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For beta losers, there is nothing more intimate and sexual than to be on the floor with their nose buried in a woman's shoe. While this likely happens more often when you're alone, and have stolen the shoe or purchased it from the hot bratty woman you found online that will never meet you and would always quite openly mock you and reject you, it does not reduce the overwhelming rush and flood of emotion and lust this moment brings a beta. The first caress. The first deep inhale. The first lick. The taste of the dirt on the soles as you greedily and shamelessly lick away...This is THE pinnacle of beta sex and should be fully embraced by all betas everywhere. Her pussy is for him and she'd be disgusted if she knew what you were doing with her shoe...but alas a beta openly accepts that her shoe and its heavenly scent will always be just perfect and right

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Simple and yet very true. A loser does not require nudity or scantily clad pictures of women in order to fuck his hand pussy raw. Images such as this one are more than enough to get a loser's brain spinning and spiraling out of control. In fact I would argue that most losers consume more normal friendzone safe content such as social media content and get themselves off than pure porn content from places like Tumblr. When you're pussy free and know that you don't deserve nudity, and that you don't deserve the hot lingerie that is so clearly intended for a real man's consumption, it almost feels dirty perving on anything else but the style of image above

What a loving way to include a beta loser. Letting the loser lick your shoes while you get ready for your date is an excellent way to reward a loser's service to you. This will only deepen his devotion and adulation of you

Anyone who has followed my blog knows that this is exactly the sort of behaviour that is highly encouraged for beta losers. Your eyes should be firmly on women's shoes all day, every day when there is a woman in your presence. It doesn't matter what's on her feet, sneakers, flip flops, sandals, boots, heels...that's where you need to be starting. At all times. Not only will this make it glaringly obvious that you're a foot freak and a loser, but it will also solidify your own personal shame. No real man would even have the thought, let alone the arousal a loser gets. My wife wears heels and boots almost every day to work and comes home literally laughing about all the beta losers she caught obsessing over her feet and shoes. She frequently points out that the minute a woman catches you staring at her feet she knows exactly what you are, and "man" it isn't. So get practicing! Always stare downward. Make it blatantly obvious for women so that they can go home and laugh at you too.

I've had to wear a dress like this in my own home in front of my drunk wife, her drunk boyfriend and all of his friends. I served them drinks and refills that I bought, picked up and paid for all night while being called unflattering names. It was likely one of the more humiliating nights of my life. My cheeks were definitely red most of the time. That said I still did the weak beta thing at the end of the night and jerked off about it in the other room while my wife and her boyfriend had sex in our room. While that night likely stripped me of the last shred of dignity I had, I'd most definitely do it all over again the next time the opportunity arises. Being a total loser can be sooo much fun at times

Very early on my wife dumped her boyfriend's spunk filled condom into my hand and then to see if I would do it, she told me to run it through my hair like it was hair gel...while I was getting ready for work no less. As much as I felt full of shame in that moment...and all day really given my managers and most of my coworkers are female and I'm pretty sure they could smell it on me throughout the day...what it taught me is how weak I really am at times and how this is okay. The only person's opinion that mattered wasn't mine or my coworkers...it was my wife's. Even if that little task made her think of me even less like like a man. I believe her comment to me when I came home was "wow you're such a pathetic idiot. Who even does that?" The truth is I'd do it again for her amusement and disgust too ♥️♥️♥️

An enlightened beta loser would never spend time thinking if an opportunity like this presented itself. It's a losers job to lick all of that grime off the bottom of her shoes. She shouldn't have to do it or even ask. A loser knows that this is one of his primary jobs in life. To be her obedient shoe licker. So when she sticks her shoe out you should immediately thank her and drop to the floor and immediately show her how passionate you are about cleaning

Women can typically spot a loser all on their own the second one enters a room. Women are generally repulsed by losers and want nothing to do with them, much less have a conversation with one. An enlightened loser should always enter a room with his eyes cast downwards towards a woman's shoes or boots and never make direct eye contact. This will ensure she knows exactly what sort of loser you are, and most likely creeped out by you staring at her shoes. However in the end you will be showing her the utmost respect by not wasting even a moment's worth of her time

What happens when you put two sex and attention starved cuckold losers under the same roof? Well this is definitely one possibility... Where one finds themselves on the beta loser spectrum is only hindered by one's self honesty, one's openness to opportunity and experiences and one's willingness to try something new... How will you ever know if you don't give new things a try? Just because you're a loser doesn't mean there aren't new and rewarding experiences waiting for you out there. Put your well earned shame aside temporarily and try something new. You may find it becomes one of your greatest passions...

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As I've said time and time again...being enlightened teaches you that yes, even she is out of your league and will mock you, reject you and talk trash about you to her friends. We all need to celebrate our inadequacies and appreciate ourselves for being at the very bottom of the bottom. It's not such a bad place to be when you learn to love yourself for being a loser. I personally wouldn't want to be any other way. Being pussy and even sissy pussy free is a wonderful life

You know you've reached the pinnacle of loser enlightenment when your mind, body and soul knows beyond a single doubt that you'd even disappoint a sissy crossdresser if given a chance...which to be fair they'd never even give you. Yes even crossdressers are off limits to beta losers, unless of course you're in the friendzone and helping to support her sex life with a real man that can give her everything she deserves sexually ♥️

A true beta loser already has this one mastered and down to a fine art and is proud of his shortcomings. No need to take the course at all! Though in theory you should always be working on making yourself go even faster. It helps to solidify your place in life and provides excellent mental reinforcement of how disappointing you actually are to both men and women ♥️

A beta loser's sole purpose in life is to ensure that his wife/gf/crush has all of her needs met so that she can spend more time either with her real boyfriend if she has one, or finding one if she doesn't. This means you devote all of your time to supporting her relationship or potential relationship with another man. A loser provides encouragement, emotional support, menial errand and task completion, as well as buying her hot clothes, lingerie, jewelry, stockings and heels for her to wear on her dates to maximize her potential for getting laid by the real man object of her desires (which will never be you to be clear). A loser does all of this thoughtfully and tirelessly without ever expecting acknowledgement or a reward from her. You do it because you cherish and love her even though you're just "a replaceable thing" to her....

An enlightened beta loser sees a photo like this and immediately recognizes all of the things that can go very wrong. For example, rather than just enjoying how gorgeous she is, and how hot her lingerie and heels are, a loser can't fight the perseverating thoughts of "is my penis big enough? Can I last long enough? Will she laugh at me? Will she mock me if I can't get the job done? What if I can't find her clit? What if I get too nervous?" And many more. Performance anxiety, nervousness and worry flood a beta loser's brain creating a truly fearful response to a situation like this. This is why the truly enlightened are keenly aware that pussy is not for them. Not now. Not ever. Pussy is exclusively the domain of real men who don't have a single one of these thoughts and know how to take her, ravish her and leave her wanting more and more. Losers are a disappointment. And yes, she would mock you and laugh at you and tell all her friends how horrible the experience was with you. This is why a smart loser will never even attempt to venture outside of the friend zone.

When a loser truly reaches enlightenment about who and what they are they transcend seeing a caption like this in only a sexual sense. For a true loser the statement above becomes a part of their core unshakeable belief system and imbedded fully in their DNA. A truly enlightened loser finds peace in this thought and even begins to become extremely appreciative and thankful towards all women for their ultimate denial and rejection on all levels. An enlightened loser knows that denial and rejection ARE their version of being treated kindly and being loved by women. Every woman that rejects you is simply doing you a massive favor by reminding you of your place in the natural hierarchy of life. Good losers will seek out rejection both consciously and unconsciously in order to be constantly reminded why this state of being is not just a sexual indulgence, but rather a permanent life truth

When you're an enlightened beta loser it's important to stop on images like this and really reflect on your place in life. It's important to remember that even two non-passable crossdressers in lingerie fondling each other are getting more sex than you are, and that even they are higher on the sexual food chain than you are. If given the time of day by either one of these gurls they'd be able to literally smell the loser oozing from your pores and reject you. Do not be intimidated by this. Rather the contrary. Get yourself off repeatedly to the thought of them laughing at you and rejecting you. Celebrate your place in life at the absolute bottom. Reward yourself with hours of solo sex for being able to identify what you are and for accepting what you are

I love to play with Karen, handling her dick and feel her tongue crossing mine…

Obviously, if you like it and reblog it again I’m glad 😘

An enlightened beta loser would be eternally grateful if a woman offered him her shoes. While it is more likely that you'll need to purchase worn shoes online or steal them from a friend's closet, sex with a shoe is just as intimate if not more intimate and loving than sex with pussy. A loser knows that real pussy is off the table forever. A loser has way too much anxiety over women and pussy and deep down knows he'll remain a disappointment to women for life, never being able to satisfy. Sex with a woman's shoe erases all of that performance anxiety, stress and chronic failures with women. Sex with her well worn shoes is a beautiful experience and stirs up powerful emotions within the beta loser brain. The scent of her shoes as you pump away IS what love smells like and feels like. You'll never be able to disappoint her well worn shoes. They'll always be there to take your feeble 5 seconds of sex, and they don't care that your dicklette is too small. Shoes make for the perfect replacement girlfriend ♥️

When you're a beta loser does it really matter what she's done in these and what she's stepped in? All that matters is that you give 100% of your time and effort to restore them to as new looking as possible, which will involve heavy usage of your tongue. That you even have this opportunity...whether she told you to do it or you stole them, doesn't matter. Being beta means finding opportunities to be useful to women without needing to pester them and without them needing to tell you to do it. Your reward comes from knowing you do have a purpose, that you are useful and that you went over and above to do an amazing job even though she likely won't even notice or give it a second thought

Nothing hotter than a couple of pussy free sissy failmales get together to make out with each other while their wives (and boyfriends) laugh and mock them openly...♥️

Take my advice... Premature ejaculators become cuckolds very quickly...no pun intended. But rest assured your life as a cuckold will be much better then the fake life you're stressing over and living now if you're still trying to have sex with your wife/gf/crush... The fears and jealousy might feel real...but it'll actually set you free when she commits to someone else and you'll find it intoxicating

When you're an enlightened beta this is how it's assumed and done. Every time. It's not about what's in it for you...it's about taking ownership and pride over your lot in life ♥️

Honestly unless my wife literally had just walked in from being out somewhere, this level of dust and dirt on her shoes would be a massive offense and I'd be paying dearly for it in every way imaginable. I can't even imagine what insult to beta pride this would be. The shoes don't clean themselves and you should be horrified if you let her leave the house with them looking like this regardless of whether she asked you to clean them or not. It's not her job to have to "tell you" everything. Some things you should just "get" and make sure they're done. Every single time. Not just some of the time or only when you're thinking of your dicklette. It's called beta pride. Demonstrate it at all times

Nobody ever said the life of a beta loser was always going to be easy. It will inevitably come with its own moments where the task at hand starts to get a little mucky. While a part of you may think that this is the moment to resist, I'd encourage you to remember your training. This is where you double down on the task at hand and push yourself through giving your maximal efforts along the way. It's moments like these that really allow the true beta inside to emerge and shine. She's not being cruel to you. In fact she's displaying an uncharacteristic amount of caring towards you by assisting you to become your best

Be honest... You don't even care what she looks like or what she's wearing. You saw the sole the way you were supposed to and your eyes were fixated and the impact was already made. You're now thinking about licking it clean for her and hoping you might get the chance to sniff it...that is beta sex my friends. All day every day. Her shoes have definitely replaced your need for pussy. If so, congratulations you've finally arrived

I really don't know if there could be anything better than licking the shoes of a strong black woman who literally hates you while a strong black man wines, dines and fucks your crush into oblivion... Those two things happening simultaneously in a loser's life would be earth shattering and mind blowing

The number of times my wife or her friend Michelle have done this to me prior to going out for the night is uncountable. They think it's a mixture of funny, disgusting and pathetic that I'd let them treat me this way. I however would call it beta heaven...mmmm

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I very highly encourage all beta losers to purchase at least one ultra feminine outfit either off Amazon or from a thrift shop or even a real store. While you may be hesitant or resistant to this idea or try to tell yourself it's 'not your thing'.... Just try it. Then put it on. It's remarkably freeing and will feel way better than you ever thought it could... Before long I'd even be willing to bet you that you'll be frustrated when life is busy and you CAN'T dress up and play with yourself

My wife and her bf bought me something very similar to this because they thought it would be hilarious to parade the "loser fag" around the room in front of their friends. Wearing it in front of them has been extremely humiliating, however I will say that you get used to it surprisingly quickly. I personally love how it feels despite everyone's laughter when I'm told to wear it. I even have the blond wig to go with it and the shaved legs, chest and arms.... Ahhhh just out here in the real world living my best loser life ❤️

Probably not. Lol

12/15. I knew I was absolutely a loser but clearly I've made great progress down that rabbit hole the last few years! Yay me!!

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There is much truth to this. As a beta loser who lives cuckolding from a reality based perspective rather than a fantasy based perspective, I can identify with these statements about the likely changes that will occur in your relationship over time. Maybe this isn't entirely true in some relationships but it sure has been to a large degree in my own. Particularly the part where he now calls the shots for both my wife and I. Whatever he wants, he gets. Period. Be careful what you wish for as they say.

This is for you, cuckold

There is so much that is misunderstood about becoming a cuckold. Many husbands and boyfriends have a fantasy about their women having sex with another man - one who is more endowed, more masculine, and more assertive. But there is much more to cuckolding when it crosses from fantasy to reality. 

Here is what you need to consider:

Sex between me and your wife is a very intimate act. If you think you can remove emotions from it, you’re deluding yourself. Your wife will have feelings for me, and I will have feelings for her.

You do not get to control the sex. That is between me and your wife or girlfriend. If we want to kiss (and we do), we will kiss; once you consent to me making love to your wife, it is out of your hands.

She will look at you and your relationship differently after she is with me. She will know and intimacy from another point of view, and she will forever compare you to me (sorry, friend, but you will likely come up short).

Your wife or girlfriend will want to continue to see me. You will be jealous. Are you going to deprive her? She will resent you.

Cuckolding is not only between me and your wife; it is also between me and you. I cannot speak for all in my situation, but I derive great pleasure from dominating you through your wife. I know you do too.

Still want me to have sex with your cute wife? Great. I look forward to a meaningful relationship with you both.