opportunity to learn more about feedism, fat lib, and how different forms of oppression intersect with each other and with anti-fat bias. Talk to community members and explore liberation for all within the feedist community and in the world.
Registration required: https://bit.ly/FFLgrowing
One of the things about gaining that I wasn't expecting and was pleasantly surprised by is just how much more I like my body??? Like, I was getting undressed to shower tonight and I was noticing how my thighs and belly are getting bigger and jigglier and I liked it. A lot. I looked at myself in the mirror and what I saw genuinely made me happy. I absolutely love getting fat (and, well, the fact that my tits are getting bigger too really doesn't hurt).
PriDEMONth!!! π³οΈβπππ₯³πππͺ©
(A little late to the parade, sorry π )
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