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When you're an enlightened loser the harsh reality is that even an older manly looking crossdresser is far above you on the sexual food chain has greater sexual opportunities than you ever will. Even if by some miracle you were to date this gurl you'd only be a complete disappointment to her. She would be cheating on you and cuckolding you in literally no time at all. This is because even these gurls want an alpha male and not some weak willed beta loser like yourself. The only thing you could possibly offer to this gurl would be your total servitude as well as your wallet. You'd only ever be in charge of cleaning her shoes and buying her hot lingerie to wear on her dates with other men

Every beta loser that's attempting to reach enlightenment and gain comfort in who and what they are should have an outfit like this in their closet complete with wig and heels, regardless of whether you have found a woman to serve or not. Just imagine the feel of the soft and sensual materials against your skin as you complete your chores, or while obsessing over a woman you crush on at work that doesn't give you the time of day all...while rubbing your beta stick like it's a clit. Pure beta bliss ♥️

An enlightened beta appreciates that it isn't necessarily always a lack of desire to fuck a woman....but rather the deeper appreciation that we weren't built to fuck and that we would always disappoint a woman in every possible scenario. Betas are intimidated by women and rightfully so. They should be. Women make us timid and weak willed and at times downright scared. As such...when we embrace who we truly are we would rather a better man have the opportunity to fuck her while we provide her with all of the opportunities in life to get fucked. We buy her lingerie, makeup, heels, dresses and skirts, jewellery, give her money to go out with her friends or to go on a date. We run errands for her and do anything we can to free up her time so that she has more time to have fun and potentially find a real man to be with. Beta loser hand sex is just the byproduct of all of the above and what keeps us motivated to continue to serve in this manner. Sex is not for losers...even when offered out of pity, which surely this gorgeous woman would be offering it out of

Nod your head, yes, bators, and keep stroking for her!

When you're a beta loser you become keenly aware that even this gurl gets more attention from men and women, and more sex in a month than you will in your entire lifetime. Be proud of this fact and learn to embrace your place at the very bottom of the sexual food chain. Love yourself and learn to serve all others. Your role in life is to support all OTHERS to have great sex and have great experiences while also understanding that these things are not for you. Not now. Not ever. Become comfortable being home alone having incredible loser hand sex over and over thinking about what an amazing time they're all having without you. Picture them in your mind touching one another, kissing one another, having hot passionate breathtaking sex...all while trying not to disappoint your hand. This is the natural beta loser way

From my experience and conversations with people here? All lol. ♥️and that is not remotely a problem

Just wondering, because it sure happened to me.

Being beta often means accepting roles and responsibilities that others would never even consider accepting. Licking and cleaning a woman's shoes is one of those roles. She should never have to even consider cleaning her own shoes and neither should her boyfriend. This is exclusively beta loser territory and you should not only eagerly accept your role and responsibility...but also put your fullest amount of effort into completing the job, no matter what she thinks of you. It IS a reward to lock a woman's shoes.

Beta losers can never get enough golden liquid from hot women. It's not that they start out wanting it...but once they do consume it, it almost becomes a necessity of life. After all it IS the closest you'll ever get to swapping bodily fluids with a real woman. Yes it's gross. Yes women will be entirely disgusted by you drinking piss in every way. But you get over that part really fast and you come to crave it and need it. In fact I'm drinking a glass full of frozen piss ice cubes while I type this. For contrast, my wife is out right now with her bf and my credit card for dinner ♥️

Merci maîtresse 😍

A case could certainly be made that all betas that tricked their way into a relationship with a woman should be feminized at minimum.

10 REASONS TO FEMINISE YOUR HUSBAND

A wife should feminise her husband. That is a fact.

For many heterosexual women living in the usual Western social construct this statement might seem absurd. Surely many women who are attracted to men should wanted someone who looks and acts manly and masculine? If you wanted someone who looks and acts female why not find a real female?

Well let’s dissect these statements. Who decided that the biological male of our species has to act in a so-called masculine way? In reality that’s nothing more than a social convention invented by some males to justify, maintain and promote an unequal position in their favour. Scratch the surface and we find it’s just an illusion.

Reason 1. Feminisation makes males more gentle

Firstly, by putting your husband in feminine clothes, such as a short dress and high heels, he will become more aware of how to sit and stand in a delicate way. It will remove any attempt to ‘man-spread’ for example: spreading his legs wide when sitting. He will have to sit slowly and keep his legs together.

Secondly, the mere act of wearing soft feminine items of clothes has a profound affect on his manner. Psychologically clothes affect our behaviours. Think of the police officer who becomes assertive and officious, think of the businessman in an expensive suit and tie that makes him feel powerful. The man with a shaven head who is aggressive.

By changing his clothing to something feminine, your husband will take on a gentle and submissive manner. Put him in a pink mini skirt for example and make him have long hair with a pink bow.

Reason 2. Feminisation improves a male’s hygiene.

Introducing a regime of female hygiene works wonders for any male’s personal hygiene and grooming. Many men today, such as my own husband, were not too bad in the hygiene area but never as good as a proper woman.

Shaving of body hair, especially round their genitals results in smooth nice smelling clean hygienic skin. One of the most important hygienic aspects of feminisation is making him sit down to pee. You’ve instantly stopped those disgusting splashes around the toilet bowl that men make when standing to pee.

Reason 3. Feminisation ensures that a husband remains faithful.

The opportunity for your husband to have an affair or even a one night stand is virtually eliminated. What (so-called) man would ever allow any other woman to see that his wife has put him in female lingerie?

Even if he made a feeble excuse about preferring the feel of women’s underwear, how would he explain the bra and smooth genitals with a cute little triangle of pubic hair? You’ve eliminated any risk of him ever straying. You have control.

Reason 4. Feminisation makes him respect his wife’s authority

A wife needs to do a little more than dress him in female clothing to immediately make him more submissive. I would suggest you go further of course and make that clothing extremely feminine and revealing.

I insist on Alice wearing miniskirts, pleats, pinks, pretty dresses and so on. Husbands need to be made to feel girly and exposed. Accentuate this by ensuring your own clothing whilst also feminine, consists of skirts to the knee and fully covered tops.

This shows the relationship level is not equal. He has to expose flesh for my pleasure and I don’t.

Reason 5. Feminisation ensures he does the household chores

You can turn him into your personal maid or just the housewife. You’ll never have to do boring household chores ever again, unless you feel like it.

This frees up your time for more interesting activities, such as reading and going out with friends. Really ladies, no more ironing is a reason alone for forced feminisation. Of course, you also save the cost of a cleaner as you have a free one at home.

Reason 6. Feminisation increases the sexual energy in the home.

Let’s not forget that feminisation is a turn-on for the wife and importantly, also for the husband. I say importantly as the intense excitement he will feel through cross-dressing and being feminised generally gives the wife a powerful tool for manipulation.

In any relationship you will become used to your partner. Feminisation increases the excitement and for me, remains just as exciting even four of five years after having first feminised Alice.

Reason 7. Feminisation increases his understanding of real women

By making your husband or man undergo the beauty routines and household tasks, you have introduced him to the reality of being a girl. He will see women differently and appreciate what we’ve traditionally had to do. No more as husbands are now the new housewives.

A man becomes more gentle when put in short dresses and stockings

Reason 8. Feminisation makes him more attractive

Being a heterosexual woman doesn’t necessarily mean I want to see a large rough hairy-bodied man in jeans and tee shirt and shaved head. Women are so much more fragrant and making your husband smooth and fragrant too with pretty clothing and colours makes him more attractive. As he takes more care of himself as a feminised male, then his looks and appearance improve exponentially.

Reason 9. Feminisation reduces a male’s aggression and bad habits

Why is it that men fight, drive too fast and think it acceptable to talk over women? All these problems are eliminated through feminisation. Testosterone is often unfairly blamed, in my opinion, for aggression. It’s needed, in my opinion, to be able to perform and I wouldn’t want my Alice to not perform would I? But any aggressive tendencies she did have were washed away through becoming a pretty girl in a short skirt with high heels.

Reason 10. Feminisation is better for him too

Last and least, feminisation benefits your man too. Expectations of him fall following his feminisation and there is no longer the need for him to fulfil the role of provider, strongman and fixer of everything.

This is often a stressful situation for many men as they try to do things that they are just not cut out to do; lead, make decisions, solve problems and so on. Now they can relax and follow their wives’ decisions and undertake work that doesn’t require them to use strength or thought.

Housework, ironing, washing, cleaning and cooking are examples of ideal work for them. I also get Alice to make repairs to my clothing and so on. Now this doesn’t mean that will be absolved of any work in the home that is typically thought of men’s work.

They should be made to continue to do the gardening, decorating and household repairs. The point is that all housework is more fulfilling for them as they don’t need to stress their brains or take responsibility. They don’t have to make any decisions as you, as the wife and head of the house, decide what they will do and set their work schedule.

FEMINIZE YOUR HUSBAND

Life becomes so much better for the lady of the house. There is hard work ahead for any wife undergoing a force feminisation programme. She needs to maintain control and push the feminisation and work schedules onto her husband, sometimes in the face of resistance.

I believe that the effort is repaid a hundred times or more as the outcome will always be a better life for both of you. Albeit in different ways.

It’s important to note that a Female Led Relationship of this type should not be abusive nor should the husband suffer. The relationship remains loving with the wife in total control.

Every relationship is different and the extent of the husband’s feminisation will be different for every couple. At the minimum, a husband should be given a girl’s name, referred to with female pronouns and wear only female clothing and products whenever possible.

These are going to need a LOT of work to get all that dirt and filth out from between the tiny ridges...and that remnant from the sticker definitely needs to go too. Now is the opportunity for a beta to really show his prowess and attention to detail. Sure it'll be gross. Sure she'll laugh at you. Sure no real man would even be looking at the bottom of her shoes let alone be obsessing over them with their tongue. But this is the role of betas. To be useful and to prove they do have value. This is the moment for you to shine (no pun intended). Drop to your knees and clean every last morsel, no matter what it is and be proud of yourself

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When you're a beta loser, the way you consume porn is fundamentally different than the way a real man consumes it. For example, most losers looking at the above image likely noticed the dirt on the sole of her heel and began to feel excitement before even looking at her face and outfit. There's also a good chance you even enlarged it to get a closer look before looking at the rest of the image. This is a natural trait in losers and should be highly encouraged. A loser does not need to see a woman's face, or lingerie or even nudity. A loser can be more than satisfied by the appearance of her well worn shoes. A true loser will make this their main sexual focus every time they consume pornography

Their look of disdain says it all... Even crossdressers are above beta losers in the natural heirarchy of life. Embrace the never ending stream of rejection by all those who are above you. Learn to need it and crave it as deeply as love itself

My wife has told all kinds of her friends and even mine. They're all aware that she dates a black man while still being married to me. I won't pretend that it was easy finding out she had told so many people and even used the word cuckold with them... But now despite the ridicule it often comes with, particularly from her friends that never actually approved of me in the first place...I find it comforting in many ways. And when one of her friends puts me down or reminds me of just how much of a loser I am, I find joy in their critique of me and really appreciate the ongoing reminders of my true place in the world. It's very helpful

You long ago accepted that your wife needed to have sex with other men in order to be sexually satisfied. And you’ve tried to be a loving and supportive beta cuckold for her – even helping her set up her tinder account, and never complaining even when she would spend the whole night with another man. But so far she has been quite discreet about her cuckolding and has never even told her best friend. That is about to change, however – because now that she has a real boyfriend, the two of them want to date openly – and when they start going places in public as a couple, it is inevitable that friends, and family, will learn that she cuckolds you.

It's no coincidence that beta losers are drawn to women that are repulsed by them and would think nothing of putting them down and putting them in their place. These are the sorts of strong and honest women that a beta needs to be rejected by regularly. A "nice girl" will only set you back in your journey towards full enlightenment by providing a false sense of hope in order to not hurt your feelings or come across as a bitch. In short nice girls are hurting/stunting your development. A beta should only pine and lust after unattainable honest women that will keep them moving forward on their path. The sooner you get to enlightenment the sooner your life will make sense to you and you will find peace ♥️

I love stumbling across my old posts from my previous account

Betas and Marriage

I’m a firm believer that betas should marry sluts. I think that sluts are a better match for betas than good girls and good girls are a better match for alphas, let me explain why.

Every relationship needs a sexual dominant. Everyone knows betas cant really dominate in bed, and they are inexperienced. Now sluts are not necessarily able to dominate in bed either, but the amount of sexual experience they have over the beta and being able to recognize and see the beta for what he is and how his sexuality works should give every slut a massive confidence boost in bed vs the beta. Enough to take charge and demand what she wants in bed.

Betas are naturally attracted to sluts and feel neutral towards good girls. Alphas only marry good girls and are more often than not disgusted by the idea of marrying a slut. Its pretty much a perfect setup for everyone. As a beta myself, I am attracted and intrigued by the sexual confidence of sluts and I get an erection when I see them scantily clad in public. Their usually confident demeanor triggers my submissive tendencies and I feel weak in front of them. I just want to love them and worship their body. Alphas on the other hand are more confident than sluts and they know all too well what happens behind the scenes with sluts, which the beta has never been privy to and does not understand. They would puke in their mouth at the thought of marrying a girl that has been a filthy cum dump for many guys like him, but what the beta doesn’t know can’t hurt him. They go for the good pure girl instead, sometimes the beta’s own virgin sister, while the beta happily and cluelessly marries the slut that got all her holes pumped full of cum for months by the same alpha.

Girls with high number of premarital partners (aka sluts) are more likely to cheat and this is a scientific fact. Thus it’s not far fetched to say that a cuckold relationship would suit this kind of girl best, as they can indulge in their natural desires and still have a successful relationship. Guess which kind of guy is best suited for a cuckold relationship? That’s right, betas. Sluts will have a way higher chance of a happy and long lasting marriage with a beta they can slowly but surely cuck.

Now I might be making a generalization here, but sluts tend have more attitude thanks to their natural confidence and lifestyle. Betas being the relatively sexually and socially deprived partner, are way more likely to put up with a slut wife’s attitude for a chance to have gentle sex that night than an assertive confident alpha.

Now some of you may think this is a raw deal for the beta but trust me the beta can still be very happy with this arrangement. Its hard to understand why when you are not a beta. Beta males have brought up just right all their lives to fit just perfectly into this system. I wrote this as a primarily beta male myself so Im not just writing erotica. I will have more posts clarifying this concept at a later time.

For beta losers, there is nothing more intimate and sexual than to be on the floor with their nose buried in a woman's shoe. While this likely happens more often when you're alone, and have stolen the shoe or purchased it from the hot bratty woman you found online that will never meet you and would always quite openly mock you and reject you, it does not reduce the overwhelming rush and flood of emotion and lust this moment brings a beta. The first caress. The first deep inhale. The first lick. The taste of the dirt on the soles as you greedily and shamelessly lick away...This is THE pinnacle of beta sex and should be fully embraced by all betas everywhere. Her pussy is for him and she'd be disgusted if she knew what you were doing with her shoe...but alas a beta openly accepts that her shoe and its heavenly scent will always be just perfect and right

❤ 2097 ❤

Simple and yet very true. A loser does not require nudity or scantily clad pictures of women in order to fuck his hand pussy raw. Images such as this one are more than enough to get a loser's brain spinning and spiraling out of control. In fact I would argue that most losers consume more normal friendzone safe content such as social media content and get themselves off than pure porn content from places like Tumblr. When you're pussy free and know that you don't deserve nudity, and that you don't deserve the hot lingerie that is so clearly intended for a real man's consumption, it almost feels dirty perving on anything else but the style of image above

What a loving way to include a beta loser. Letting the loser lick your shoes while you get ready for your date is an excellent way to reward a loser's service to you. This will only deepen his devotion and adulation of you

Anyone who has followed my blog knows that this is exactly the sort of behaviour that is highly encouraged for beta losers. Your eyes should be firmly on women's shoes all day, every day when there is a woman in your presence. It doesn't matter what's on her feet, sneakers, flip flops, sandals, boots, heels...that's where you need to be starting. At all times. Not only will this make it glaringly obvious that you're a foot freak and a loser, but it will also solidify your own personal shame. No real man would even have the thought, let alone the arousal a loser gets. My wife wears heels and boots almost every day to work and comes home literally laughing about all the beta losers she caught obsessing over her feet and shoes. She frequently points out that the minute a woman catches you staring at her feet she knows exactly what you are, and "man" it isn't. So get practicing! Always stare downward. Make it blatantly obvious for women so that they can go home and laugh at you too.

I've had to wear a dress like this in my own home in front of my drunk wife, her drunk boyfriend and all of his friends. I served them drinks and refills that I bought, picked up and paid for all night while being called unflattering names. It was likely one of the more humiliating nights of my life. My cheeks were definitely red most of the time. That said I still did the weak beta thing at the end of the night and jerked off about it in the other room while my wife and her boyfriend had sex in our room. While that night likely stripped me of the last shred of dignity I had, I'd most definitely do it all over again the next time the opportunity arises. Being a total loser can be sooo much fun at times

Very early on my wife dumped her boyfriend's spunk filled condom into my hand and then to see if I would do it, she told me to run it through my hair like it was hair gel...while I was getting ready for work no less. As much as I felt full of shame in that moment...and all day really given my managers and most of my coworkers are female and I'm pretty sure they could smell it on me throughout the day...what it taught me is how weak I really am at times and how this is okay. The only person's opinion that mattered wasn't mine or my coworkers...it was my wife's. Even if that little task made her think of me even less like like a man. I believe her comment to me when I came home was "wow you're such a pathetic idiot. Who even does that?" The truth is I'd do it again for her amusement and disgust too ♥️♥️♥️

An enlightened beta loser would never spend time thinking if an opportunity like this presented itself. It's a losers job to lick all of that grime off the bottom of her shoes. She shouldn't have to do it or even ask. A loser knows that this is one of his primary jobs in life. To be her obedient shoe licker. So when she sticks her shoe out you should immediately thank her and drop to the floor and immediately show her how passionate you are about cleaning

Women can typically spot a loser all on their own the second one enters a room. Women are generally repulsed by losers and want nothing to do with them, much less have a conversation with one. An enlightened loser should always enter a room with his eyes cast downwards towards a woman's shoes or boots and never make direct eye contact. This will ensure she knows exactly what sort of loser you are, and most likely creeped out by you staring at her shoes. However in the end you will be showing her the utmost respect by not wasting even a moment's worth of her time

What happens when you put two sex and attention starved cuckold losers under the same roof? Well this is definitely one possibility... Where one finds themselves on the beta loser spectrum is only hindered by one's self honesty, one's openness to opportunity and experiences and one's willingness to try something new... How will you ever know if you don't give new things a try? Just because you're a loser doesn't mean there aren't new and rewarding experiences waiting for you out there. Put your well earned shame aside temporarily and try something new. You may find it becomes one of your greatest passions...

Lets play!

As I've said time and time again...being enlightened teaches you that yes, even she is out of your league and will mock you, reject you and talk trash about you to her friends. We all need to celebrate our inadequacies and appreciate ourselves for being at the very bottom of the bottom. It's not such a bad place to be when you learn to love yourself for being a loser. I personally wouldn't want to be any other way. Being pussy and even sissy pussy free is a wonderful life

You know you've reached the pinnacle of loser enlightenment when your mind, body and soul knows beyond a single doubt that you'd even disappoint a sissy crossdresser if given a chance...which to be fair they'd never even give you. Yes even crossdressers are off limits to beta losers, unless of course you're in the friendzone and helping to support her sex life with a real man that can give her everything she deserves sexually ♥️

A true beta loser already has this one mastered and down to a fine art and is proud of his shortcomings. No need to take the course at all! Though in theory you should always be working on making yourself go even faster. It helps to solidify your place in life and provides excellent mental reinforcement of how disappointing you actually are to both men and women ♥️

A beta loser's sole purpose in life is to ensure that his wife/gf/crush has all of her needs met so that she can spend more time either with her real boyfriend if she has one, or finding one if she doesn't. This means you devote all of your time to supporting her relationship or potential relationship with another man. A loser provides encouragement, emotional support, menial errand and task completion, as well as buying her hot clothes, lingerie, jewelry, stockings and heels for her to wear on her dates to maximize her potential for getting laid by the real man object of her desires (which will never be you to be clear). A loser does all of this thoughtfully and tirelessly without ever expecting acknowledgement or a reward from her. You do it because you cherish and love her even though you're just "a replaceable thing" to her....

An enlightened beta loser sees a photo like this and immediately recognizes all of the things that can go very wrong. For example, rather than just enjoying how gorgeous she is, and how hot her lingerie and heels are, a loser can't fight the perseverating thoughts of "is my penis big enough? Can I last long enough? Will she laugh at me? Will she mock me if I can't get the job done? What if I can't find her clit? What if I get too nervous?" And many more. Performance anxiety, nervousness and worry flood a beta loser's brain creating a truly fearful response to a situation like this. This is why the truly enlightened are keenly aware that pussy is not for them. Not now. Not ever. Pussy is exclusively the domain of real men who don't have a single one of these thoughts and know how to take her, ravish her and leave her wanting more and more. Losers are a disappointment. And yes, she would mock you and laugh at you and tell all her friends how horrible the experience was with you. This is why a smart loser will never even attempt to venture outside of the friend zone.

When a loser truly reaches enlightenment about who and what they are they transcend seeing a caption like this in only a sexual sense. For a true loser the statement above becomes a part of their core unshakeable belief system and imbedded fully in their DNA. A truly enlightened loser finds peace in this thought and even begins to become extremely appreciative and thankful towards all women for their ultimate denial and rejection on all levels. An enlightened loser knows that denial and rejection ARE their version of being treated kindly and being loved by women. Every woman that rejects you is simply doing you a massive favor by reminding you of your place in the natural hierarchy of life. Good losers will seek out rejection both consciously and unconsciously in order to be constantly reminded why this state of being is not just a sexual indulgence, but rather a permanent life truth

When you're an enlightened beta loser it's important to stop on images like this and really reflect on your place in life. It's important to remember that even two non-passable crossdressers in lingerie fondling each other are getting more sex than you are, and that even they are higher on the sexual food chain than you are. If given the time of day by either one of these gurls they'd be able to literally smell the loser oozing from your pores and reject you. Do not be intimidated by this. Rather the contrary. Get yourself off repeatedly to the thought of them laughing at you and rejecting you. Celebrate your place in life at the absolute bottom. Reward yourself with hours of solo sex for being able to identify what you are and for accepting what you are

I love to play with Karen, handling her dick and feel her tongue crossing mine…

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