Self Improvement - Blog Posts

And that 'Champion' is ME.

You can be one, too. Work for it and make it HAPPEN.

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QUIT THESE THINGS, PLEASE!!!

credits to the owner ♡ (idk who the owner is lmao, sry).

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While they dream, you work and make yours come true~ ♡

Because, a wealthy and luxurious life is more important than that tequila to be sippin' at the party with them.

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Future and Future only... ♡

My dream is mine to live.

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Feminism, personal growth, self love, health, feminine divinity, positivity, life goals, dreams, girlhood, hardwork, independence, confidence, girly motivation, discipline, etc. 💗

please reblog this post if you have a blog centered around personal growth, self love, positivity, health and wellness, femininity, etc. I'm looking for more people to connect with! ❤️

uhh... I have made a subliminal but idk whether I should post it here because it has a really loud voice backtrack (the chanting)...

I'm gonna post subliminals from now on...!~

A visual subliminal, just take a look at the picture, you've claimed your results~ ♡

(this pic is layered.)

Pretty isn't pretty without intelligence...~

Study, study, study... ♡⁠˖⁠꒰⁠ᵕ⁠༚⁠ᵕ⁠⑅⁠꒱

gonna start posting bout witchcraft too!!~ ♡

ugh, i need to start studying.

Ugh, the feminine urge... ♡

Self-prioritising >>>

🍀🍀MANIFESTING GOOD GRADES RN!!! 🙏🙏😭😭

Hot girls don't chase; we attract.

MANIFESTTTT!!!!

I love bsd sm it ain't even a joke anymore

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i n t r o d u c t i o n

I AM THE BIGGEST RYUUNOSUKE WORSHIPPER 😤😤😡😡🤬

(they're sooo cute omfg omfg 💞🎀✨)

My name is Ethereal and I LOOOVEEE bsd ♡

Im sooooo obsessed with this frickin show, it's not even a joke anymore (it was never a joke to even start with lmao)

Pls worship Ryuunosuke he deserves it .⁠·⁠´⁠¯⁠`⁠(⁠>⁠▂⁠<⁠)⁠´⁠¯⁠`⁠·⁠.

Btw, love y'all <3

♡ 𝓔𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓵 𝓗𝓮𝓻 ♡

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RYUUNOSUKE AKUTAGAWA, MY GOODNESS.

Just girly stuff... ♡

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♡ Study Tips That Actually Work ♡

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Here are some study tips that ACTUALLY work!!~ :-

• Blurting Method:-

Start by reading the topic and then the text or the information, skim over everything one by one and write down what you remember from what you've just read. Write the important information underlined and the normal information normally so that the underlined ones seem more stood-out.

Repeat this untill you've got the whole topic right.

• Teaching:-

When you understand a topic either perfectly or partly, try skimming over the topic repeatedly untill you're sure that you actually understand the information which you thought you have understood. Now go get a friend (and if you don't have one, go get your mommy or daddy and if they're busy, go get that c.ai bot or your sibling.) and start teaching them what you read and understood. This will improve your memory skills and improve the way you create and form information on your own based on what you have read.

• Hometests:-

If you don't have the patience to sit and learn complex stuff which are just too hard to remember, skim over them and try to understand each sentence, write down each one after each one and skim over through the information one last time before closing the book and writing the whole info without looking. After finishing the test, go get the textbook and correct your own answers. Study more on what you r got wrong and just skim over normally on what you've got right.

• Singing:-

You know what? Screw it. You memorise a whole Lana Del Rey's song just by hearing 4-5 times but can't memorise those History events? Sing. Pick a fav song of yours and connect your information (that you want to memorize) to the song. Like just sing along the tune of your fav song but with the lyrics which are the topic from your lesson that you wish to memorize. Sing and sing, then it'll get easyyyy!!~

So... That's all for this one!! Follow for more Study tips!~

by ♡ 𝓔𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓵 𝓗𝓮𝓻 ♡

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I decided to re-draw one of my previous drawings so here it is:

Old:

New:

let me now what you think!

Confessions from an emotional abuse victim:

#3 Real friendship

Due to my abuse coming from someone who I considered my 'best friend', as opposed to a partner or family member, after I broke out of the cycle of abuse, I had troubles with friendship.

I had become pretty separate from my friends I had before him, and I never thought I would ever actually need someone other than him anymore, so I didn't really try very hard to have other friends. At the end of that friendship, I had just entered a new little friend group because of my boyfriend, and I was also in a musical where I had found three people I really vibed with. Two of them are still some of my closest friends to this day.

Regardless of my shaky little support system, I still had a lot of trouble navigating friendship. I'm autistic and had just gotten out of one and a half years of covid isolation before I dove into an abusive friendship, so my social skills were not very great. The only two roles I knew in a friendship were leader and follower. As I tried to navigate friendships that weren't meant to hurt someone, I found myself making people uncomfortable a lot. I didn't know what to do or say, and I would go between either being really self centered or obsessing over the other person. I would hurt people without realizing and I became pretty isolated.

I spent most of the one year after leaving my abuser like that. I desperately tried to reach out and get people to enjoy my presence, but nothing I did seemed to work. It didn't help that I had gotten a silent reputation the year before when I pushed people away and blindly followed and backed up someone who everyone else could tell was a complete dickhead.

The one person who stuck by my side was my best friend. She took me under her wing and taught me some of the ways that friendship was supposed to look. I still have the memory ingrained in my mind of the one day we were in her basement building things with Lego, and she referred to me as her 'bestie'. I nearly broke down crying. My abuser had weaponized that term against me near the end of our friendship, saying that he hated when I called him my best friend. Hearing her say that was one of the most blissful moments of my life.

The next year, I decided to go to a different high school than pretty much everyone else from my middle school, including all the people I was friends with. I felt that I needed a clean slate, but I didn't really give myself one. I tried making friends, but after feeling even the slightest amount of push back from anyone, I would retreat. This left me with some people I didn't vibe with that well, but wouldn't reject me.

I stayed like that for a while, and was slightly miserable. I'm still not sure how it happened, but eventually near the end of the school year, I found my people. My friends right now are absolutely amazing people. I still mess up a bit, but I'm finally learning how real friendship works.

Navigating non-toxic relationships can become really hard after being in an abusive situation. It takes years, and many screw ups, but it's possible to become a better person surrounded by good people. As I continue to try and improve myself, I find that more people want to be around me. Improvement is possible, and will bring so many amazing new things into your life.

Having a husband who is constantly expressing his love and how attracted he is to me is so wonderful 😭 having struggled with weight and just not feeling my prettiest the last few years because of it has been rough. But never once have I had to question my husband's feels about me ❤️ I wish I could see me the way he see me because I would never have a single insecurity again

I believe in karma but I don't believe in wishing bad on people. Take what life throws at you, work to change yourself for the better, apologize for any wrong doings, and see how your life will turn for the better 😌

100 Things To Do Instead Of Doom-Scrolling Through Social Media

Read a book.

Write in a journal.

Learn to cook a new recipe.

Practice a musical instrument.

Start a DIY project.

Draw or paint.

Learn a new language.

Do a puzzle.

Exercise or do yoga.

Listen to a podcast.

Watch a documentary.

Play a board game.

Try a new workout routine.

Meditate.

Start a garden.

Plan a future trip.

Volunteer online.

Write a letter to a friend or family member.

Learn to knit or crochet.

Take online courses.

Practice photography.

Organize your closet.

Play video games.

Learn a magic trick.

Write a short story.

Create a vision board.

Make a playlist of your favorite songs.

Try a new hairstyle.

Experiment with makeup.

Learn to juggle.

Play a card game.

Do a home workout challenge.

Explore virtual museums or art galleries.

Do a digital detox day.

Learn calligraphy.

Rearrange your furniture.

Create a scrapbook.

Learn to play chess.

Write and perform a song.

Practice mindfulness.

Learn origami.

Plan a themed dinner night.

Do a home spa day.

Learn to code.

Play a musical instrument.

Build a blanket fort.

Take online dance lessons.

Research and try a new type of tea.

Learn about astronomy and stargaze.

Try a new board game.

Create a podcast.

Learn to solve a Rubik's Cube.

Start a blog.

Make homemade candles.

Research your family tree.

Practice a new type of art (e.g., watercolor, sculpture).

Learn to speed-read.

Write a poem.

Make a list of personal goals.

Learn to play a new card game.

Create a budget.

Build a puzzle or Lego set.

Learn to identify constellations.

Try a new fitness class online.

Make homemade pizza.

Experiment with DIY face masks.

Learn about a historical event.

Create a bucket list.

Learn to tie different knots.

Try a new type of workout (e.g., Pilates, kickboxing).

Create digital art.

Plan a themed movie marathon.

Learn to juggle.

Explore a new genre of music.

Write a letter to your future self.

Take up a new hobby (e.g., birdwatching, geocaching).

Research and try a new type of cuisine.

Make homemade ice cream.

Practice deep breathing exercises.

Create a photo album.

Try a new type of dance.

Write and perform a short play.

Learn to play a new board game.

Take a virtual tour of a historical site.

Make a time capsule.

Learn about different types of architecture.

Plan a virtual game night with friends.

Write and illustrate a children's book.

Try a new form of exercise (e.g., HIIT, Zumba).

Learn about different types of plants.

Create a DIY home decor project.

Plan a themed picnic at home.

Research and try a new type of dessert.

Practice positive affirmations.

Try a new type of puzzle (e.g., crosswords, Sudoku).

Learn about different types of birds.

Experiment with DIY skincare products.

Take up a new form of art (e.g., pottery, glassblowing).

Create a list of things you're grateful for.

Learn about a new culture.