Making Picrews Of Ur Oc Like Look How They Yassified My Boy.......

something that I think might be missing a bit from discussions about transandrophobia (specifically when it comes to saying that it's just transphobia/misogyny, or that the only oppression trans guys face is being erased or infantilised) is that this literally is not the case for a lot of trans guys. transphobes do not see me as a "soft feminine confused stolen daughter", they see me as a predator trying to take their daughters from them. I am harassed and threatened out of the women's restrooms I'm forced in to, they think my testosterone makes me angry and violent, they think I am converting their "daughters" to transgenderism, they think I'm transitioning to perv on their sons. it's important to talk about the harm that invisibility and infantilization causes, but do not act like the oppression that trans men face stops there.

whenever people bring up that trans men always pass better and eventually go stealth and leave the community (which is framed as a betrayal of some kind) i think about that one older trans lady on tiktok who had people ask her basically "where are all the older trans men in activism (did they all leave)" and she replied with "most of them died", like do we really always go stealth and leave or do we just not make it and nobody cares enough to check?

I'm sorry, anon. Transmasc invisibility is heartbreaking.

"autoandrophilia is ripping off transfem oppression"

bzzt incorrect

tme? what does that mean?

just means female at birth lol

one of the best lines in ttyd imo

I've been constantly accused of being trans for sex reasons since I was like 12 (and so have so many trans men and mascs I know!) so I just do NOT believe that autoandrophilia is applied to transmascs less. on a personal level, I just don't talk about it because no one ever takes me seriously which seems indicative of a problem imo

we might be dangerously close to acknowledging trans men also face challenges in society

lol