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She’s leaving the bar with him whether you want her to or not. You might as well want her to.
You wanted her to sit by the bar alone, to be open to advances by men she found attractive. How your heart is racing. And she isn’t having second thoughts
You thought a fling would spice up your marriage.Now she is deeply, madly in love with him.To her, he is everything you are not.
Without saying a word, her look says “I love you, I’m grateful, and it’s time for you to leave us alone.
You watched from across the bar as he got bolder, and your wife encouraged him. It was happening.
Yes mine has. Her old boyfriend was the first guy she told me about. She told me she had the chance to fuck him but turned him down. She says “if I could go back I definitely would’ve fucked him.”
“And now he wants you to bet him again, double or nothing – that he can convince me to go with him on a two-night camping trip this weekend - just him and me. I don’t think you should take the bet, because if you do, you’re pretty certain to lose again.”
How to Become a Premature Ejaculator
So after many many years, and literally $1000s spent on hypnosis/sex therapy/experimentation/research in trying to become a premature ejaculator here is my best technique.
Sadly there is no magic pill to become a Premature Ejaculator (at least not reliably!), here’s my best researched two-step technique of becoming a Premature Ejaculator:
Phase 1. Medium-term Gooning - ‘simulated PE’
The first stage takes lots of will power. If you have a chronic masturbation/gooning habit you may have noticed that the longer you goon, the sooner it is before you reach edge.
So initially you will be focusing on re-wiring your triggers and habbits. If you manage not to cum for several days you will find yourself starting to edge sooner and sooner, maybe you start feeling the ability to cum after a couple of minutes. If you keep going it’ll get shorter and shorter. Judge your progress, after 5 or so days you should be down to a consistent 20-30 seconds of jerking before you HAVE TO STOP.
Unfortunately this feeling is only temporary, if you ejaculate now then you will go back to being able to last.
This first phase will feel extremely frustrating! You MUST NOT cum! Despite how much your body cries out. You must focus all your willpower, your desire to become a permanent premature ejaculator must outweigh the pleasure you feel when cumming.
Keep jerking off, edging, stopping, jerking off, edging, stopping! Get up to one whole week of this!
Your mind will be a mix of emotions, I’m sorry to say you may find yourself not enjoying masturbation because of how little of it you can do without having to stop (BTW, this is what a permanent premature ejaculator feels like), yet you will be horny all the time.
When you start to feel these feelings (but no sooner than one week) stop, and continue to phase 2.
Phase 2. Conventional Ejaculation
Your first day of phase 2 will be spent without touching your dick at all. However, at this stage you’ll be well acquainted (or reacquainted) with what turns you on the most, spend the first day of phase 2 with this porn. Let it become a part of you, let it turn you on so much. But do not stroke your dick. Jerking off today is as unobtainable as the tits or pussies you see on your screen.
The next day you will start phase 2 proper. Your task will be to bring up your favorite porn, start jerking, and cum as soon as you feel the need:
Because you have at least seven whole edging days of cum built up you will be so ready to explode, you will cum so easily, HOWEVER, you MUST CUM AS SOON AS YOU FEEL READY! DO NOT HOLD OFF You must experiment relaxing the muscles above and around your penis, it’s the same muscle set you relax when taking a pee, so try that. Feel what that feels like, remember which muscles you relaxed. If you want to extend your jerk-off session you may look at porn without touching your dick, but from the moment you touch your dick you must not stop jerking till you cum.
Let your cum explode, and enjoy your release.
Then put your penis away. You’ve had your fun. No matter how horny you are you must not jerk off again this day.
The next day, browse your favorite porn without touching your dick. When you’re ready to cum, grab your dick, and while stroking try to relax the same muscles as yesterday…. You will find that when you’re ready to cum it will just happen, it may even take you by surprise! Remember how easy it was yesterday? Well today it was almost as easy!
This will be your life for the next two weeks. You must not jerk off unless you’re ready and willing to cum in the next few minutes, and when you’ve cum that must be the end for the day. While you’re jerking you must relax your muscles.
Over the 14 days you will notice the time taken to cum and your ability to resist cumming will reduce. Perhaps you can record your timings, make a graph of it, chart your descent.
What we are doing is causing your ejaculatory muscles to dystrophy. We are physically reducing your ability to hold back. It will take at least two weeks of this behavior for long-term effects to materialize, but it will be worth it in the end.
Welcome to the Premature Ejaculator club. Just be sure you want to be here, getting in in your control, but getting out is a billion dollar industry ;-)
