a reminder for my transmasc pals
Marie Antoinette (Sofia Coppola, 2006)
vía: elizabethbankses
The way cuties sweaters/sweatshirts have gotten tight during a Summer of loose tanktops and ice cream.
"It's the holidays" becoming an excuse for indulgence earlier and earlier
C u d d l e weather
Hearty, heavy foods are back in season
Football food making big boys bigger
Loading up your cutie with seasonal sweets and donuts.
Kisses that taste like cinnamon sugar
Let’s lay in bed and grope each other’s fat while we wait for pizza to get here 🥺
its ok to be skinny
no it isnt everybody get fat
Beyond all the obvious perks of dating a feedist/feedee, I do really miss going kinda nuts at gas stations/grocery stores off the cuff.
It's always that little voice.
"Good feeders wouldn't show up empty handed."
And it's a very cute little way of affection. She wouldn't know at the very moment that I'm snaking up and down aisles like the kinky mess I am, studying the options. She loves those. Oh but I can't just get her sweets. There needs to be some salty. Something with bread/carbs too. And then I'm stuck with an armful of snacks thinking about how I'll be feeding some of that to her... which is my little secret I get to keep until I get home from my original trip to the gym to work out.
And it does become near comical. If she lit up when I sauntered in with snacks the first time, then maybe I should seek that reaction... every time.
Post office? Add a detour to get $17 of junk food.
Went for a bike ride? Well how am I supposed to get my post ride Gatorade while ignoring the Texas Rolls near the checkout?
And there's no rationalization either. Is that a lot of food to bring home each and every time I leave the house? Yes? But you loveeee the snacks. I don't see the problem. I'm just your playfully idiot himbo feeder who can't connect the dots between your issues with those pants and my own shopping habits. I thought you thought I was cute when I brought home snacks? You think you're getting fat? I don't see how that is my fault. Let me be cute.
🎀 Hey bbs! I'm celebrating my birthday today with loved ones, gonna go shopping and have a nice meal, and maybe see a movie 🥰 If you feel like spoiling me today pls go sub to my OF or tip me on $ app or pp 🎀
Trans fat? Uh.. Yeah. I sure hope they are
Craving the feel of a soft round belly in my hands, or in the groove of my back🥹
Liking being fat is not bad.
Liking fat people is not bad.
Eating however, whatever and whenever you like is not bad. And nor is helping, admiring or encouraging that behaviour.
Feeders, feedees, encouragers and fat admirers are NOT. BAD. PEOPLE. and should not be made to feel as such.
Tumblr demonising the kink and the community behind it is a joke.
This community is and can be a sanctuary for an otherwise marginalised section of society, a place where fat people and those who love them can be unapologetically themselves, and be revered and celebrated for it. And practice their kink (or just embrace being fat) in a safe place, free of judgement.
It’s a disgrace what has been done, it’s blatant fatphobia, plain and simple.