Why does every homophobic person not grasp the fact that queerness is not just about sex? Like, girls can fall in love with girls. Boys can fall in love with boys. Enbys with enbys and so forth. Is being straight just about sex? No. It’s so fucking annoying. Homophobia is so baffling.
medications don’t work the same for everyone.
therapy doesn’t work the same for everyone.
self care doesn’t look the same for everyone.
mental illness doesn’t look the same for everyone.
recovery is a personal process and shouldn’t be compared to anyone else’s. we are all healing from different things. just because someone else says, “my life has been bad too, and i got over it”, that in no way means you’ve tried less. you will grow at your own pace.