Manifesting - Blog Posts
The Doll Project
- What is the Doll Project?
The Doll Project is a series of self improvement, similar to 75 soft or hard except it has no end date. Throughout the project we will work on 3 main factors that determine our life:
1) Mentality
2) Health
3) Looks
Throughout the project you are expected to journal everyday and post your progression. Weight trackers, assignment trackers, Bookkeeping charts, Reading logs, school planners and more will be used.
Throughout the process there are questions you’ll need to answer you can comment or write down wherever you please.
Mentality
Mental health is a big challenge for everyone regardless of how they live life, so on our journey we will try to make it easier as time passes,
Answer these questions and write down if it applies to you or not.
Do you suffer from Depression?
Do you or have you had an ED?
Do have thoughts about self harming
Do you feel nervous 24/7?
Does being around others scare you?
Do you feel as if nothing matters?
And now we will talk about your priorities
- Do you procrastinate?
- Do you listen to background noise?
- Do you feel incompetent nowadays?
- Do you get angry or sad easily?
- Do you struggle with focusing?
- Do people’s opinions affect you?
- Are you afraid of not fitting in?
After answering these I want you to write a paragraph on how these things correlate with each other and affect you and why do you let them hurt you. As we progress we will work on
1. Self acceptance
2. Accountability
3. Emotional maturity
4. Insecurities
5. People pleasing
6. Social anxiety
7. Procrastination
8. Overall recovery
Health
Now moving on, health. Health is THEE most important thing for human beings, it controls your mood, lifestyle and many other aspects of life; now answer these questions and write down if they apply to you.
Do you Sleep late often?
Do you have joint or back pain?
Do your bones pop as you move?
Do you get headaches regularly?
Is your eyesight impaired?
Do you get sick often?
Do you have stiff joints?
Do you regularly consume junk food?
Do you consume artificial foods?
Do you eat out often?
And now we will move onto accountability.
- Do you have a dietary plan?
- Do you have a workout schedule?
- Why don’t you have a sleep schedule?
- Do you stretch often?
- Do you meditate regularly?
- Why don’t you take walks?
- Why do you eat outside food?
- How often do you consume artificial foods?
Write a paragraph about your current health status and note down how you plan to improve, as a group we will work on
1. Sleeping & Waking up on time
2. Getting movement regularly
3. Creating a workout plan
4. Creating a diet plan
5. Tracking our water intake
6. Eye protection
7. Keeping our organs healthy
Looks
Probably the one everyone was looking forward to, looks! I know everyone thinks of the basics: Face & body, but I plan to make everyone work on everything including how you speak.
During the Doll Project we will find ways to beautify ourselves and heal our insecurities we will learn new manners become the person we envision ourselves as. Now, Answer these questions.
Do you feel happy with how you look?
Do you not like something about yourself?
What makes you insecure?
How do you perceive your figure?
Is your hair looking it’s best?
Do you look bloated 24/7?
What ruins your face the most?
What ruins your body the most?
Do you compare your looks to others?
Do you walk with your head down?
Do you like how your voice sounds?
Now we will get into deeper detail:
- Do you have a skincare routine?
- Do you prioritize your hygiene?
- What’s your hair regimen like?
- Do you use guasha or ice rollers?
- Do you know what makeup suits you?
- Do you like your fashion taste?
- Do you know how to dress for your body type?
- Do you know what your undertones are?
- How often do you practice self care?
- Why don’t you listen to subliminals?
Now that you’ve thought of all your flaws here’s a list of what we will work on together to upgrade our looks.
1. Hygiene
2. Skincare
3. Hair Growth & Health
4. Makeup skills
5. Finding our ideal scents
6. Discovering your taste in accessories
All though everything listed seems mediocre, TRUST ME! I will go in depth with each subject and I will also incorporate a list of hobbies, subjects to self study, and many more this challenge is about becoming the adult your future self craves to be.
It takes time to realize what you want
I don't know if you already have your life planned and figured out. But for the girlies who are a little unsure or clueless, you are on the right track. Even if you are decided, you are on the right track. Remember everyone is on their own path and journey. Yours is not sparkling and purple with unicorns. But it is blue with diamonds and pink butterflies. Who said that is any less spectacular?
Realizing my power as a master manifestor
Call me Ms. Manifest💕
Hello Everyone🤍
In case you need a little reminder. I hope you know, I and many are so proud of you. Wherever you are in your journey, I hope you know how meaningful it is that you took the first step. Whether it’s getting out of bed or changing jobs, the only direction you have left is up. You mean the world and so much more. Know and always embrace that. You are so precious, so important, and are walking on the right path. Hope you have the very best night and the very best day🩷🩷🩷.
the 3d did an oopsies
that’s what i think to myself every time the 3d shows me sum shit i don’t want. it’s just a mistake, and as the boss of my reality i would expect that mistake to be fixed. and ykw, it does. what i want, if it didn’t come to me in that moment, it’ll come to me as it should very soon. all bc the 3d had fixed its mistake for me
get what i’m saying? bc like what’s undesirable to u IS NOT supposed to happen. keep affirming and revising, and what u want IS going to come to u bc IT’S WHAT’S SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN.
applies to past circumstances too, if u don’t like it, fix it. honey ur power is limitless, u have the ability as the writer of ur own story to go back and erase what u don’t want. and the 3d IS going to show up conforming to the timeline YOU WRITE
(post by @ henry-fox-biggest-stan)
MOMENTS. LITERALLY MOMENTS LATER-
be so fr-
Y'all the way i asked for proof of manifestation actually working like in a not usual way, and 2 days later I got into a stranger things hyperfixation(i had binge watched all 4 seasons earlier last year and never ever interacted with any community)and started seeing posts about Will and Mike creating their own seperate reality.
Like this just reinforces how much of a God you are in your life. I straight up did NOT specify at ALL. I forgot thinking abt it, help tbf i was more like hey, wonder if something would turn up ;) LMAO it would be fun!
And guess what? It did. First time going down byler path and then reading So. Many. Posts about realities, subconscious manifesting into reality, everyone having their own realities and obv more and more quantum mechanics and theories( i am paraphrasing)
You don't even have to be specific. Your subconscious knows wtf you want. Crazy shit yo
Y'all the way i asked for proof of manifestation actually working like in a not usual way, and 2 days later I got into a stranger things hyperfixation(i had binge watched all 4 seasons earlier last year and never ever interacted with any community)and started seeing posts about Will and Mike creating their own seperate reality.
Like this just reinforces how much of a God you are in your life. I straight up did NOT specify at ALL. I forgot thinking abt it, help tbf i was more like hey, wonder if something would turn up ;) LMAO it would be fun!
And guess what? It did. First time going down byler path and then reading So. Many. Posts about realities, subconscious manifesting into reality, everyone having their own realities and obv more and more quantum mechanics and theories( i am paraphrasing)
You don't even have to be specific. Your subconscious knows wtf you want. Crazy shit yo
𝙳𝙾𝙽'𝚃 𝚄𝙽𝙳𝙴𝚁𝙴𝚂𝚃𝙸𝙼𝙰𝚃𝙴 𝚁𝙴𝚅𝙸𝚂𝙸𝙾𝙽 💭💭
What I like about loassumption, is that you don't have to dwell on potential outcomes as 'what ifs' or 'what could've been'. You can revise, you can just embody a new state of having fulfilled whatever it is you wanted in the past. If you apply, and quit complaining about the old story, you'll find this liberating.
1. The old story doesn't exist anymore, you're completely removed from it. If it comes back to you in thoughts, correct it with the new story.
2. Don't worry, you're not practicing perfection. It's alright if you fall out of the new state and back into the old story again; you can spiral. Please allow yourself the space to make mistakes, allow yourself to be human. As long as you pick yourself up again.
3. As long as you keep consistently coming back to the new story, and stick with it, you're doing well. Wake up thinking from it, sleep thinking from it. Even the gap between morning and night, you're coming back to the state.
4. Relish in that new state, the same way you've always dwelled in negative states in the past. Marinade in the fact that you have all it is that you want, and you've already manifested it — creation is done!
5. Persist, persist, persist. So long as you don't allow the old story to be dominant anymore!
You're to be fully saturated with the new story. Whatever the hell you want, you have it. And that includes new memories, too. Revision can affect any tense. You can use it to continue a new current story, or change the story of past events.
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• Don't like how that TV show ended? Revise it from the very first episode, to the details you didn't want. It ended exactly how you wanted it to end. It had the narrative you wanted it to have and everything about it is perfect now. Wow you're so powerful that you changed past events of a well known fictional series? Congratulations for using your god powerful abilities.
• You're anxious about the grades you'll get once the results come out? Revise your state; 'no I'm excited to get my grades because I know I did so well because I've always done well.' Of course you did well, of course you got distinctions. You always got distinctions. Your worst mark is an 80 % .
• You felt like your hair hasn't been healthy/ growing for years? Revise it. Your hair has always been healthy. You only have memories of people complimenting your hair.
• You're not comfortable in your body shape/appearance? Revise it. You were always meant to look the way that made you comfortable. Right now, you're so comfortable in your body and skin. You feel so content in your desired body, you look exactly the way that you feel about yourself now. Everything is perfect!
𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘊𝘢𝘯 𝘚𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘗𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘐𝘵 𝘕𝘰𝘸, 𝘋𝘢𝘪𝘭𝘺
At the end of the day, think from when you woke in the morning. Where did you wake up? How did you wake up looking like? Is there a desired person beside you? Did you wake up in your desired mansion? What is your daily routine of your desired lifestyle? Did you go to your desired job?
You don't have to be that detailed about your daily revisions. As long as everyday you're living the life you wanted. You can revise in any technique. Visualizing how the day went, journaling it — writing it down in your diary, voice recording how your day went etc.
Please utilize it, it's so perfect if you have an issue with constantly embodying states or if you may have shitty days! And you don't just revise by the end of the days, you can revise on the spot!!
For example, let's say you're out & about and you're driving/walking passed advertising boards. And you're living in the end as a fashion model!
Well, those boards you passed by had your face in them. You saw your face there and oh my god you're so famous because it's at least twelve boards you spotted your face in!
It can be really as simple as scrolling through your phone, and revising that every social platform you go to, you see people using your face as their avi.
Revision can be used in so many ways, don't waste it.
false gods ruling ur life
& the power of focus
hi everyone! today I wanna talk about how we create false gods in our lives, how that harms us, and the importance of directing our focus! this is a topic that has been on my mind recently as I think it is foundational to everyone who wants to work on their mindset, mental diet, and manifest better life outcomes.
table of contents
1. ways we create false gods in our lives
2. the harm of false idolisation and victimisation
3. the power of focus and attention
p.s: I do believe in god but I believe this post is still helpful from an loa/spiritual persective. so, with that being said, let's discuss!
✿ part 1: ways we create false gods in our lives
I'd say there two main ways we do that: making ourselves smaller and making others bigger.
when we make ourselves small, we victimise ourselves becoming paranoid about the world and thinking that others have this special advantage over you. I see this a lot in the loa community where some believe that others have some kinda special knowledge and power that they don't posses, when in reality it is just them being more disciplined, more consistent, and more trusting of loa.
it could also be about feeling insignificant in the face of your circumstances. like thinking that the 3d (physical reality) is what is ruling your life and not ur mind. also believing in conspiracies and secret society theories or ideas that are designed to instill fear within you, making u think that someone is out there to get you.
as for making others bigger in your mind, this happens a lot in celebrity and fan culture when you start seeing them as more than human. also when you idolise other people's attention (for example: analysing others behavours around you and ruminating over negative meanings of it). and also you pay wayyyy too much attention to other people’s lives like your peers and worrying too much about competition, not realising that there's no competition when you are your own life's creator.
essentially, when you start worrying/thinking too much about something or someone outside yourself, you have formed a false god in your mind.
✿ part 2: the harm of false idolisation and victimisation
so what's the harm in that? well first, it is such a waste of time and energy on something that won't serve you. also it will only create unnecessary worry and anxiety within your mind. you start to see yourself as powerless and your life as out of ur control. you might also engage in behaviours that cause you to lose yourself in the process, such as people pleasing.
your life will become vapid and shallow since your focus is shit that really doesn't matter. you will also start to associate this great amount of omnipotence and power with something other than god (if u believe in one), bankrupting you spiritually. like you are some insignificant string being pulled along by someone more powerful than you or god, or by circumstances that you believe you cannot change.
small tip: whenever you start to worry too much remind yourself that you are starting to create a false god in your mind. this works wonders for me to quickly disengage from unhelpful thoughts and remind myself of my power.
✿ part 3: the power of focus and attention
obviously, if you practice lao, you know that what you focus on is what you create. if you dwell in other people's lives or opinions, you're then not dwelling enough in the life you wanna create. focus is like a currency to what you wanna see play out in your life: what you pay attention to is what you prioritise and is what you will get more of.
in my case, when I started focusing on the life I wanna live, that's when opportunities, successes, etc. started flooding my life.
and that also applies to what you consume cos your mental diet is hugely shaped by your media diet. basically, what you consume (see, hear) and create (say, think) creates patterns of belief in your mind, materialising in reality.
ofc, you can always engage something outside of you that entertains you but don’t lose sight of your own live’s vision. really consider whether what your're watching is adding to your life somehow. make sure you’re using it, not it using you.
a big example of that is social media: you can either curate the perfect fyp to see posts that make you happy, remind you that your dream life is possible, serve as loa tips/reminders or you could consume content that is designed to suck you in and make you angry, anxious, or hopeless.
you decide.
another related term to focus that I wanna talk about is presence and how it is essentially the key to living a happy life.
when you focus on what truly matters, you find excitement and passion again, creating a life you're proud of. being present and focusing on yourself also allows you to practice intentional and mindful living. so you take your time to do the things you care about, you connect back to your spirituality, you realise that you’re more than a physical vessel, and you find yourself again beneath all of society's chatter.
this ultimately builds confidence and trust within you: you become an inspired creator instead of a powerless victim around the people who you look up to and also with 3d circumstances, which you now understand are just past relfections of old beliefs and are easily changeable.
and I think holding such mindset is beautiful :)
anddd, that's all! hope this was a helpful mindset shifting technique for y'all.
talk to you again soon <3
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There is a subliminal channel called High frequency Guru and their most recent video is termed, "I have no desires because I manifested them already (rampage)" and that's such a killer blanket affirmation i just had to hop websites to spread the message.
Huh because I don't particularly see more posts about studies here in loablr, take this message as a confirmation you can absolutely manifest grades, yes, even exams where u studied absolutely nothing. Literally nothing is impossible, you are God and you dictate your reality.
Keep affirming and saturating, you got this💯
Literally wtf is persist? Everything i ever wanted is already mine bruh?
Like the fuck am i supposed to be persisting on?
LETTING GO
i've talked about this a little bit in one of my other posts, but I realized this was a very important topic — especially for people like me out here, who might've had a hard time with this concept, and so I wanted to expand on it and give my own two cents.
the concept of "letting go" has been taught to most — if not all — of us by life long ago before any of us even found shifting. if you don't like a situation, "let it go". do your best, and "leave the rest and don't fixate on it". if someone you love doesn't respect you, "let them go". anything that doesn't serve you, "let it go". this is the one advice that got many of us through different situations. but everytime I ever came across a post saying "let go of your desire and watch it come to you", this quote always came to mind.
honestly, I couldn't for the love of God even think of letting go of shifting. I simply didn't want to. it felt like a betrayal to all the people I wanted to shift for, to myself, to my dreams — everything. I would think to myself "how do I not care if i'll shift or not? how do I not care about all these people in my dr I want to meet? I want to care. I have people I love, people I want to see, so how can I not care?", and it would make me so upset because I would see people talking about how they let go of it and it came to them. it almost felt like it was wrong to love, to care, to cherish this opportunity, and to want to be excited for it. I didn't want to "let go" and wanted to keep on holding forever. but then, I realized what the problem was. it wasn't my loving too much, caring too much, or anyone else's "letting go" of their desire to shift. the problem was my idea of what "letting go" means.
in any "normal" situation, "letting go" would mean "not caring" or "not giving your energy out where it isn't respected or celebrated". but. and a big but. when it comes to shifting, "letting go" has a totally different meaning.
• "letting go" in terms of shifting
to me, when it comes to shifting, "letting go" isn't about having an attitude of "if I shift, I shift. if I don't, I don't". while this can help some people, it's fairly hard for others to follow, because some of us WANT to shift and not even think about the "don'ts". so what letting go meant to me was being content where I am, because I knew that sooner or later — I will have what I want, because it is mine, and to stop trying to "make it happen" and simply just let it happen. because i'm a staunch believer that anything that happens, only happens for my own good — always, and if I found shifting, it was for a reason.
now, one could argue that both are the same, and I cooked nothing (lol). and yes, they might be. but. and a big but again. the difference is you CAN care about the people you want to shift for. you can be chalant, you can be obsessed with your dr, your s/o, anything — everything, and still shift. the point is being content. and you, yourself, have to give yourself the closure that whatever you want will be yours. because the feeling of being content always comes from within. don't force it, and take time to give yourself this closure. and care, and be excited, and be assured. you can be all of these things at the same time.
and if you're afraid of it being "not meant for you", then my dear friend, if it wasn't meant for you, I promise you, and I swear to God, it would've never found you. not in this lifetime, not in a million others. never. not EVER, okay? so rest assured that it is a hundred and ten percent meant for you. so, you don't have to grip it so hard you leave claw marks on it. it's right next to you, and that's how it'll stay. and if it "wasn't meant for you and still found you", it would've gone by now. it wouldn't have stayed. so "let go". be at peace. your dr awaits you, and you're going to make it.
and that's all. once again, if you don't understand anything, and want me to clarify, feel free to reach out.
Hey guys I’m back with another post on LOA. I just had the most random urge to type up a blog so here we are!! Today I’m going to be talking about why you should love the 3D
You heard me.
LOVE THE 3D.
When manifesting, it is so easy to get caught up in buzzwords and terminology like “ignore the 3D”, “focus on self”, or even “fuck the 3D” and while these phrases hold some form of validity, it can be super misleading and lead to confusion.
I know that when I was just starting and I heard all of these common sayings, I took it quite literally. I put my phone on do not disturb and really focused/lived inside my mind. This in itself isn’t a bad thing, but I went about it in a way where I completely shunned out my physical reality and operated under so much anxiety over how my 3D looked that I was really just in denial.
The moment I accepted my 3D for how it is instead of having so much resistance over it, I felt so free—enough to be able to properly focus on my desires and knowing that I have it now.
When I woke up and felt my heart pounding and my anxiety ramping up, I closed my eyes and told myself “I recognize that I feel this way and that’s okay. What can I do right now that will help me possibly feel better?”
The key here is the word possibly. You don’t need to know from the get go what works for you or not, the important part is that you tried to get yourself into a better, more stable position with your body.
For me, I tried journaling. I thought it was for me at first but I found that I just couldn’t commit to it, so I found another medium to explore. And once I really found activities that helped me engulf myself in joy, positivity and just an overall sense of being okay with myself, I was able to see my 3D in a better light. I didn’t need to fight it anymore.
This isn’t to say that you can’t ever be sad or feel your emotions. Those feelings are important too, but in the end, they are just that. Feelings. Finding yourself in a low state is okay, acknowledge it but don’t dwell on it. Always get back up again.
The 3D isn’t your enemy. It is a projection of your dominant beliefs, what you repeatedly tell yourself on a day to day basis. It didn’t take me realizing this in the first place to be able to be all sunshine and rainbows with my physical world again. No, I dealt with the heartbreak, the pain, all the “why me??” complaining I had to let out to get back to baseline. I just told myself to do my best anyway, to go out there and focus on what I really need to do to attempt to feel better about myself, even when I felt like an imposter, even when I felt like I was lying to myself.
I did it anyway.
I affirmed, I went to the gym, I blocked out sad/negative music, I focused on my studies, I complimented strangers, I did it anyway.
And now I’m at a point where I am completely in love with my 3D. It is so beautiful and wonderful and there’s so much detail to appreciate within it. The sun, the birds, even just knowing you have full control over how it all turns out is beautiful.
Love the 3D because it is ultimately you. You and the 3D are one. And when you love the 3D, you love yourself. Put down your resistance to it, embrace it for what it is right now because you can always change how it looks. Always.
the law and your subconscious are not biased
the law works the same for everyone, it is not a muscle that needs to be exercised. it's like gravity, it exists and is happening nonetheless.
if you feed your subconscious material, it has no choice other than to believe it. it cannot differentiate a joke from fact, just as it cannot differentiate true from false. it also cannot tell the difference between a good thing or a bad thing. why? because your subconscious is like a computer, it reads information and projects it into your reality. if your subconscious is told xyz is true, it will simply mirror your thoughts and manifest it. easy as that.
your subconscious has no morality or bias. it is a computer, all it does is as I said... mirror your thoughts into your reality.
the law has been implemented into your lives since you have had the cognitive ability to do so. the law is wrapped and intertwined into every single thing in your reality, you can't stop it, it is constant. this means, again... the law is not biased.
this is why you can literally be bawling your eyes out and still manifest your desire. if you feed your subconscious information, it's not going to worry whether you're crying or not. plus, since the law is always working... it's also not going to care if you're bawling your eyes out or not.
using this logic, your subconscious also doesn't care if this information is 'true' or not. it's blind, niave... it believes it regardless.
enjoy your reality,
rose.
Embrace Lazy Manifesting!
You are manifesting right now. It’s not just when you pick up a pen to script or try to visualize or even speak things into existence. It’s when you recognize who you are and then knowing that everything else you “do” works. Recognize you are the technique you are trying so hard to implement. Just exist and you’ll get what you want. Why? Because you are all that is and that is all that matters. All that is forms physical matter. Feeling like you need to crave out “time” to dedicate trying getting to a “place of knowing” is ridiculous because you either know you do have it or you know you don’t. Time isn’t real so stop listening to people who tell you that you need to use “time” as a tool to receive what you want.
Whether you spend five seconds or five months reminding yourself of who you are, it doesn’t matter because everything is now. Be lazy. Be nonchalant about manifesting. Get to the point where you almost forget to affirm all together because guess what?? You already have what you want anyways. Don’t sit here and make it something you have to be thinking about all “day” long when it’s already done. Why would you set a timer for an hour to remind yourself you have something when you already had it at the beginning of the hour? Now is all there is. You either know you who are as you read this now or you don’t and that is all it takes to “recieve” everything.
What effort are you gonna put in today that is going to ensure you have what you want? How many techniques away are you from your “dream life” becoming your everyday life? How long is it gonna take for you to finally get that thing??? It takes the same amount of “time” as you reading this f*cking sentence. Oh, so no “time” at all? Yes no “time” at all because there is no time at all. The now that you were in when you started reading this post and the “now” that “will” exist when you finish reading is the same. It’s your perspective of it that changes your world. I hope it’s sinking in now.
Time isn’t real and it won’t “help” create your desires or make them come faster to you. Your awareness does that. No matter how much effort-ing you try to put forth, who you are is what manifests.
you are the creator of your reality. you are the operant power, and everything you want is already yours right now. there’s no waiting, no delays, no resistance. what you desire is meant for you, and you deserve every bit of it. your desires are your birthright, and you don’t need to chase anything because it’s already yours. just let yourself have it, because you are worthy, deserving, and more than capable of manifesting the life you want. you are unstoppable. you are powerful beyond measure, and everything you want is already yours because you’ve claimed it. you are worthy of love, success, happiness, abundance, literally anything you desire. there are no limits to what you can have. you truly are limitless. everything is always working out for you, and it always has been. you are more than enough, and everything you want is already here. just believe it, claim it, and let yourself enjoy it!
° Reminder for those who need it °
- You aren't wasting time
- You already have everything that you want
- Nothing is serious
- You don't need to be productive, you need to be present
- You don't need anyone else's approval or opinion for your desires
- You are in control of what you experience
- There's no big or small things you want, they are all achievable and are equally easy to achieve
- You don't need to script anything on note applications or paper, and spend hours and days writing everything down, you can script mentally and say it's already done
- You don't need subnimals and meditation
- You don't need 20+ steps, methods and rules to shift
- Nobody is better than you & you are not better than anyone
- There is no "It's too unrealistic", we grow every second, our imagination is expanding like universe. The universe is imagination, everything is mental
- Have fun with shifting and manifesting
“If you have tiny bit of desire, no matter how small, Neville tells us to fulfill it mentally. Keep pruning each day. Remove rules. Remove consequences. Remove the outer-world when you imagine. Remove all ideas of what you “should do” or “have to do.” Do what you want.”
EDWARD ART
I've been seeing a lot of posts about people afraid that they might be manifesting wrong, but my question is; if you always tell yourself that you are indeed manifesting correctly when the thought that you aren't pops up, wouldn't that be enough to manifest correctly? even if you were by chance manifesting/doing something "wrong"?
Yes!! I used to have a post about this (not sure if i do anymore cause im reorganizing/updating my account) but yes.
It’s the law of assumption, the only rule is that that which you assume to be true (whether by saturating, genuinely believing, embodying the version of you that has it) is true.
There’s loads of different techniques to help you get there but if you keep telling yourself it’s not working, it’s not going to- because it’s literally your assumption that it won’t!! and that’s the law 😭!!
There is no manifesting wrong. There is only you getting in your own way and manifesting a different reality of you not having your desire because you tell yourself you can’t/don’t have it or you’re not doing it right.
telling yourself you have it and saying that’s enough, is enough.
Stay Consistent or Face the Consequences
Right, yes, mean title. But the truth is the law is always working perfectly. So to keep you in check here’s my lil story time of me falling off and facing the consequences (and how i’ve picked myself back up).
I have been talking to my SP for months. Now I won’t lie SP and I have a long history from before I knew the law, and I have greatly had to work on mental arguments etc as well as negative expectations. After 2-3 months we began talking properly, not just as friends, but still taking it slow. Two weeks ago he finally verbalised how he felt about me and it was AMAZING. But over the course of the last 3 months I have also been PARANOID. going through his followers/following, feeling insecure, “confronting” him about it all while also expecting him to react negatively.
And how do you think that went? negatively. And the more I allowed myself to get up all in the 3D, get mad etc, the law was working and he reflected my behaviours, he now did start interacting with the girls i was scared of. Finally a bomb dropped that in the last couple days he had started talking to another girl, one of the ones i kept looking up in my own time.
Of course I spiralled, and of course he was straight up mean, because all of this, were fears and paranoia that I was letting run rampant. The man who wants me and wants to do everything with me was gone because i fed and fed and fed myself this horrible version of him. So what else could the law do? my affirmations of him loving me did not outweigh the sheer amount of fear and overthinking i did about him.
It worked well enough that he told me he really did mean how he felt about me, yet that wasn’t stopping him from talking to another girl.
The simple fact is it’s all there. The reason he started acting different, the reason things didn’t go right or fast or blah blah, and guess what the reason was? Ding ding ding…. me. The constant fear about if he really liked me, about these other girls. And it hurt so bad - and worst of all I ruined my favourite day, valentine’s day!!
After spiralling, crying, complaining to all my friends (ughhh), swearing off of him… I did have to realise that it wasn’t his fault. He does love me, but the law is the law. I gave him no choice on how to act, i let my fears run rampant in my daily life every single day. I let myself go from being priority to being an insecure mess who didn’t feel good enough.
This story has a good end though, because the law is the law. Picking myself up and dusting myself off, at least i now have a very clear area to target with my affirmations and my story with him. Simply revise the situation, be true to how much he loves me, how all he does is tell this other girl how much he loves me ;). It really is that simple (I have manifested a LOT, I promise it really is).
Hold that mental diet up because you deserve to thrive, not be a side dish. Manifestation is easy, it’s up to you to hold yourself accountable.
PSA: do not now be terrified of every little negative thought you have, those don’t matter. I let my insecurities become my new story, 90% of my thoughts when i thought about us. You’re doing fine, just do right by yourself. <3
Brazen Impudence Examples
Before even learning about the term Brazen Impudence, I used it to manifest my university acceptance (a month after having been rejected) by just refusing to let the 3D truly affect my mind. I persisted mentally in how excited i was to move to my chosen university, how much i’d enjoy the classes, how annoying early morning lectures would be etc all while in the 3D i was travelling to the opposite side of the country to find housing for my backup university in a degree i did not want to do.
No matter how much i nodded and planned along with my mom to what the 3D showed me, internally i refused to accept it.
People often ask but how do you do it? What does a mental diet look like?
so here are some examples to help:
*message to SP is left on delivered/seen* I am unaffected and don’t care, i literally live in the reality where SP is devoted to me and texts me all day so since this doesn’t align with that, it’s not for me.
*Bank account isn’t at desired balance* I know i have *desired amount* // i love having *desired amount* in the bank, i’d say it’s crazy how my bank account keeps doubling but it really is just normal for me now.
*desired house was bought by someone else/ isn’t on sale* I love my home, and how quickly it became mine. Everything always works out for me.
and so on…
being genuinely unaffected by unfavourable circumstances was not something i was immediately capable of, but just like with everything else as long as you discipline yourself and persist in this attitude it will work out.
Saph
i LOVE Sonja Frink so much, she really does no bullshit teaching <3
If you are struggling with manifestation and how it truly works, go watch this video. This is a GAME CHANGER!
She puts emphasis on this, what ever you truly believe to be true is completely true no matter what (that is with every single thoughts ever).
Here are many commus example:
Subliminals truly works if you believe that it works and vice versa
Tarot card reading truly work and can even take power over you if you believe it can take power over. But if you believe that it doesn’t do shit then it doesn’t do shit.
If you don’t have it you’ll have better! Babe please. This is not fucking true if you want this SP then believe that no matter fucking what, you have him. Please acknowledge that whenever you say things like that it becomes true.
She is also saying that your emotion (energy in motion) is a manifestation, NOT THE CAUSE OF A MANIFESTATION. This one really opened my eyes so when you feel a certain type of way, I say to myself this feeling/ emotion is a manifestation from a thought that I was thinking in the past, so you can dismiss because I chose to believe something that I want to believe. And POUFFF that negative feeling gets the fuck away.
Your inner dialogue same things as your thoughts are the ONE AND ONLY REASON WHY YOU ARE WHERE YOU ARE.
LET ME REPEAT YOUR THOUGHTS, YOU INNER DIALOGUES ARE THE ONE AND ONLY REASON WHY YOU ARE WHERE YOU ARE!!!!!
Stop listening to others that are not telling you this main belief please.
Anyways love each one of you take care beautiful princesses🎀
hi loves, i haven’t been super active lately but here are some things i have manifested so far in 2024:
- the sony headphones (mentioned in another post) (for free)
- my ping to stop spiking in my videogames
- fiction books to get me out of a reading slump (for free)
- new cool friends outside my friend group
- an old SP to contact me (have him blocked everywhere so it was amusing to see him find a way to contact me)
- new clothes that my mom paid for
- going back to uni asap (4 days) after an extreme emergency
- a brand new laptop (for free)
- getting 50 euros off of my groceries (this was really fun)
- also specifically the iced coffee sachets i wanted being on sale
- exceptional uni work/performance (with low effort)
- my friend buying me cookies for no reason
- sanrio stuff becoming available in my city
- extra monthly income that i don’t have to work for, literally just given to me
- my neighbour’s cat being playful with me (used to always ignore me LITERALLY WOULD AVOID EYE CONTACT W ME)
- my own cat becoming more social & wanting affection
- moving to a bigger room in my apartment & my roommates moving out
- double bed both in my apartment and at my parents house
and so on…
i have highlighted some of the ones i think people might be most interested in.
You deserve this too bubba.
Love,
Saph
The 3D Feedback Loop
when we were young we experienced the work around us and those experiences created beliefs which allowed our mind to start manifesting the world around us (in my understanding of the law)
due to this we have created a loop wherein the 3D “feeds” our beliefs, and our beliefs are reflected by the 3D. Only one part of this feedback loop however is law.
Now since we experience the 3d with our senses we take everything that happens as a self reaffirming belief. if you were manifesting 50k you no longer need to affirm for 50k because seeing it in your 3D reaffirms that it is already yours as a fact.
This does not mean that you have to accept anything in the 3D, because your 3D is a reflection of your inner world. You no longer have to take the 3D as evidence or proof of previous belief systems that no longer serve you, because it can change in an instant when you decide and persist in what you want to experience instead.
This is a bit of a wacky post but i was just thinking about this recently.
Love,
Saph
Persistence occurs whether it’s in your desire or not.
You are always manifesting and 99% of it is subconscious (not a scientific figure, just to help you get the gist of it).
When you think of your desire there are two outcomes, you having it or you not having it.
Your pre-existing beliefs may make you think that it is “impossible” for you and so you consciously and subconsciously persist in the outcome that you don’t have it and that manifests.
When you choose to persist in the outcome that you have it and reject thoughts that say otherwise, you starve the old belief and create a new one where in this outcome is inevitable. As a result you have it!
It sounds simple because it is simple.
It may not feel easy at first due to your old beliefs, but it is always doable, you only ever “fail” by giving up and persisting in the old story again.
Love,
Saph
My University Success Story
Hi lovelies,
Here is my university success story which isn’t just “i manifested it and i got in” (which is still super great btw but i think this success story is a good reminder of how irrelevant the 3D and logic is). I initially got rejected!
Well my university system is different so i didn’t get rejected but rather i performed so badly that i got an extremely high ranking number (700+ high). (lowest ranking numbers get in)
At the time my manifestation journey was um.. not great. I was especially dealing with an sp manifestation that i kept spiraling over and over and i basically was losing all hope in my manifestations in general. (i kept successfully manifesting contact and then driving myself crazy) I was SO absorbed in the 3D and let it control everything. i treated the 3d as my only validation, i wavered constantly, i went in and out of believing despite the fact that i had consciously manifested SO MANY THINGS, i am talking an ipad pro 4th gen and apple pen, my iphone 13 green (the one from my ‘don’t settle’ post.) Like i was making everything SO difficult for myself.
When i got rejected from this university, i was honestly a little gobsmacked and just done with everything. I was preparing my stuff for my back up uni that i was dreading to go to, i was doing room viewings & everything. I was so done with it i just decided i was going to get into my uni because i internally REFUSED to go to my back up uni or not go to uni at all. At the time i didn’t know manifestation was as could be as easy as deciding. But by deciding and refusing to budge internally, as well as having one of the uni’s lecture hall (that i actually have every single one of my lectures in now!) pictured on my vision board, the 3D moved for me what it had to move to reflect my internal shift. And two weeks later, about a month after rejecting me, they accepted me.
Everyone was surprised because with my ranking there was absolutely 0 reason for me to be accepted, even if other students dropped out for their other options. The course is too small and selective for my ranking number to ever come close to letting me fill a spot. I performed badly on my mocks and even worse on my final exams - the predicted grades they had rejected me with were significantly higher. I have no connections to the university, nothing. Despite every logical reason for me not to get into my course - including literally being rejected - here i am. I am currently at the start of my second semester at the uni :)
With this success story i wish to remind you how logic and the 3D/ circumstances have no part in manifestation. I internally refused to accept the outcome the 3D was showing me and stayed faithful to my outcome - i didn’t even know this was manifesting at the time, i was just being stubborn - and as a result it manifested.
My 3D kept showing me a different outcome, every weekend i was visiting rooms on the other side of the country for my back up uni choice, my mom was constantly talking to me about the back up university, other people were constantly bringing it up - and still here i am.
You don’t need to know why and how it is going to work out, just stay faithful to your outcome. In some cases it’ll come naturally, some manifestations just come out of thin air like this one.
I believe in you, now choose to believe in yourself too.
Choose to remain disciplined and faithful to yourself.
Love,
Saph
So You Reacted, Now What?
You find yourself in a position where you reacted to the 3D or you spiralled etc, now what? Well it is a lot simpler than it seems. You pick yourself up and keep going. (In some cases you may find it important to take a step back and reduce any overexertion you were doing in regard to manifestation that may have been emotionally exhausting you.)
Imagine you are taking part in a marathon, you fall over - oh no! Does this mean you’ve failed? no. You aren’t eliminated. You don’t just give up. You pick yourself up, take a deep breath, acknowledge what happened and simply move on. The fact you fell over earlier no longer matters to you now, it is not going to cause the marathon to disappear or you to fall over again. You don’t have to overthink the fall or beat yourself up over the fact you fell, you simply forgive yourself, take a deep breath and keep going till you reach your goal.
You’re in control, all is well. Nothing can stop you getting your manifestation except you deciding you either 1. don’t want it or 2. can’t get it. So try not to allow anything to make you feel like anyone/anything can stop it. If you react or spiral or waiver, it’s okay carry on, but try not to make a habit out of it yk?
Love,
Saph
I've seen ppl say that it's okay to know that your 3d will conform soon. But ppl always say to affirm that the 3d has conformed INSTANTLY (like, the SECOND you affirmed/decided to have something) because doing the former could unknowingly put you in a state of WAITING for your 3d to conform, & constantly pushing your manifestation into the future. BUT THEN AGAIN, ppl will say that "the 3d always gives you results INSTANTLY, BUT that the results aren't visible to our eyes yet because they're "still within the realm of the unseen" (which i think just means imagination/the 4d, the thoughts of other ppl, etc).
So my question is: WHICH IS IT THEN?
Because I KNOW, instant manifestation is possible, 'cause you can materialize $1billion in your bank account or revise a drastic appearance change in seconds, but I just don't understand what exactly these ppl mean by "you're results are always instant. you just can't see them in your 3d right now".
(idk, maybe I need to stop reading just EVERY & ALL blogs 'cause even though most of the info is the same, maybe I'm just getting confused by how differently everyone explains it😭)
hi lovely!
I was thinking of making a post like this so i am very glad you asked :)
firstly let’s talk about the instantaneous aspect:
The difference is internally vs externally. Internally is instantaneous, and externally (3d) can be instantaneous but people tend to be too busy looking for the desire and thereby internalising not having it. Thus 3D also will reflect not having it. The 3D will instantly start bringing it you though.
If you order a package from (some place far away) and cannot see the package in your hands rn you don’t start saying ‘it isn’t mine’, you know it is yours and on its way to you. Whether you focus on it being yours, or it being on the way to you doesn’t matter, both ways you know it is yours.
Essentially as soon as you decide you have your desire, or start affirming for it, you have your desire internally. Since the 3D is a reflection of your internal world, your dominant thoughts / assumptions, it instantly starts to manifest physically, bringing your desire - understand that your desire can come about in all kinds of ways (the unfolding) . Mountains will move if they need to for. Honestly as soon as you internalise the decision that you manifest instantly - you can. But if the way you ‘try’ to manifest instantly is by saying your affirmation then looking everywhere in your 3D for it, you aren’t understanding manifestation. it’ll come to you - literally in seconds - but looking for it is what is gonna make it not manifest, because looking for it is just reaffirming the dominant thought / state or identity of you not having it. Like seriously just let it come to you, it will.
do not allow the 3d to tell you what you can and cannot have, since it is only a mirror of you.
Now this is what feeds into the idea of ‘waiting reaffirming you don’t have it’
Yes, if you sit around waiting, staring at your phone for the text from your sp and only thinking about how it isn’t there - you are reaffirming you don’t have it. I personally do not believe this is the same thing as using “i will receive” (or just future tense affirmations) as long as you claim you have it internally, or you are saturating your mind with the knowing it is becoming yours. (this really depends on if you’re more of a states / feeler person or robotic affirmations person) at the end of the day in both scenarios the only thing preventing you from not manifesting the outcome you want (you receiving your desire) is telling yourself it’s not / never will be yours. Whether that is because you don’t see it right now or because of how you value(d) yourself in relation to your desire whatever.
So quick answer: I will be/have vs i am/have both work unless you’re gonna overcomplicate it in your mind and say they don’t. I think there are benefits to saying *desire* manifested instantly etc as your affirmation because it’ll saturate your brain with the idea that the 3D conforms instantly which is good :)
This being said, don’t demonize coaches who give example affirmations etc following a certain method/ affirmation type. Coaches / loass content creators typically are only gonna give you advice based on what worked for them, and usually if they find something that works they’ll stick with it yk, so their advice is biased to their success. And that is FINE but other methods / affirmations still work :)
Since LoAss is so broad and works for people in so many different ways (states, affirmations, visualisation, scripting) some loa coaches / cc are going to give cookie cutter routines etc to follow based on their success. As a result you may find clashing advice to follow when it gets down to specifics of different coaches’ methods. This does NOT mean that one does work and one doesn’t, they BOTH work. Just take a step back and bring it back to the basics. Avoid overconsumption.
What works?
- saturating your mind either with a state of being/ identity or affirmations
- Knowing you validate the 3D, it does not validate you
What is the only must?
- Persistance
So to summarise + a bit more
internal manifestation is instant, 3D will reflect that unless you start waivering / returning to previous dominant thought / state of being / identity that you don’t have your desire. As soon as you make the decision the you have your desire, 3D reality is working on bringing it to you so that it can reflect you correctly, until your desire is in your hands you do NOT take anything in the 3D as a sign of you not having it.
You don’t have to affirm that your desire manifests instantly - just saying you have it or are getting it doesn’t push it away - but it certainly won’t hurt :)
Try not to get too caught up on the specifics on how 10 different coaches manifest, most people don’t follow the exact same way of doing it, the thing that remains the same is some type of internal saturation. Manifestation is broad and there are so many methods to help you saturate your mind so just cause person A likes affirming “i love my blue porsche”, person B likes affirming “i am receiving a blue porsche 911 cayenne” and person C hates affirming but enjoys visualising themselves driving the porsche and embodying the feeling of having it, doesn’t mean any of them are doing it wrong, it just means they all found what works for them.
Not to sound like every manifestation blog ever but there comes a time when it’s time to stop reading/overconsuming and to start just applying. The world is your oyster as long as you allow yourself to believe it to be true.
I hope this helped answer your question and if it didn’t (embarrassing) please feel free to message me / clarify in a new ask and i will correct myself haha.
Love,
Saph