Cuckolding - Blog Posts
As I've said time and time again...being enlightened teaches you that yes, even she is out of your league and will mock you, reject you and talk trash about you to her friends. We all need to celebrate our inadequacies and appreciate ourselves for being at the very bottom of the bottom. It's not such a bad place to be when you learn to love yourself for being a loser. I personally wouldn't want to be any other way. Being pussy and even sissy pussy free is a wonderful life
You know you've reached the pinnacle of loser enlightenment when your mind, body and soul knows beyond a single doubt that you'd even disappoint a sissy crossdresser if given a chance...which to be fair they'd never even give you. Yes even crossdressers are off limits to beta losers, unless of course you're in the friendzone and helping to support her sex life with a real man that can give her everything she deserves sexually ♥️
A true beta loser already has this one mastered and down to a fine art and is proud of his shortcomings. No need to take the course at all! Though in theory you should always be working on making yourself go even faster. It helps to solidify your place in life and provides excellent mental reinforcement of how disappointing you actually are to both men and women ♥️
A beta loser's sole purpose in life is to ensure that his wife/gf/crush has all of her needs met so that she can spend more time either with her real boyfriend if she has one, or finding one if she doesn't. This means you devote all of your time to supporting her relationship or potential relationship with another man. A loser provides encouragement, emotional support, menial errand and task completion, as well as buying her hot clothes, lingerie, jewelry, stockings and heels for her to wear on her dates to maximize her potential for getting laid by the real man object of her desires (which will never be you to be clear). A loser does all of this thoughtfully and tirelessly without ever expecting acknowledgement or a reward from her. You do it because you cherish and love her even though you're just "a replaceable thing" to her....
An enlightened beta loser sees a photo like this and immediately recognizes all of the things that can go very wrong. For example, rather than just enjoying how gorgeous she is, and how hot her lingerie and heels are, a loser can't fight the perseverating thoughts of "is my penis big enough? Can I last long enough? Will she laugh at me? Will she mock me if I can't get the job done? What if I can't find her clit? What if I get too nervous?" And many more. Performance anxiety, nervousness and worry flood a beta loser's brain creating a truly fearful response to a situation like this. This is why the truly enlightened are keenly aware that pussy is not for them. Not now. Not ever. Pussy is exclusively the domain of real men who don't have a single one of these thoughts and know how to take her, ravish her and leave her wanting more and more. Losers are a disappointment. And yes, she would mock you and laugh at you and tell all her friends how horrible the experience was with you. This is why a smart loser will never even attempt to venture outside of the friend zone.
When a loser truly reaches enlightenment about who and what they are they transcend seeing a caption like this in only a sexual sense. For a true loser the statement above becomes a part of their core unshakeable belief system and imbedded fully in their DNA. A truly enlightened loser finds peace in this thought and even begins to become extremely appreciative and thankful towards all women for their ultimate denial and rejection on all levels. An enlightened loser knows that denial and rejection ARE their version of being treated kindly and being loved by women. Every woman that rejects you is simply doing you a massive favor by reminding you of your place in the natural hierarchy of life. Good losers will seek out rejection both consciously and unconsciously in order to be constantly reminded why this state of being is not just a sexual indulgence, but rather a permanent life truth
When you're an enlightened beta loser it's important to stop on images like this and really reflect on your place in life. It's important to remember that even two non-passable crossdressers in lingerie fondling each other are getting more sex than you are, and that even they are higher on the sexual food chain than you are. If given the time of day by either one of these gurls they'd be able to literally smell the loser oozing from your pores and reject you. Do not be intimidated by this. Rather the contrary. Get yourself off repeatedly to the thought of them laughing at you and rejecting you. Celebrate your place in life at the absolute bottom. Reward yourself with hours of solo sex for being able to identify what you are and for accepting what you are
I love to play with Karen, handling her dick and feel her tongue crossing mine…
Obviously, if you like it and reblog it again I’m glad 😘
An enlightened beta loser would be eternally grateful if a woman offered him her shoes. While it is more likely that you'll need to purchase worn shoes online or steal them from a friend's closet, sex with a shoe is just as intimate if not more intimate and loving than sex with pussy. A loser knows that real pussy is off the table forever. A loser has way too much anxiety over women and pussy and deep down knows he'll remain a disappointment to women for life, never being able to satisfy. Sex with a woman's shoe erases all of that performance anxiety, stress and chronic failures with women. Sex with her well worn shoes is a beautiful experience and stirs up powerful emotions within the beta loser brain. The scent of her shoes as you pump away IS what love smells like and feels like. You'll never be able to disappoint her well worn shoes. They'll always be there to take your feeble 5 seconds of sex, and they don't care that your dicklette is too small. Shoes make for the perfect replacement girlfriend ♥️
When you're a beta loser does it really matter what she's done in these and what she's stepped in? All that matters is that you give 100% of your time and effort to restore them to as new looking as possible, which will involve heavy usage of your tongue. That you even have this opportunity...whether she told you to do it or you stole them, doesn't matter. Being beta means finding opportunities to be useful to women without needing to pester them and without them needing to tell you to do it. Your reward comes from knowing you do have a purpose, that you are useful and that you went over and above to do an amazing job even though she likely won't even notice or give it a second thought
Nothing hotter than a couple of pussy free sissy failmales get together to make out with each other while their wives (and boyfriends) laugh and mock them openly...♥️
Take my advice... Premature ejaculators become cuckolds very quickly...no pun intended. But rest assured your life as a cuckold will be much better then the fake life you're stressing over and living now if you're still trying to have sex with your wife/gf/crush... The fears and jealousy might feel real...but it'll actually set you free when she commits to someone else and you'll find it intoxicating
When you're an enlightened beta this is how it's assumed and done. Every time. It's not about what's in it for you...it's about taking ownership and pride over your lot in life ♥️
Honestly unless my wife literally had just walked in from being out somewhere, this level of dust and dirt on her shoes would be a massive offense and I'd be paying dearly for it in every way imaginable. I can't even imagine what insult to beta pride this would be. The shoes don't clean themselves and you should be horrified if you let her leave the house with them looking like this regardless of whether she asked you to clean them or not. It's not her job to have to "tell you" everything. Some things you should just "get" and make sure they're done. Every single time. Not just some of the time or only when you're thinking of your dicklette. It's called beta pride. Demonstrate it at all times
Nobody ever said the life of a beta loser was always going to be easy. It will inevitably come with its own moments where the task at hand starts to get a little mucky. While a part of you may think that this is the moment to resist, I'd encourage you to remember your training. This is where you double down on the task at hand and push yourself through giving your maximal efforts along the way. It's moments like these that really allow the true beta inside to emerge and shine. She's not being cruel to you. In fact she's displaying an uncharacteristic amount of caring towards you by assisting you to become your best
Be honest... You don't even care what she looks like or what she's wearing. You saw the sole the way you were supposed to and your eyes were fixated and the impact was already made. You're now thinking about licking it clean for her and hoping you might get the chance to sniff it...that is beta sex my friends. All day every day. Her shoes have definitely replaced your need for pussy. If so, congratulations you've finally arrived
The reality of so many betas. All of you on the fence that actually do know deep down... Set yourselves free and help her find a real man that's built for fucking. She needs him, and so do you. Stop being selfish and egotistical...you're a beta at heart. Learn to love everything about it 💕
I really don't know if there could be anything better than licking the shoes of a strong black woman who literally hates you while a strong black man wines, dines and fucks your crush into oblivion... Those two things happening simultaneously in a loser's life would be earth shattering and mind blowing
The number of times my wife or her friend Michelle have done this to me prior to going out for the night is uncountable. They think it's a mixture of funny, disgusting and pathetic that I'd let them treat me this way. I however would call it beta heaven...mmmm
Mistress Madeline
I very highly encourage all beta losers to purchase at least one ultra feminine outfit either off Amazon or from a thrift shop or even a real store. While you may be hesitant or resistant to this idea or try to tell yourself it's 'not your thing'.... Just try it. Then put it on. It's remarkably freeing and will feel way better than you ever thought it could... Before long I'd even be willing to bet you that you'll be frustrated when life is busy and you CAN'T dress up and play with yourself
My wife and her bf bought me something very similar to this because they thought it would be hilarious to parade the "loser fag" around the room in front of their friends. Wearing it in front of them has been extremely humiliating, however I will say that you get used to it surprisingly quickly. I personally love how it feels despite everyone's laughter when I'm told to wear it. I even have the blond wig to go with it and the shaved legs, chest and arms.... Ahhhh just out here in the real world living my best loser life ❤️
Probably not. Lol
There is much truth to this. As a beta loser who lives cuckolding from a reality based perspective rather than a fantasy based perspective, I can identify with these statements about the likely changes that will occur in your relationship over time. Maybe this isn't entirely true in some relationships but it sure has been to a large degree in my own. Particularly the part where he now calls the shots for both my wife and I. Whatever he wants, he gets. Period. Be careful what you wish for as they say.
This is for you, cuckold
There is so much that is misunderstood about becoming a cuckold. Many husbands and boyfriends have a fantasy about their women having sex with another man - one who is more endowed, more masculine, and more assertive. But there is much more to cuckolding when it crosses from fantasy to reality.
Here is what you need to consider:
Sex between me and your wife is a very intimate act. If you think you can remove emotions from it, you’re deluding yourself. Your wife will have feelings for me, and I will have feelings for her.
You do not get to control the sex. That is between me and your wife or girlfriend. If we want to kiss (and we do), we will kiss; once you consent to me making love to your wife, it is out of your hands.
She will look at you and your relationship differently after she is with me. She will know and intimacy from another point of view, and she will forever compare you to me (sorry, friend, but you will likely come up short).
Your wife or girlfriend will want to continue to see me. You will be jealous. Are you going to deprive her? She will resent you.
Cuckolding is not only between me and your wife; it is also between me and you. I cannot speak for all in my situation, but I derive great pleasure from dominating you through your wife. I know you do too.
Still want me to have sex with your cute wife? Great. I look forward to a meaningful relationship with you both.
Who doesn't love a pair of cuckold husband's sitting at home and passing the time together and playing while their wives are out with real men having a great time that will also inevitably involve hours of hot passionate sex? A sexless cuckold husband at the bottom of the food chain has needs too and they sure aren't ever going to be met by a woman's touch. Not ever. Once you start, it never stops. On the plus side this sort of behaviour becomes very very natural in no time at all. You don't even need to be passable to feel the lust grow and swell (no pun intended) ♥️
When you're a beta loser, your only job in this life is to ensure that your wife/gf/crush has all of the necessities in life to look and feel stunning for other men. That includes jewelry, dresses, lingerie, heels, makeup, perfume amongst other things. Helping her to look her very best ensures she's very desirable to other men who will in turn pursue her and take her. They'll have hot wild sex together and feel crazy together. There will be screams and moans. She'll do things for him she's never done before. They'll create unforgettable memories together...Your sole reward is that you'll have played your part in her happiness and satisfaction. This is your most important role. Don't be bothered by silly things like never getting to see her in these items or never deriving personal benefit from them. You were born to be sexless and rejected. Be happy that she is happy and be happy at how firmly she denies you
He is going to love that dress. Thank you for letting me pay for it!
Being a beta loser, my wife's boyfriend is the only one that gets all the fun. I've grown to be terrified at the mere thought about pussy. Pussy is definitely not for losers. A loser would only disappoint a woman with their ridiculous 'effort' and leave her extremely frustrated and unsatisfied. If you're a loser and miraculously in some form of relationship with a woman, you owe it to her to have 'the talk'. Sit her down and beg her to deny you all sex moving forward. Beg her to date other men. Real men. It'll change her life (and yours) forever and for the better. Do her a favor and become the sexless loser you were born to be. Let all your worries and performance anxieties fade away as she moves on to the bliss of being with another better equipped man. She will appreciate that you took the time to enlighten her to the world of good sex that awaits her
As a loser, you were born to be at the absolute bottom of the sexual food chain. As such, fully embracing humiliation and cruelty is the appropriate way to live. Once you give in to this very simple rule on how to live, your life will become much easier. A loser should be pussy free and fucking his fist alone at home while thinking about his wife/gf/crush being with a better man
This my fellow betas. This ♥️. This is the sense of freedom and relief I've spent a year or more preaching to you about. It does in fact exist...so if your wife/gf/crush isn't cheating on you already, make today the day you sit her down and beg her to make you the person in this caption. You owe it to her and yourself
The truth is – while this moment is deeply painful – watching your wife leave to go be with another man – you also feel a sense of relief that you will no longer feel pressured to try to satisfy her yourself.
A premature ejaculator's dream come true. A shoe IS literally awesome sex. We'll even go as far as stealing them from under a co-workers desk mmmm
When you're a beta loser, humiliation and constant rejection equals love and attention that you inevitably should crave. When youre a loser you actually don't want her to treat you with kindness. You want her to be honest and you want her to be disgusted by you
When you're a loser and a beta, reciting daily mantras out loud can be extremely empowering and helpful, particularly when you're mindset is still on the fence and you're trying to get over the hump. Daily mantras spoke aloud are a powerful way to ensure that you reach your goal of full acceptance and become proud of who and what you are. I highly recommend choosing any number of these and personalizing them and making sure you say them and remind yourself several times a day out loud. Before long you'll be living your best beta loser life
